Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

Five orgasms later… and Pippa has quite a story to tell!This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Pippa get hands-on with the fascinating world of sensual massage. Well, Pippa certainly did!After undertaking an intimate, practical training experience with Colin Richards, founder of Intimacy Matters and the School of Sensual Massage, Pippa returns to the studio with some rather extraordinary revelations.What started as an exploration of sensual touch, intimacy and the art of giving pleasure turned into an experience that challenged expectations and left Pippa with plenty to talk about. And yes, the episode title might just give away how things went!Tom, naturally, has questions. Lots of questions.Together, they dive into the psychology of arousal, the difference between conventional and sensual massage, the importance of trust and communication, and why the art of touch might be one of the most underrated skills in our intimate lives.Is sensual massage simply an elaborate form of foreplay? Can it transform intimacy between partners? And just how much can you learn when you abandon your inhibitions and embrace the experience?Expect plenty of laughter, some wonderfully candid revelations, Tom's usual lack of filter, and perhaps a few things you never knew about sensual massage.Because sometimes, the most extraordinary connections begin with a simple touch.Find out more about Colin Richards and his work:Intimacy Matters: https://www.intimacymatters.co.ukSchool of Sensual Massage: https://www.intimacymatters.co.uk/school-of-sensual-massage/Talking Kinky — The Kink ChroniclesCurious minds. Open conversations. Absolutely no judgement.

Are You Kinky? Fetish? Or Taboo?This is a special epiosde as Pippa formally joins Talking Kinky as the new co-host and what a difference the team is feeling already. So, what exactly is kink? And more importantly, are you kinky without even realising it?In this episode of Talking Kinky, Pippa and Tom tackle one of the most fundamental, and surprisingly misunderstood, questions in human sexuality: What is kink anyway?Is it something you do, something you desire, or simply something that falls outside what society considers normal? Where does curiosity end and kink begin? What's the difference between a kink, a fetish and a taboo? And who gets to decide what's normal in the first place?With their trademark mix of honesty, humour, curiosity and a healthy dose of cheekiness, Pippa and Tom explore their own perspectives, challenge a few assumptions and attempt to arrive at a definition of kink that actually makes sense.Along the way, they introduce the Kink-O-Meter, a playful way to explore where you might sit on the spectrum, from mildly curious to wonderfully adventurous.Whether you're completely vanilla, quietly curious or proudly kinky, this episode might just change the way you think about your own desires.Because perhaps the real question isn't whether you're kinky. It's how kinky you are.Welcome to Talking Kinky. No judgement. No shame. Just honest conversations about the things we're all a little curious about.

Talking Kinky gets a little academic in this episode… although thankfully not too academic. Pippa, Tom and Colin dive into the results of Colin’s (Intimacy Matters) survey exploring hotwifing and cuckolding and some of the answers are genuinely fascinating.There’s plenty of laughter, the occasional TK lack of filters, but underneath it is something a little different for Talking Kinky: real survey data, psychology, unexpected statistics and a closer look at what may actually sit behind these fantasies. What motivates people?Where does jealousy fit?What about compersion, exhibitionism, trust, desire and the psychology behind watching or being watched?And importantly, the research isn’t finished.If hotwifing or cuckolding is part of your world, fantasy or curiosity, we’d love you to complete the survey and add your experience to the data. Oh and Tom actually completed the survey!Take the survey here:Hotwifing vs Cuckold vs ENM vs Swinging – Intimacy MattersSometimes fantasy is even more interesting when you look at the numbers.Intimacy Matters – Colin Richards

Would you really want to know every sexual fantasy your partner has? Pippa is back...This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Pippa get into dangerous territory: the fantasies we have, the secrets we keep, and whether total honesty is always a good thing.What if the person appearing in your partner’s fantasy is someone you both know? What if it’s your best friend? Is confessing that desire a sign of trust and intimacy, or the kind of honesty that can never be unheard?Tom and Pippa debate where openness ends and oversharing begins, why fantasy doesn’t necessarily mean intention, and whether couples should have the right to keep part of their erotic imagination completely private.And they’re not quite on the same page.Some fantasies are exciting to share. Others might change everything. So… do you really want to know?

Is the foundation of your intimacy being sabotaged by your lack of effort to create a space for intention and connection?In the opening episode of Season 13, Tom sits down with Pippa from Intimate Spaces to explore the fascinating intersection between interior design, intimacy, kink and self-expression.We talk about what it means to create a space specifically designed for pleasure and play, from subtle, beautifully designed rooms where everything has a hidden purpose, to more adventurous spaces built around the things their owners genuinely enjoy.Pippa shares how she approaches conversations that many people might initially find difficult or embarrassing, how good design can make intimacy feel more natural, and why creating an intimate space doesn't have to mean turning your bedroom into a dungeon.It’s a conversation about design, desire, discretion and the freedom that comes from creating a space in which you can truly be yourself.Whether you're simply curious, dreaming about your own private play space, or wondering just how far bespoke interior design can go, this is a fascinating way to begin Season 13 of Talking Kinky.Discover Intimate Spaces:https://www.intimatespaces.co.uk/Talking Kinky, real conversations about kink, intimacy, relationships and the people who make this extraordinary world what it is.

