Dating Done Right with Jas

At this point, I'm sure we've all seen a couple or viral post sharing some form of ethical non monogamy or poly relationship. Everyone has their own views, but we can't deny there is a growing group of people exploring more non traditional relationships. This episode was done to educate as well as give space to black voices in non monogamous relationships. The Ruffs are a young couple who have been married for 8 years and practicing some form of ethical non monogamy almost half the time of their marriage. Check out the episode to learn about why they chose a polyamorous relationship and how you can know if its the right choice for you.   You can find The Ruffs via their IG @ rufftalk247 You can also get my friend training to attract masculine energy men at attractanalpha.com

Confidence is probably the most important trait when it comes to attraction. It’s also one of the few areas of attraction that we can control. You can’t control your height, natural body type, complexion, hair color and texture or any of the other areas that play a role in attraction. The good news is confidence usually outweighs the other areas of attraction that are out of our control. We all know people madly in love with someone that's not usually their “type”. However, the confidence of that person draws them in. In contrast, lack of confidence can make a beautiful person look average. If you don’t think you’re beautiful, most people will end up agreeing with you. I wanted to do an episode about confidence, because it plays a tremendous role in your dating life. I’ve worked with women whose confidence slowly drifted away after she found herself single for a while or had been in a relationship with someone who broke their confidence. The reality is confidence is a learned behavior. Our thoughts are either building confidence or breaking it down. In this episode, Professional Plus Model, Mersy Hogan, shares how she maintains her confidence in the cruel fashion industry. As a confidence coach, she shares tips you can use to build confidence and improve your dating life. To learn more about Mersy and get more confidence tips, visit www.mersyhogan.com Email her at [email protected] Follow her on Social at @mersyhogan And if you’re a successful business woman who would like tips on attracting masculine men, get my free training at www.attractanalpha.com For daily dating tips, follow me on IG at @jasloveslove

As a matchmaker, my successful black women clients are often looking to meet men they’re compatible with. They want to meet men whose incomes and ambitions are comparable to their own. Of course, we know there is a long history that plays a role in why these men seem hard to come by. However, one of the most successful groups of men in this country are actually a group of black men, Nigerian men. It’s not completely uncommon for black American singles to date other black cultures, but there is still a lot we don’t know about other black cultures. For this reason, some black America singles avoid those cultures out of fear of the unknown. This episode is really to help single, black women who are looking to meet men that 1. Are ambitious and financially secure 2. Will not be intimidated by her success. Generally speaking, Nigerian men are all of the above. In this episode, we discuss the similarities, differences, pros, and cons of dating Nigerian men. We even share where you can meet them. So, if you’re a professional black woman that has found it challenging to meet black men that will match your grind or even inspire you, check out this episode. If you are looking to learn how to cook African, Caribbean, or International foods, hit up Oja Express. You can shop by recipe! www.ojaexpress.com AND, if you’d like Matchmaker tips on meeting more men you’re compatible with, get my FREE training at  www.attractanalpha.com  

On this episode, Jas invites Intimacy Expert, Yanni Brown, to help women improve their sex life. Yanni also gives men tips on how to bring their female partner to orgasm. The two discuss topics such as feminine energy, kegel muscles, clitoral vs g-spot stimulation, toys, and Yanni's signature scavenger hunt.