What Children Notice When Adults Say Nothing
Children don't need adults to explain that race matters before they begin noticing it. They pick up on what happens around them, how people treat them and even what adults leave unsaid. In this episode, host Dianne Haulcy talks with Sondra Samuels, co-founder, president and CEO of the Northside Achievement Zone in North Minneapolis, about how early experiences with race can shape the way children see themselves and their place in the world. Samuels shares how moving from a predominantly Black community to a predominantly white suburb in third grade changed her understanding of race and her own abilities and how those experiences stayed with her into adulthood. Together, they reflect on growing up without adults to help them process difficult experiences around race and what that can teach us about children growing up today. Six years after the murder of George Floyd, they explore what Minneapolis children may still be carrying, why adults need to talk honestly with children even when they don't have all the answers, and how families and communities can help children feel safe, valued and hopeful in a world that can sometimes feel frightening.GuestSondra Samuels is the co-founder, president, and CEO of the Northside Achievement Zone (NAZ), a nationally recognized nonprofit working to end multigenerational poverty and create pathways to prosperity through education, family stability and racial equity. Since co-founding NAZ in 2009, Sondra has brought together families, schools, nonprofits and community partners across North Minneapolis to ensure children have the support they need to thrive from cradle to career. A longtime North Minneapolis resident, she is a national leader in place-based solutions, systems change and educational equity. Under her leadership, NAZ has become a national model for community-driven transformation, earning recognition including a federal Promise Neighborhood designation. Sondra has also been named to TIME’s inaugural Visionaries list and serves as a senior fellow with Harvard’s Education Redesign Lab. She continues to advocate for policies and partnerships that help children, families and communities reach their full potential.Discussion GuideEpisode ResourcesNorthside Achievement Zone – Sondra’s organization works with North Minneapolis families through a network of schools and community organizations, supporting children from before they enter school through college and careers. Its approach goes beyond academics to include housing, career and financial support, mental health resources and other services. “Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? And Other Conversations About Race” by psychologist Beverly Daniel Tatum – This book explores how racial identity develops, particularly during childhood and adolescence, and why people often seek connection with others who share their racial experiences. The book explains how racism, stereotypes, and social environments shape our understanding of race and offers guidance for having honest, meaningful conversations about racial differences. “The Danger of Being ‘Color Silent’: Talking about Race with Young Children” – In this episode of Early Risers, psychologist and author Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum explains how children begin absorbing messages about race as early as age three or four and why staying silent about race can reinforce harmful stereotypes. She shares practical ways parents and caregivers can talk openly about racial differences, answer children's questions, and help young children develop a positive sense of identity and belonging. “Conversations That Matter: Talking with Children About Big World Issues” from the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) – This article explores why silence can be harmful when children witness racism, injustice or frightening events. The National Association for the Education of Young Children explains how avoiding difficult conversations can leave children feeling anxious, confused or afraid to ask questions. It offers guidance for helping young children understand what they see and hear through honest, age-appropriate conversations.