Mentality Podcast

Talking to boys about masculinities is challenging, complex, and deeply important. Join Lewis Wedlock and me for a candid and inspiring conversation on the realities of talking to boys (and girls) about masculinities in schools.It's a raw, honest, and much-needed conversation.Connect with meConnect with me on Instagram or BlueSkyYou can donate to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.About the guest - Lewis WedlockLewis is an academic and social psychologist. His work revolves around exploring and challenging structures that limit pathways to expressing one’s magnificence.He has spent the last five years providing culturally and compassion-centred training on masculinities to governments, schools, CICs, organisations and universities.Lewis is also the author of Masculinity in SchoolsLewis’ website: www.lewiswedlock.com/

🎙️ Season 4 kicks off with a powerful conversation!I’m joined by James Hawes to unpack one of our most misunderstood emotions for men, anger, and explore why it’s not something to suppress, but to understand and express.We dive into:What anger really is, and its different formsWhy anger can actually be good for youHow to express anger in healthy, constructive waysWhat happens when anger is ignored or bottled upThe cultural differences in how anger is shownTune in for a raw, insightful, and empowering discussion about turning anger into awareness and strength.Connect with meConnect with me on Instagram or BlueSkyYou can donate to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.About the guest - James HawesJames has been working as a counsellor and psychotherapist since 2004 and established Synergy Counselling, where he works with a broad range of clients. He is also a trained mediator.Apart from working in his private practice, he also works in Nottingham High School with teenagers for two days a week. James also runs workshops for teachers, counsellors and youth workers.James is also the author of The Secret Lives of Men.James' website: https://jameshawes.org/James' Instagram: @jamesrhawes

Join us for the final episode of Season 3, where Cedric and I dive into the importance of acknowledging and working through difficult emotions.Cedric opens up about his personal journey, including the emotional challenges he faced growing up in France and how they’ve shaped his perspective today.As we wrap up the season, I’d love to hear from you—whether it’s topic ideas, guest suggestions, or just a quick hello.Connect with me on socials (links below), and let’s keep the conversation going as we gear up for Season 4!Connect with meConnect with me on Instagram or BlueSkyYou can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.About the guest - Cedric BertelliOriginally from France, he is the founder of the Emotional Health Institute, operating in the USA, France, and Japan. A seasoned somatic practitioner, Cedric co-developed Emotional resolution® (EmRes®), a groundbreaking method for resolving debilitating emotional patterns. Cedric's website: www.cedricbertelli.com/aboutCedric's Instagram: @cedricbertelli

In this episode, I have a special appointment with the Harassment Doctor - Dr Enya Doyle.Trigger warning: we discuss the topic of sexual harassment in detail. It’s a holistic and detailed conversation that covers:•⁠ ⁠what sexual harassment is•⁠ ⁠the prevalence of sexual harassment of women, ethnic minority populations and men •⁠ ⁠⁠the multidimensional impact of sexual harassment•⁠ ⁠how to build trust with someone who has experienced sexual harassment•⁠ ⁠⁠what men can do to move beyond traditional stereotypes around masculinity which often restricts vulnerability and supportMost importantly, we delve into ways men can hold each other accountable and challenge harassing behaviour.Connect with meConnect with me on Instagram or BlueSkyYou can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.About the guest - Dr. Enya DoyleEnya Doyle is a trusted advisor and advocate specialising in anti-harassment, equity, and inclusion for values-driven companies worldwide. Visit Enya’s website: enyadoyle.comConnect with Enya on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/dr-enya-doyleFollow Enya on Instagram: @theharassmentdoctor/

We’re starting off 2025 with this brand new episode (and just after what was undoubtedly an expensive Christmas period for some) on achieving financial wellbeing.Arlyne and I are talking about what financial wellbeing is, and what practical steps you can take to improve your finances. We also talk about some gender stereotypes around money, explore various cultural perspectives on finances, and unpack why it's important to talk about money with family or even colleagues.I also drop a "fun fact" on financial independence and the law here in the UK.Check it out, you don’t want to miss this one!About the guest - Arlyne ChinyanganyaArlyne is an experienced accountant with over a decade of experience in finance, she's a qualified Chartered Institute of Management Accountant professional and holds a Money Guider certificate awarded by the Money and Pension service.During the pandemic, she founded Roots to Froots, a financial wellness platform dedicated to supporting the community with valuable financial knowledge, resources, and guidance.Roots to Fruits resourcesFinancial confidence courseFree workshops - available until April 2025Free Excel budget plannerConnect with me on Instagram or BlueSkyYou can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.

