Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Going through a divorce is hard enough without having the realization that you may enter the court system for the first time! Hiring an attorney may be part of your divorce process. However, you likely have many questions about that process. In this episode, we discuss: 🎙️ When should you hire a divorce attorney?🎙️ Where should you look for a divorce attorney?🎙️ Who should you hire as a divorce attorney?🎙️ How are you doing to hire them from a cost perspective?🎙️ Why is it so important to get the right attorney at the right time?🎙️ Why you cannot afford to get this hire wrong!🎙️ AND SO MUCH MORE!For more information and to join our Men's Divorce Support Group, go to ⁠www.mensdivorcenetwork.comStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Divorce is scary without children. Add children into the mix, and it is downright terrifying for many men. Should you be concerned? Do men really get screwed in divorce? In this episode, we discuss:🎙️ The different kinds of custody🎙️ How parenting time schedules are put together🎙️ The best way to get divorced for the children🎙️ Fighting now versus fighting later🎙️ Not turning your custody fight into a math problem🎙️Taking personal responsibility for your own decisions...AND MUCH MORE...Need help navigating divorce and getting a better result? Visit MensDivorceNetwork.comStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship—it’s the beginning of rebuilding a life that finally feels like yours.In this episode, personal development coach Katie Jordan joins us for an honest and heartfelt conversation about grief, growth, and finding clarity after divorce. Katie opens up about the wave of personal loss she endured and how she found her way through all of it while becoming a more present, purposeful parent and a guide for others going through similar pain.She shares what it really looks like to rebuild your life when you're emotionally wiped out, how to parent with intention even when it’s hard, and why giving yourself grace is key to moving forward. If you're struggling to trust yourself again, to stop caring what others think, or to simply figure out the next step, this episode is for you.In this conversation, we discuss:✅ How Katie turned deep grief and divorce into a new purpose✅ What helped her build a peaceful co-parenting relationship with her ex✅ How to talk to your child about divorce (and what not to do)✅ Setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and keeping kids out of adult issues✅ Learning to trust yourself again when everything feels uncertain✅ Why building a support system is essential and how to find your “tribe”✅ Tools Katie uses to help clients stop people-pleasing and start rebuilding confidence✅ Creating structure with small daily habits that lead to big transformation✅ Reprogramming your mindset with routines, affirmations, and intentional self-talk✅ What real self-reflection looks like and why it's the foundation for your next chapter✅ Why coaching works✅ And so much more!If you're ready to move from heartbreak to healing, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you take the first step forward.Follow Katie on Instagram: @butterflytribeblueprint https://www.instagram.com/butterflytribeblueprint/Find Katie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KatieKuhnJordanStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

From growing up in poverty in the Philippines to building a thriving wellness business in the U.S., Regie Tiu is the definition of resilience. In this episode, he shares how he went from rock bottom, with just $50 in his pocket, to becoming a successful entrepreneur and divorced dad who’s living life on his own terms.Regie opens up about his humble beginnings, how childhood adversity shaped his mindset, and how he rebuilt his life and business after going through one of the toughest personal challenges: divorce.This is an inspiring and deeply honest conversation about the lessons no one teaches you—about marriage, fatherhood, self-awareness, and the power of personal development. If you’re a man navigating life after divorce and wondering what’s next, this episode is for you.In this episode, we talk about:✅ Regie’s powerful story of overcoming poverty, bullying, and adversity✅ How growing up in the streets of Manila prepared him for entrepreneurship✅ Why personal development is critical for growth—both in life and in relationships✅ The importance of company culture and hiring people who align with your values✅ What he wishes he knew before getting married✅ Cultural pressures, family dynamics, and how they impacted his relationship✅ How money (and avoiding hard conversations about it) affected his divorce✅ The dangers of ignoring red flags before marriage✅ Why it’s smart to consider living together before tying the knot✅ His take on prenuptial agreements and why finances must be discussed openly✅ The damage that comes from avoiding responsibility as a father after divorce✅ His honest advice for men who are dating, divorcing, or healing✅ Why emotional fitness is just as important as physical fitness✅ And much more!Don’t miss this conversation—it’s real, raw, and packed with wisdom for any man looking to rebuild stronger after divorce.