Penny 4 Your Love Podcast

In this final episode of season 1 we reach a happy ending with all our guests. We share outtakes from our conversations of moments we didn't get to include in our episodes. Indie talks with Fist trainer Ricky from episode 1 about getting monkeypox, Indie discusses rent matters with window worker Kenya, Indie wondered about women's lust when talking to lesbian escort agency owner Lex, electrodom Levi shares combining being a teacher with being a sexworker, Indie and fetishbar owner Richard muze about the importance of age in sexwork, webcamgirl Christina and Indie share pete peeves in their client interactions, social worker of the Red Light district Heleen talks about what changed for her in 20 years of social work in sexwork, Indie shares an awkward paid threesome with sexshowperformer and escort Kinky Hopelezz and activist,escort and Onlyfans model Victoria shared some thoughts on religion. We hope to be back soon for Season 2 of Penny 4 Your Love. Until that time we are grateful for the opportunity to make this podcast with the help of the SWAD (Sexwork alliance destigmatisation)  We thank all our guests for being so open and sharing insights into their life, work, passion and perspectives and we thank you listener for opening your minds to their conversations. Sexworkers stories are myriad and their experiences diverse and deserve to be heard on their own terms instead of being filtered and framed solely through third parties, media and journalists who often problematize, sensationalize of victimize through their own preconceived notions on sexwork, prostitution and human trafficking. Sexwork is real work and we believe it needs to be treated as such. If you have any questions or comments about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

In this special extra episode Indie asked all the guests of season about their thoughts on the Law Regulation Sexwork, de WRS in Dutch. This law is being proposed by the current Dutch government to decriminalize sexwork. Since the upcoming law will be affecting all sexworkers in their work we wanted to know our guests' thoughts on the law and the specifics covered in it.  Also in podcast Under My Red Umbrella, Sexworker and jurist Niki talks to legal expert Rodney Haan from the CCV (Centre for criminality prevention and security). So please listen to those episodes if you would like to receive in-depth information about the law regulation sexwork. Do mind! This podcast is in Dutch.  If you have any questions or comments about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

Join host Indie as she sits down with Maxima for an enlightening and empowering conversation on this episode of our podcast. Maxima is a trailblazer and a true inspiration, having lived multiple lives and accomplished so much in her career as an open transwoman. From working as an escort and performer/producer in onlyfans to being the CEO of Miss Trans Star International in Barcelona. Maxima has always pushed boundaries and broken down barriers. And now, she also dedicates her time to advocating for trans and sex worker rights as the director of Proud, the dutch Adult Entertainment industry Union and a member of Transgender Europe, and has even written a self-help book called “ With me to Infinity, one-way ticket to love, accept and respect yourself) In this episode, Maxima, and Indie discuss a wide range of captivating topics, from the concept of the phallic woman, to the representation of transwomen inspirituality and religion, to the misconceptions surrounding the human trafficking narrative. Maxima  also shares a personal story about a time she flew to Dubai, which is both scary and hilarious. This episode is not to be missed for its thought-provoking insights, inspiring stories, and valuable perspectives on the trans community." You can follow Victoria on her Insta, twitter or Onlyfans account. If you have any questions or comments for Victoria or about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

In this episode Indie talks to social worker of P&G292 Heleen. Heleen has been a social worker to many a sexworker in the red light district for over 25 years and before has worked with sexworkers in the Amsterdam Tippelzone. She also is part of the confidential team and helps sexworkers in the more complex and difficult cases.  We talk with Heleen about how she tries to help sexworkers without taking away their agency and choice, how sexworkers sometimes have difficulty dealing with the stigma of being constantly considered a victim and shares one particularly harrowing experience of sexworkers in the Red Light District involving the police. 

In this episode Indie talks to Kinky Hopelezz. Kinky has done sexwork for more than 30 years and his work runs the gamut: from one on one's, fisting and group sessions to sexshows and massages. Indie talks with Kinky about his wonderful first experience with sexwork at the boys club, why the boundary between clients and friends isn't so strict for Kinky, what he finds important in his relationship with his boyfriend and one particularly amazing gift he once received from a friend/client. If you have any questions or comments for Kinky or about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

This episode Indie talks to the juicy camgirl with the sultry voice: Christina. Christina has been a camgirl for over a decade and knows all the ins and outs. They talk about the tough days 'at the office' that make you wanne smoke a spliff, the funny and endearing fetish requests she sometimes receives and one particularly touching online christmas encounter. If you have any questions or comments for Christina or about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

In this episode Indie talks to Richard. Richard runs fetish bar Church & gay Sauna NZ in Amsterdam, is also known as mother of House of Hopelezz, Jennifer Hopelezz, and is an outspoken activist for sex positivity and sexworkers rights.  Indie talks with Richard about the unwritten rules of the darkroom, the latest fetish craze of the meatmarket and how to keep Sauna NZ a safe space for gay men while still being inclusive.  If you have any questions or comments for Richard or about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

In the this episode Indie Nile speaks with the funny, friendly and disciplined fetish wrestler and dominatrix Miss Kayo Indie talks with Miss Kayo about how she oftenly kicks her clients in the nuts, why she won't be working for a brothel anytime soon and one particularly weird client interaction during grocery shopping. If you have any questions or comments for Miss Kayo or the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you.

This episode Indie talks to Levi is a sexworker who (lightly and expertly) electrocutes his clients for pleasure.   Transman Levi was very welcoming,  open and thoughtful. Indie talks with Levi about the struggle of combining a new relationship with his sexwork, how he is one of the only ones offering up the unique sexual niche of electro stimulation and the interesting connections between his autism and sexwork. If you have any questions or comments for Levi or the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email.  We'd love to hear from you.

In this episode Indie Nile speaks with cool, empathic and thoughtful lesbian escort agency owner Lex. She is owner of De Stoute Vrouw, an escort agency that for years now offers escort services to lesbian women and those who want to explore their sexuality.  Indie talks with Lex about how a lot of women seek out her escort agency to overcome bad experiences or trauma,  how most clients don't need to see any photo's of the escorts beforehand and why her favorite client was a 90 year old woman in the hospital.  If you have any questions or comments about the episode you can send us a DM @ Instagram or send us an email. We'd love to hear from you. Lex' escort agency is called de Stoute Vrouw.