What's a nice guy and why nice guys should finish last because they're dangerous

Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration.Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs?IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both.Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting.Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of relating.

Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career.Rejection can be crippling, and we talk about strategies to make sure it doesn't stop you.

James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance.”There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the name of the game.

Tanja's new guest is James Deirmendjian https://www.facebook.com/fightfittPhilosopher, and founder of Fit Fight Training, James is a sports-performance coach for BJJ fighters and first responders.I invited him to the show because he had some exciting things to say about men, desire, and aggression... and some pretty fancy vocabulary to boot.