THE MARTIN SHOW

In this conversation, I sit down with lawyer and creator Rāhui Eruera Iruera as we explore topics around Māori identity, success and the importance of staying true to who you are despite where you are in the world. We discuss why Māori achievement needs to be normalised, how being Māori can influence the way you’re perceived, and why we should learn to navigate both Māori and Pākehā worlds. We also unpack the pressure to be productive, the importance of surrounding yourself with aligned people, and how to stay grounded in your values.A conversation about identity, culture, success and knowing who you are. MANA!

In this conversation, matchmaker Amy B joins me to unpack the modern dating crisis, why dating apps may be making it harder to find genuine connection, and why more men are choosing to opt out of dating altogether.We discuss whether men or women are struggling more in today’s dating market, whether finding love gets harder as we get older, and what it really takes to build meaningful relationships.We also dive into what got Amy into this line of work and how what her own previous relationships have taught her about love.

In this episode, I sit down with Seb Serrano, also known as 9-5er for an honest conversation about the 9–5. We talk about whether a conventional life is really a mundane one, why doing more isn’t always the answer, and why learning to rest can be an act of self-love. Seb also opens up about his own lost phase, what helped him come through the other side, male depression, his Chilean whakapapa, and one of the things many of us struggle with most: receiving love.A conversation about slowing down, finding your way back to yourself, and questioning whether we’re actually living — or simply getting through the week.

In this episode, Daini Tuiqere opens up about rock bottom, fatherhood, and becoming the man he never had to look up to.We dive into how taking L’s taught him to stay calm in chaos, why he believes rock bottom can be a blessing, and what it means to “raise yourself” before becoming a dad. Daini shares his belief that a father can’t be half in, why being fully present matters, his experience of Saturn’s Return, why he hates New Zealand, and why successful people shouldn’t gatekeep what they’ve learned.A conversation about failure, fatherhood, resilience, identity, and becoming someone you’ve never seen.

In this conversation, Ethan opens up about growing up in Wairoa, being naturally shy, and the journey that took him from NIDA to seven years on one of Australia’s biggest TV shows, Home and Away.We talk about self-love vs self-care, learning to feel deserving of success, why we put people and achievements on a pedestal, and the importance of worrying less about what others think.Ethan also shares his proudest moment on Home and Away, his relationship with his brother, and how working on an Australian soap has helped him connect more deeply with his Māori culture.A conversation about identity, success, culture and becoming comfortable with who you are.

What happens when you begin to understand where you come from?In this episode of The Martin Show, I sit down with Tā moko artist Tristan Marler for a conversation about whakapapa (genealogy), self-worth, and how he found a deeper connection to te ao Māori through his art.We talk about Tristan’s own journey of reconnecting with te ao Māori, how that connection has enriched his life, and why he chose to deepen his understanding of te reo Māori.We also explore a question that sits at the heart of the conversation:Why do Māori undervalue themselves?Why can we struggle to recognise our own worth? Where does that come from? And what happens when we begin to understand the value of who we are, where we come from, and what has been passed down to us?We also get into tā moko — whether we need to “earn” the right to receive moko, what it represents, and the responsibility that can come with carrying something connected to your whakapapa.And finally, we ask a bigger question:What do young Māori men need most today?This isn’t a conversation about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions, reconnecting with where we come from, and remembering our worth.Know your worth. Know where you come from. MANA.

In this episode, I sit down with NZ actor Rueben Butler. We talk about the importance of having an open heart, why emotional intelligence is one of the hardest skills for men to develop, and how becoming a father can change the way we approach courage, challenge and responsibility.We also unpack the relationship between tuakana (big brother) and teina (little brother), our time working together in theatre, and some of the chaos we got up to along the way.

Today I sit down with filmmaker Tom Hern. Tom Hern is one of New Zealand’s leading filmmakers, but this conversation goes far beyond film. We explore sensitivity, healing, fatherhood, serving his mum through cancer, and why external success alone can never fill the void within. This is a conversation about purpose, love, and what it really means to become the man you’re meant to be.Follow us here:https://www.instagram.com/_themartinshow?

Dave Letele is an entrepreneur, activist, and founder of BBM. In this conversation, we talk about the hidden cost of leadership, why people will always judge you for chasing something bigger, why so many Kiwis are afraid to admit they want money, and the lessons fatherhood has taught him. Dave also opens up about going from wanting to take his own life in 2014 to finding purpose, faith, and a mission that’s changing lives.

Actor and musician Jordi Webber joins me for a conversation about ambition, creativity, identity, and what it really costs to pursue your dreams.We explore why some people hold onto their biggest dreams while others let them fade, the unseen realities of an artist’s life, and how chasing external validation can slowly disconnect you from yourself. Jordi also opens up about loneliness in his 30s, choosing life over constant work, finding alignment through knowing where you’ve come from and where you’re going, and why spirituality is ultimately the relationship you have with yourself.We also dive into the state of New Zealand’s creative scene, why artists need to speak up more, and how responsibility can cause many men to lose their sense of play.If you’ve ever questioned your purpose, felt the pressure to play small, or wondered what it really means to live authentically, this conversation is for you.