⭐ Special Offer from Regie Tiu – Exclusive for Our Listeners ⭐Regie is offering an exclusive opportunity to support you on your journey forward. If you’re in the healthcare field and own a practice, he’s offering a free scholarship to his membership program, where he helps practice owners grow their businesses without burnout. Not in healthcare? No problem—Regie is also offering a free one-on-one call to listeners outside the industry who need guidance, inspiration, or someone to talk to.To apply, message Regie directly on Instagram, Facebook, or LinkedIn and share why you believe you should receive the scholarship. Follow Regie on Instagram: @regie.tiu https://www.instagram.com/regie.tiu/Find Regie on Facebook: @regie.tiu8 https://www.facebook.com/regie.tiu8Find Regie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/regietiu/Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Did you know that divorce can be influenced by your diet and exercise? A big part of protecting your sanity is making sure that your mind and body are right. In this episode, we discuss things you can do to keep your mind in top shape as you approach divorce.For more help, visit www.MensDivorceNetwork.com

This week, we’re diving into the unpredictable real estate market with Brittany Racine — a powerhouse realtor, TV host, and single mom who’s no stranger to starting over. After going through a tough divorce and a failed business, Brittany turned her setbacks into fuel for her comeback.In this candid and insightful episode, Brittany breaks down what’s really happening in real estate right now and what you need to know if you’re selling or buying a home during or after divorce.We talk about:🎙️ Why this spring has been one of the strangest real estate seasons in years🎙️ What’s really driving the market’s uncertainty — and how to stay smart in the chaos🎙️ Whether now is the right time to sell or buy (and what to watch out for)🎙️ Why divorcing couples should never advertise they’re getting divorced when selling a home🎙️ How to choose a realtor with the right experience🎙️ The truth about commissions from a realtor’s point of view🎙️ Tips for avoiding disputes with your ex over the home sale🎙️ How staging affects your final sale price🎙️ The collaboration between realtors and real estate attorneys🎙️ The key terms divorcing couples should agree on before listing their home🎙️ How Brittany turned her own divorce into a stepping stone for success — and what she wants others going through divorce to knowWhether you’re thinking about selling your marital home or just want to make smarter real estate decisions during a transition, this episode is packed with tips, red flags, and inspiration.Learn more about Brittany at linktr.ee/brittanyracineFollow Brittany on Instagram: @brittanyracine_ https://www.instagram.com/brittanyracine_/Follow Brittany on TikTok: @brittanyracine643 https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanyracine643Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

What does it really mean to be a man after divorce?In this deeply insightful episode, high-performance leadership coach and long-time men’s group facilitator Lee Povey joins us to explore how men can reclaim and redefine their identity post-divorce. Drawing from nearly 30 years of leading men’s support groups, as well as his own life experiences—including growing up with a narcissistic father and going through personal transformation—Lee brings honest, empowering insight to the conversation around modern masculinity.If you're a man who feels confused, lost, or emotionally drained after divorce—even though you did “all the right things” like providing, working hard, and checking the boxes society told you to—this episode is for you.We talk about how to rebuild from the inside out, what it truly means to live as an authentic man in today’s world, and how finding the right kind of support can change the game for you as a father, partner, and human being.In this episode, we discuss:✅ Why being a man today looks so different than it did for previous generations✅ The cultural pressure on men to "provide" rather than connect—and how that disconnect shows up in relationships✅ How to reframe your sense of identity and purpose after a painful divorce✅ Why emotional expression and self-reflection are strengths, not weaknesses✅ What authentic masculinity actually looks like—and why it’s different for every man✅ Why support groups and community are essential for a man to heal after divorce✅ Tips for finding the right group or therapist to start your healing process✅ The harmful influence of social media on men’s mental health and self-image✅ What first steps you can take to begin working on yourself✅ Recommended resources to start your emotional growth journeyThis conversation will challenge you to think differently about who you are and who you want to become. Don't miss it! To learn more about Lee and his coaching programs, go to https://www.leepovey.com/Follow Lee on Instagram: @leepovey https://www.instagram.com/leepovey/?hl=enStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

