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This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leave you encouraged and excited. 00:00 Welcome and BIG Announcement 03:15 Last Episode Before the Break: Join Us on Patreon! 06:22 Delegation: The Key to Leadership and Capacity 18:06 The Power of Delegation and Trust in God 19:37 The Importance of Responsibility and Growth 21:03 Personal Delegation: A Strategy for Success 22:15 Personal Insights from Learning WHY To Delegate 25:18 Investing in Others Through Delegation 26:55 The Challenge of Delegation and Personal Growth JOIN THE SUMMER CHALLENGE HOSTED IN PATREON

In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture. 02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity 05:43 The Challenge of Leadership 07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ 11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit 19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcoming Insecurity 22:08 Battling Spiritual Warfare and Embracing Your 'Too Muchness' 22:42 The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability in Leadership 27:43 Peter's Journey: From Insecurity to the Rock of the Church 31:11 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Every Aspect of Life 32:10 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to the Community Join The Patreon Here! (We have a summer challenge coming you'll want to jump in on!)

Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including: the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope Follow Melissa on Instagram. Buy the book. Sisters, You Have Permission to Live An Ordinary Life

This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators that help you to identify or at least intentionally listen for the voice of God. 00:00 Recognizing the Signs 03:50 A Sign of Divine Stirring 11:54 The Power of Prayer + Community 15:06 Emotional Signals 19:09 The Fruit of the Spirit 21:36 The Gift of Restlessness 28:06 Seeking Clarity and Direction Join The SWHW Patreon

124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command. 01:25 Exploring Personal Responses to Quitting 04:24 The Signs of When to Quit: Boredom and Discontentment 12:47 Quitting When It's Hard 16:33 Confronting Rebellion and Avoidance 23:38 Evaluating the Urge to Quit 24:12 When Quitting is the Right Choice Join The SWHW Patreon

In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing the same thing. 00:48 Diving Into Our Diverse Career Histories 05:05 Embracing Being Set Apart in the Workplace 10:58 Mentorship Doesn't Require a Formal Invitation 14:42 The Power of Little Things in Making a Big Impact 18:53 Embracing the Small Things in Life 19:07 Learning from the Fashion Industry: Counting the Cost 22:49 The Leap to Gym Ownership 26:04 The Power of Contentment: Beyond Financial Success 31:05 Leadership Insights: The Value of Collective Wisdom 35:37 Reflecting on Lessons Learned and the Impact of Leadership Join The SWHW Patreon For More!

Yep, we're talking about the good ole' social media... again. But don't worry, Somer and Michelle are keeping it fresh with a nuanced approach to a spiritually healthy relationship with your internet friends and follows. Whether you're a content consumer, a content creator, or somewhere in between, we promise you'll be inspired, not beat up, by this conversation. 00:41 Diving Into the Social Media Dilemma 02:27 The Impact of Social Media on Spiritual Life 05:43 Evaluating Time Spent on Social Media 17:17 Navigating Personal and Professional Boundaries on Social Media 25:32 Practical Tips and Final Thoughts Join The Patreon! 

In this episode, Somer talks to her friend, Linda Lotich from Seedtime. Linda shares a little of her own story which has led her to a deep desire to see women not only feel permission to rest, but to understand that stepping away with the Lord, even from their own families, is vital to their soul and ministry. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction of Linda 01:46 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Moms 03:14 Linda's Personal Journey and Insights on Rest 08:31 Implementing Rest and Its Impact 16:31 Exploring Jesus' Example of Rest and Its Application 18:52 Practical Steps Towards Prioritizing Rest and God 21:58 Recognizing the Need for Rest and Turning to God 24:55 The Transformative Power of Rest and Prioritizing God 26:17 The Power of Prayer and Fasting in Jesus' Life 28:46 Embracing the Prodigal Son's Lesson: Everything God Has is Already Ours 33:33 Practical Tips for Deepening Your Prayer Life 40:12 Finding Rest in God Amidst Life's Challenges   Join The Patreon The Rest Of God by Mark Buchanan Learn More About Seedtime

In this episode Somer and Michelle address the issues of gossip and drama, particularly at the workplace, emphasizing why it can be a huge concern for everyone, but especially Christian women. They are breaking it all down and giving you some practical and realistic tools to help you avoid it.  00:48 Navigating Workplace Drama 02:08 The Spiritual and Moral Effects Of Gossip 12:37 Cultivating a No Gossip Zone 18:44 A Real Life Story 20:11 The Ripple Effect 20:12 Challenging Gossip: Strategies and Mindsets 21:35 Leadership's Role in Eliminating Gossip 25:52 Assuming the Best Is A Path to Freedom 26:54 Practical Tips for Gossip-Free Conversations 30:49 Looking For The Truth 32:32 Encouragement to Stand Against Gossip Join The Patreon for more on Gossip in our April Q&A!

In this episode, Somer welcomes her and Michelle's good friend, Lauren Diggs to discuss what it's like and what it takes to be confident when your parenting style and boundaries look different than the rest of the worlds. Lauren is a mother of 5 ranging in ages 9 to 32 and even a new grandma so she is speaking from a place of both experience and being in the trenches with you. Lean in! This is a good one. 00:35 Discussing the Challenges of Being a 'Strict' Mom 01:27 Meet Lauren 04:19 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting Styles 07:25 Adapting Parenting Approach for Different Children 10:31 Navigating The Hard Parts 20:08 The Role of Confidence in Parenting 25:31 Maintaining Open Conversations with Children 29:37 Understanding Your Child's Perspective 29:58 Teaching Kids to Make Beneficial Choices 30:23 Trusting God with Your Child's Journey 34:05 Q&A  52:26 Conclusion: Embracing Your Role as a Parent Join The Patreon Get The SWHW Book