As we wrap up 2024, this episode is particularly significant. Join Petra and me as we explore the intricate world of romantic relationships for men. We’ll dive into:  •⁠ ⁠Diverse viewpoints on gender roles within couples •⁠ ⁠⁠The impact feminism, one's culture and society can have on the relationship•⁠ ⁠The challenges men face in navigating today’s relationship landscape  •⁠ ⁠The vital need for creating safe spaces in relationships where partners can freely express and share their thoughtsThank you for being part of this journey. I can’t wait to explore fresh and exciting topics with you in 2025!About the guest - Petra VelzeboerPetra is a renowned author, psychotherapist, TedX speaker, and the CEO of mental health consultancy PVL - www.petravelzeboer.com Connect with Petra on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/petra-velzeboer/Connect with me on Instagram or Twitter.You can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.

What does it mean for a man to possess masculine or feminine energy? Well, look no further, as in this episode Jindy and I discuss:•⁠ ⁠masculine and feminine energies •⁠ ⁠⁠the difficulties of expressing masculine or feminine energies in today's world •⁠ ⁠⁠how to nurture one’s primary energy and express freely In closing, we briefly touched on male privilege and the 4 billion ways to be a man.About the guest - Jindy MannJindy is the founder of 'Leader Brother Son' - a space where he and his team create spaces for men to discover expressions of masculinity that serve them and the world around them.Jindy facilitates men’s groups and has built an online global community for men, called Kinship.ResourcesWhat’s healthy about masculinity? (This article is meat-free) (blog)Connect with me on Instagram or Twitter.You can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.

I'm continuing the conversation on migration from the views of those who moved to the UK, their stories, and the impact migration can have.We chat about how:having different religious backgrounds impacts one's experience of integrationone's views of masculinity can change due to migration stereotypes about being a man ResourcesWhy it doesn't matter where I'm from (blog)Hear Our Stories: An Exploration of Migration, Identity and Hope (book)The Good Immigrant by Nikesh Shukla (book)Connect with me on Instagram or Twitter.You can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.

Migration, migration, migration.We often hear the perspectives of host countries and how they feel and view migration - the good and the bad.  In this episode, I turn my attention and the mic to those who have migrated to the UK. The guests share their stories and views on the topic, and the impact migration can have on one's mental health.We chat about:What migration is and the stages of migrationFirst hand experiences of migrationHow migration can affect one's mental healthResourcesHear Our Stories: An Exploration of Migration, Identity and Hope (book)The Good Immigrant by Nikesh Shukla (Editor) (book)Dinner for Loners (campaign)Connect with me on Instagram or Twitter.You can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.GuestsMorshed AkhtarA thespian, who always worked in finance. He is a British citizen of Bangladeshi descent, married and has two boys and a cat.Keshav ShreeAn A&E NHS Doctor, Filmmaker and Actor. In his own words. His films and characters are rooted in mental health issues and socio-political topics. Teresa NormanDiversity and Inclusion Consultant, and CEO of TogetherInTheUK, an organisation telling stories of migration for the last 8 years. 

We naturally crave community and connection, yet many of us feel disconnected and lonely despite the high level of interaction on social media. We may sometimes feel distant and unable to reach out to people from our workplace, community, friendship groups, and sometimes even our family. This can negatively impact our mental health.The points John-Paul Davies and I talk about are:•⁠ ⁠What makes us feel lonely?•⁠ ⁠⁠What can we do about it?•⁠ ⁠⁠How does loneliness affect men? The key takeaway from this episode is that to be connected with others, and less lonely, one needs to prioritise time to connect with oneself.John-Paul is an experienced therapist, and has worked as a solicitor for the first half of his career. He has published a self-help book, Finding a Balanced Connection, and written about a range of wellbeing and psychological topics. Connect with me on Instagram or Twitter.You can make a donation to support the podcast at Ko-Fi.