Why I Love to Be F**ked Hard

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying.I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and relentless he can be.I especially need the hard stuff when something is stuck in me and I’m looking for a way to dislodge it.It could be a specific emotion that’s just lingering below the surface, like anger or sadness.I need someone to hold me down and fuck me.The best lovers do this for each other.You hold each other down and love the fuck out of each other.And fuck the shit out of each other—and by this I mean headboard-slamming sex and I also mean that by fucking each other with such intense love and admiration, you literally fuck the demons out of them. 

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara: Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozens of times in our sessions. We had one four-hour session where she had 37 orgasms. The G-spot, it’s my best friend. I can’t believe how it’s orgasm after orgasm. I fucking love the G-spot.”Multiple orgasms indeed. In this episode: 5 ways to orgasm together Transitioning from clitoral to G-Spot and cervical orgasms “Anal play was easier than we thought!”Orgasms clearing ancestral trauma The power of worshipping your partner’s genitals Having two hours of sex every day Embodying more masculine and feminine energies Your orgasms are a barometer for your connection Slowing down in sex to awaken Evolving from technique into pure flow and intuitive sexual brilliance Bringing back the primal, throw-you-down attractionEVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. it's the Anami Guarantee. I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers. 

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine.But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays all her demons.The kind of cock that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.I speak to my clients—and I know from my own experiences—that the stuff they've struggled with and applied so much willpower to—with no success—and tried so hard to fix with their minds and best efforts...all of that fell flat.Until they got well-f**ked.In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Keisha.I LOVE her story. She shares openly about the impact of being an underf**ked woman who was about to start taking antidepressants.And then some Supercock came along. And all was well in the world again.In this episode we cover:“I was a raging bitch and a ballbuster!”What a woman wants her man to do when she’s emasculating him“Birth control sent me into the depths of hell”A numb vagina meets a jade egg“I had a prescription for Zoloft in my hand”Diving deep into stuff they never talked about in seven yearsSobriety as a tool to go deeperArguments cease in a well-f**ked worldRestoring the natural masculine/feminine polarityHow long can you go without sex in a well-f**ked relationship before you notice the disturbance?The healing power of yoni and lingam massagesTossing the vibrator foreverMultiple G-Spot orgasms for herHis orgasm is “a thousand times more powerful than it was before.”The better option to prescription antidepressants or hormones or weight loss drugs“Every time, it gets better. Every time we think that the last time was the best time, then the next time beats it.”Two people coming together as one personTHE COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON IS NOW OPEN! 10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex you’ll learn: Sexual reflexology and massage techniques for the yoni and lingam My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms Supercock stamina techniques for men Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers And all my secrets to coming togetherhttps://kimanami.com/lovers

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in prayer all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t do Tantra. I do a modern, sophisticated version of it. I remove the fluff and cut to the chase. Don’t let the lack of incense and Mrs. Roper caftans fool you. In this episode: 6 steps for creating a Tantric relationship Healing sexual positions and sex as medicine Slow sex to go deep Vulnerability is the best armour Quick sex as a fear of intimacy Tantric telepathy between lovers Building up your pleasure endurance. How good can you take it? How much ecstasy can you receive? The #1 most important sexual skill men can cultivate My Coming Together for Couples Salon is Tantra 101 and Tantra 1001 nights. In this 10-week online salon, you’ll learn: How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals My sexual position prescription guide The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeatHow to transmute your sexual energy into more cash and abundance in your lives Registration is open now until. Signup: https://kimanami.com/lovers 

