Mess Magic Money

Yeah yeah yeah. You want to be a better person. You want to live your best life and all that stuff that Oprah talks about. But do you really? After all, just about anyone will tell you they wish things could be better. Or different. Or something. But my question is: How committed are you?  […] The post Ep #78: THE ART OF CONSCIOUS AND DELIBERATE SELF TRANSFORMATION appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

A woman said to me the other day, “I’m not interested in being powerful.” The statement made me curious about what having power meant to her. It made me protective of my own power. Shonda Rhimes, a powerful woman if there ever was one, was once quoted as saying: “I’ve seen plenty of powerful women […] The post Ep #77: BECOMING A PROSPEROUS CEO OF A COACHING BUSINESS appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

Have you noticed that whenever we want to change anything about our lives we tend to focus on getting something, or having something, or doing something? We put our attention on taking action. I have to eat less. I need to study more. I’ll just work harder. I have to get more clients. I need […] The post Ep #76: BE DO BE DO BE (Changing Your Emotional DNA) appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

Coaching can change your life in an instant. It can also make you a better coach.  In Episode 66 I told you all about my so-called Pam Slim Smackdown nearly a decade ago when I was in training to become “the best coach in the world!” Even back then I was living by my “be […] The post Ep #75: How Pam Slim Made Me A Better Coach appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

Did you hear the one about the woman who wanted to start her own business but she was so afraid to do it because, in her own mind, she’d already failed?   She said she couldn’t stop the repetitive (negative) loop in her head (the one that sounded an awful lot like her mom). It went […] The post Ep #74: How To FEEL So Much Better appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

Do you know someone who appears to be grouchy most of the time? It’s because they’re telling themselves a grouchy story day in and day out. People like that are kinda dangerous… they can mess up your day if you let them. Likewise, people who seem to be upbeat and positive? They can turn your […] The post Ep #73: There’s No Upside To That Dangerous Story You’re Telling appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

I love a good story, don’t you? So why do we tell such horror-able stories about ourselves? In Episode 72 of MESS MAGIC MONEY we’re going to take a closer look at the lousy no good rotten stinkin’ scary stories we tell and why you have to rewrite yours. Turn it into a romantic comedy. […] The post Ep #72: Your Lousy No Good Rotten STINKIN’ (HORROR) STORY appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

WHAT IF everything you say you want, all your plans, all your dreams… what if all of it is being contradicted by your subconscious mind? You can see the havoc that would cause with your life, right? That’s the thing though – you can say what you want, wish for it, dream about it, “law […] The post Ep #71: BELIEVING You Can have EVERYTHING You Want appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

Once you know what you want, how will you make sure you get it? In episode 69 of MESS MAGIC MONEY I gave you an assignment: articulate with clarity what it is you want. People will often lament the fact that life isn’t what they expected, but when you ask them exactly what it is […] The post Ep #70: HOW To Get Exactly What You Want appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.

You can’t have what you want if you don’t even know what you want. Sounds obvious, I know, but if I asked you right now what it is you really really REALLY want, how would you answer? Sometimes when I ask women this question someone will say something like, “George Clooney.” In other words, she […] The post Ep #69: Everything Worth Having Starts With “I Want” appeared first on LIN ELEOFF.