What happens when a professional nanny becomes a divorce lawyer who advocates for dads? You get someone who really gets parenting after divorce—and today’s guest does exactly that.In this episode of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, we are joined by Ariel Peres, Esq., a California-based family law attorney who represents men in divorce and custody disputes. Before she became a lawyer, Ariel spent over a decade as a professional nanny, including for families going through divorce. She’s seen firsthand what helps kids thrive—and what doesn’t—when parents split.We dive into practical and empowering advice for fathers who want to show up for their kids, get a fair outcome, and navigate co-parenting like a pro, especially when false allegations or outdated assumptions get in the way.We dive into:✅ What Ariel learned about kids and parenting through divorce after being a professional nanny for 14 years✅ The #1 issue men face when they become single fathers✅ How to respond to common parenting criticisms against dads in custody disputes✅ Why mastering day-to-day parenting tasks is crucial for more parenting time✅ What you need to ask and think about before agreeing to a time-sharing schedule✅ Steps men can take before divorce begins to increase the chances of a fair custody outcome✅ Why asking for help is a strength, not a weakness—and how a divorce coach can make a difference✅ Smart timing for introducing your new romantic partner to your kids (hint: don’t rush it)Whether you’re already in the thick of it or just starting to think about divorce, this conversation offers actionable tips, smart strategies, and a refreshing perspective that puts kids—and your relationship with them—first.Learn more about Ariel and her areas of expertise here: https://www.peresfamilylaw.com/To book a consultation, email Ariel first at [email protected] Ariel on Instagram: @arielfayewilliams https://www.instagram.com/arielfayewilliams/Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Divorce can take a heavy toll—not just on your emotions, but also on your physical health. If you’ve found yourself out of shape, drinking too much, or struggling to take care of yourself, you’re not alone. Many people let their fitness slide during and after divorce, but the good news is that it’s never too late to turn things around.In this episode, we sit down with Aaron Maltz, Founder and Head Fitness and Conditioning Coach at FitLabb, and divorced father of two, who knows exactly what it’s like to start over. After his own divorce, he found himself in a rough spot physically and mentally, but through consistency and the right approach, he got back in shape and rebuilt his confidence. Now, he’s here to help you do the same.What you'll learn in this episode:✅ How to start getting fit again after years of neglect✅ Aaron’s personal story of losing and regaining his fitness post-divorce✅ How to avoid common fitness myths and find trustworthy resources✅ The best types of workouts for getting back in shape✅ How to overcome gym anxiety✅ Simple ways to track your progress ✅ Home workout options if you don’t have access to a gym✅ The role of cardio vs. weight training✅ How to start eating better without feeling overwhelmed✅ The truth about new weight-loss drugs✅ How to prevent injuries and ease into a new fitness routine safelyRebuilding your health after divorce isn’t just about looking better—it’s about feeling better, regaining your confidence, and creating a lifestyle that supports your long-term well-being. The journey back to fitness doesn’t have to be complicated or extreme. Small, smart changes over time can completely transform how you feel—physically, mentally, and emotionally.If you’re ready to start feeling stronger, healthier, and more in control of your body, don’t miss this episode!Learn more about Adam and his company here: https://www.fitlabb.com/Check out Adam's helpful programs to help you achieve your fitness goal: https://www.fitlabb.com/programs/Follow FitLabb on Instagram: @the_FitLabb https://www.instagram.com/the_fitlabb/?hl=enFollow Aaron on Instagram: @aaron_cars_fitness https://www.instagram.com/aaron_cars_fitness/Find FitLabb on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FitLabb#Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Co-parenting is never easy, but when tensions run high, conflict can take over and create lasting emotional damage—especially for your children. In this episode, we’re joined by Dorcy Pruter, Founder and CEO of the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute, to explore the complexities of co-parenting in high-conflict situations, the dangers of parental alienation, and how you can become the best parent possible for your child's well-being.Dorcy is a leading expert in reunification coaching and co-parenting education, helping parents and children stay connected during and after difficult divorces. Her mission? To end parental alienation by providing parents with the tools they need to navigate custody disputes, heal from past trauma, and foster a positive, healthy relationship with their children.In this episode, we discuss:✅ How Dorcy's personal experience with parental alienation shaped her career✅ Parental alienation and how it develops in high-conflict divorces✅ The “chosen” vs. “allied” parent dynamic✅ How past emotional wounds can drive toxic co-parenting behaviors✅ Protecting your children: Why it’s critical to avoid involving kids in adult issues✅ Recognizing warning signs of alienation✅ What to do if you’re being alienated✅ Practical advice for creating a peaceful, stable environment for your children✅ How to introduce a step-parent without causing unnecessary conflict or resentmentIf you're struggling with a difficult co-parenting relationship, worried about parental alienation, or simply want to ensure your child grows up feeling loved and secure, this episode is a must-listen.Learn more about Dorcy at https://consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/Check out all of Dorcy's helpful programs here: https://consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/programs/Access her "Reconnecting After Divorce" FREE Guide here: https://enroll.dorcyinc.com/reconnecting-after-divorce-guideStay tuned for more empowering conversations!