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session before dinner. A blow job in the car on the way to the dinner. This is what it looks like when your well-f**ked energy now fuels your lives. In this episode, Ida and her partner went from lackluster sex to an elevated sex life that is now able to: Heal her sexual trauma Grow his cock Make them richer Instantly remove her chronic vaginal pain Transform him into an alpha male Ignite her inner insatiability, so she wants sex all the time Have her find GodDrop excess body weight Calm their children and have them be better behavedHarness this energy to achieve their dreams and goalsEveryone can have this in their lives as their daily reality. It’s the Anami Guarantee. *** My Coming Together Salon for Couples opens for registration next week! You can signup to our email list to be notified of when the doors open. And, you can receive our free 7-Day Sex Cleanse and get a leg up on all the practices in the salon. This 7-day sex date will give you a taste of what we do, with emotional and sexual homeplay for the next week. You’ll learn: How to keep the simmer going 24/7The almighty G-Spot + Squirting 101Powerful stamina techniques for him Signup here: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!). How? By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives. We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magnetize massive business opportunities and boost their income exponentially. Remember our Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job episode? How could you ever forget? We’ve also watched people alchemize their trauma—even deep sexual abuse—through this work. THAT’S how powerful it is.You can do every one of these things through the power of the holy fuck.In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star couple Colleen and Jessie.They’ve learned to consciously direct their sexual energy and use it for everything from physical healing in their bodies (deep throating for the win!) and channeling this energy into their careers to make more cash.We cover: Life with three young kids and daily sex Religious upbringing: Sex is God’s gift vs. it’s shameful and bad Alchemizing stuck blocks Throat and voice restrictions Radical honestyWhat happens when a masculine woman meets a man more masculine than her? “He’s got it. He’s got me. I can completely trust him.” Daily sex. At least once a day. “The day normally starts off with some sort of blow job. That’s the wake-up.” Plugging into each other for energy Well-f**ked parents = well-behaved children “Even though there’s a storm of life going around me, I have a centering point. My penis is my centering point.”“Colleen might have had a rough day and she’ll say, “I need to suck your cock for five minutes and then go make dinner.”Band-Aids and quick fixes vs. permanent healingSignup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse. A weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: Ejaculate-soaked bed sheetsBroken bed framesBeing fully energized by each other's life force energyClearing of relationship blocksStronger staminaIncreasing trust, intimacy and opennessSky-rocketing libidosSignup here.https://kimanami.com/lovers

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? Your whole world and woman change. She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life. Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning. Now try having a productive day at work when she’s woken you up with a blow job. Getting and keeping your woman sexually and emotionally open and available to you is the life, business and high-performance hack you never knew you needed. **Join my free 7-day Sex Cleanse for Couples!In this 7-day relationship renewal sex cleanse, you and your partner will explore:Foreplay for epic sexHow to open her up, and keep her openThe art of all-night love makingHow to help your man fully occupy his masculinityWhat weekly 3-hr sex dates will do to your relationship

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and using your relationship as the power source that fuels your lives and elevates everything in your world. In this episode I’ll walk you through how to bring them into the fold, including: How to frame the conversation to open them to these ideas, rather than trigger their defencesMoving out of the norm of mediocre relationship into being the most well-f**ked couple around A curated list of podcast episodes to share with themWhat to do if they resist the call In addition to the podcast episodes I’m suggesting, which you can find on this page: kimanami.com/invitepartnerYou can also signup for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse that includes exercises you can practice together daily. 

Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may be a cuckold to your partner’s vibrator. In this episode: Relationship crutchesThe problem with vibrators Are you a cuck? If you’re having sex and you need to reach for your vibrator to “finish the job”, this is what you need to do Why do all the lesbian "sexperts" deny the existence of vaginal orgasms? How to bring a vagina back to life Building trust and intimacy We want it primal and messy yo The only time I ever recommend using a vibrator For the ultimate on vaginal self-knowledge, check out my Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/And, to deepen your intimate connection and truly come together, check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon. https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/You can find information on both of these, plus free video preview series with exercises you can practice tonight: https://kimanami.com/sexual-savant-salons/You’ll see my full array of offerings in the sex school everyone ought to have had. 

I often use the phrase #poweredbyvagina to describe how I have created my life and manifested my desired reality. From my vagina!By using my sexual energy as the PRO-creative power source it is. Being underfucked isn’t just NOT having sex. It’s not having any clue how to tap into and HARNESS your sexual energy. When people are chronically underfucked, they’ll manifest all sorts of symptoms. Depression Anger, irritability Career and financial stagnationWeight issues, from all the “baggage” you are carrying All reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. And I mean all: Difficult periods, PMS and menopause, growths, cysts, PCOS, endometriosis, low libido, lack of lubrication, not having orgasms, or only having clitoral orgasms, erectile issues in men. And the list goes on. This is when newly well-fucked people begin using phrases like: “It just came to me.” “It fell into my lap.”Because your lap is what attracted it! Today we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Star Rosie. She’s a manifesting maven. She manifested a year-long work sabbatical, an adorable French apartment, and a scathing hot new man. All from her turned-on vagina. **Vaginal Kung Fu is my legendary 10-week online program is where you learn to awaken and activate your vagina so that it functions as your compass and attractor.  Registration is open NOW and it closes tonight January 30th at midnight PST. In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn: My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadowBreast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  How to give a vaginal handjob How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sexual position mood guide. Signup at Vaginal Kung Fu.