Taryn helps Tom understand women’s pleasure in a bit more detail...In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom is joined by Taryn, a somatic sex and relationship coach and founder of Alive With Pleasure, to challenge some of the most persistent myths surrounding women’s pleasure. Why are so many men taught to focus on performance rather than connection? Why is penetration so often treated as the main event? And how can couples communicate their needs without criticism, embarrassment or fear of ruining the mood?Taryn explores the importance of slowing down, listening to the body and creating the emotional safety that allows genuine desire and pleasure to emerge. The conversation also covers lubrication, body shame, orgasm pressure, asking for what you want and why great intimacy is less about technique and more about curiosity, presence and communication.An open, honest and deeply insightful conversation for anyone who wants to better understand pleasure, connection and the realities of women’s intimate experiences.Discover Taryn’s work: www.alive-withpleasure.com/

Sexsomnia: When Your Body Has Sex While You're Asleep - Tom meets Lacey a living breathing Sexomniac.What happens when your body becomes sexual while your mind is completely asleep?In this fascinating and deeply personal episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Lacey, who lives with sexsomnia, a little-known sleep disorder that can cause people to engage in sexual behaviours while asleep, with little or no memory of the events afterwards.Lacey shares her journey of discovering she had sexsomnia, the impact it has had on her relationships, the confusion and embarrassment that often accompanies the condition, and how she learned to navigate intimacy while living with a disorder that many people have never even heard of.Together, Tom and Lacey explore:What sexsomnia actually isHow it differs from sleepwalking and other parasomniasThe challenges it creates in relationshipsConsent, communication, and safety considerationsCommon triggers and treatment optionsThe emotional impact of living with a misunderstood conditionThe surprising science behind sleeping and sexual behaviourThis episode shines a light on a condition that sits at the intersection of sleep, sexuality, psychology, and human relationships. Whether you're hearing about sexsomnia for the first time or have personal experience with it, this conversation is eye-opening, educational, and surprisingly relatable.As always, Talking Kinky approaches the topic with curiosity, humour, compassion, and a commitment to helping people better understand the wonderfully complex world of human sexuality.Because sometimes the most surprising things happen when we're fast asleep. Lacey can be found here on Instagram

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom steps into the provocative world of the Mozambican professional dominatrix, Mistress Martina, for a raw and revealing conversation why her male clients love pain, humiliation, and domination. (Tom gets a provocative offer at the end of the episode, the question is will he take it?)Together Tom and Martina explore the psychology, pleasure, and power dynamics behind BDSM, uncovering how trust, consent, and control shape some of the most intense fetish experiences. From dungeon realities to emotional transformation, this episode delivers an unfiltered look into the art of professional domination. It’s a cracker !

What really happens behind the velvet curtains of London’s high-society sex club scene? With Isabelle out of commission for a while due to other commitments, Tom is going to be interviewing some special guests. So, in this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Jasmine to lift the lid on a world of elegance, secrecy, flirtation, and carefully negotiated desire. From cocktails and conversation to the rules of consent, safety, and discretion, Jasmine shares what it’s actually like to step into these exclusive spaces where sophistication and sexuality meet. Tom may even have a new wingwoman... if he ever frequents a sex club!Expect curiosity, candour, a few laughs, and a rare glimpse into one of the most intriguing corners of kink culture.

Sleep Tight… or Do You? | Exploring SomnophiliaIn this week’s episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore one of the more controversial and often misunderstood kinks: Somnophilia, the fantasy of intimacy with a sleeping partner.Handled with their signature blend of humour, curiosity, and honesty, the duo unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface of this taboo subject. Is it about vulnerability? Trust? Control? Or something deeper rooted in human desire and psychology?As always, this isn’t about shock value, it’s about understanding.Together, they explore:The psychological drivers behind somnophilia fantasiesThe crucial role of explicit consent and boundariesHow fantasy differs from real-world dynamicsWhy taboo desires don’t automatically make someone “wrong”And how couples can safely communicate about sensitive kinksExpect laughter, surprising insights, and a refreshingly open conversation that challenges assumptions while keeping things grounded and respectful. Tune in and join Tom and Isabelle as they shine a light on another corner of human desire, no judgement, just curiosity.