Charlotte and Anwar

In this follow-up to Episode 16.2, I sit down with my dad to talk about how he approached raising kids with confidence, discipline, and love. We talk about the intentional (and sometimes hilarious) ways he tried to instill a strong mindset in all five of us—and how that shaped who we became.Some of the things we touch on: • Using mantras and affirmations to build confidence • Balancing discipline with patience • Why presence matters more than perfection • Making sacrifices for your kids (and what that really looks like) • The role faith played in our family dynamic • What he hopes we carry forward into the next generationIf you’re thinking about how to raise strong, grounded kids—or just wondering what it looks like when a dad really shows up—this one’s worth watching.#DadAdvice #FatherhoodWisdom #RaisingKidsRight #ParentingWithPurpose #BlackFathersMatter #AffirmationParenting #FamilyLegacy #GirlDadEnergy #FaithAndFatherhood #IntentionalParenting #Episode16 #ParentingJourney #GrandparentWisdom #BabyOnTheWay

In this episode, we sit down with my mother in law to talk about parenting—before, during, and after the baby years. She had five kids (even though she only planned for two!) and somehow managed to raise us all with love, structure, and a sense of humor.We talk about: • How she stayed calm through pregnancy and raising little ones • The importance of parents staying on the same page • Letting kids help out early and why it builds character • Keeping kids busy (and out of trouble) • How faith helped guide her through parenting • Why it’s okay to admit you don’t have control over everythingShe shares what worked, what didn’t, and how she navigated parenting before Google, tracking apps, and percentile charts. If you’re a new parent feeling overwhelmed, or just curious about what lessons still hold up, this one’s for you.Don’t expect perfection. You weren’t perfect either. How do you feel about this comment, that really stuck with me.#MomAdvice #RealTalkParenting #PregnancyChat #NewMomTips #FamilyWisdom #BlackMomsMatter #ParentingWithFaith #ChoresAndCharacter #GenerationalParenting #BabyOnTheWay #RaisingKidsToday #ParentingPodcast #HonestMotherhood

In this episode, we sit down with my Indian mom to talk about what motherhood really looked like before Google, parenting apps, or Instagram advice threads. She raised five kids (and now has 14 grandkids!)—so yeah, she’s seen some things.We talk about:Staying calm when pregnancy throws curveballsSetting boundaries and raising kids with structureWhy parents need to present a united frontSpiritual grounding and the long game of parentingAnd what she really thinks about modern parenting stylesIf you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by information or just needed to hear, “You’re doing enough,” this episode is a warm, funny, and honest reminder that mothering may evolve—but some truths don’t change.#HelloFromTheMothersSide #IndianMomAdvice #MotherhoodPodcast #DesiParenting #ParentingWisdom #MomKnowsBest #RaisingKids #CulturalParenting #FamilyTalk #PregnancyAdvice #NewParentJourney #BrownMoms #ParentingWithLove #OldSchoolMom #PodcastEpisode

As we count down the days to meeting our baby girl, we’re having some real (and necessary) conversations about what it means to raise a daughter in a world where colorism still exists.In this video, we open up about our hopes, our fears, and the importance of celebrating every shade of beauty — especially for our little one. From personal stories to cultural reflections, we’re keeping it honest, heartfelt, and just a little bit funny (because parenting is already wild enough!).Because the truth is, sometimes you have to watch out inside the home just as much as outside of it — and that’s part of what makes these conversations so real and so necessary.✨ Join us for a candid couple’s chat about skin tone, self-love, and how we plan to protect and empower our daughter from day one.💬 Drop your thoughts below — how are you having these conversations in your home?#Colorism #ParentingJourney #GirlDad #MelaninMagic #BabyOnTheWay

Second Babymoon in St. Martin 😎👶💼 | He’s Guilty, I’m GlowingWelcome to our second babymoon—because why not celebrate every trimester with a tropical escape? We’re in beautiful St. Martin, soaking up the sun, pretending to relax, and watching my husband slowly unravel under the weight of vacation guilt 😂He’s having an existential crisis about not checking his email, and I’m over here living my best pregnant life with zero shame, extra dessert, and a beach hat the size of a satellite dish.Come along as we lounge, laugh, and try to make memories before we’re officially outnumbered. Warning: lots of bump shots, and one man trying really hard not to think about work.#SecondBabymoon #StMartin #MomLife #DadGuiltIsReal #PregnantAndProud

This week, we’re talking about what it really feels like to be this deep into the pregnancy — waddles, stretch marks, dreams, doubts, and all.As two physicians becoming first-time parents, we’re used to being on the other side of the hospital bed. But now that the birthing class is done, the OR has been toured, and the crib is built, everything suddenly feels real.We open up about:What it’s like shifting from doctor to patientNesting instincts (and moving books for no reason)The joy and weirdness of baby girl kicking and shiftingReal fears around maternal care and being heard, especially as minorities in the U.S.And whether a C-section or vaginal delivery changes what the experience “should” beWe’re keeping it honest because we know the journey to meeting our daughter isn’t just about delivery. It’s about preparation, advocacy, and trust… inside the hospital and inside our home.👣 Let us know your thoughts — Did anything feel suddenly real to you in your pregnancy journey?#PregnancyJourney #BlackParents #DoctorParents #ParentingPodcast #Episode15 #NestingMode #MaternalHealth #WaddleWaddle #HealthyHappyHeard

Now that we’re almost parents, one big question keeps coming up: Should we move closer to family? This one’s messy got a little side-trackedIf you’ve ever wrestled with moving closer to home or felt torn between independence and support, you’ll relate. 💛🍼 What would YOU do? Stay independent or move closer to home? Tell us in the comments!📌 Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and hit the 🔔 for more real parenting convos!#newparents #FamilySupport #ParentingJourney #ShouldWeMove #RaisingABaby #MomLife #DadLife #ParentingDecisions #CloseToFamily #HonestParenting #ParentingTalks #ModernFamilyLife #FamilyFirst

In this episode, we talk about all the weird, wonderful, and surprisingly smooth parts of pregnancy so far. From food cravings to energy boosts, this might actually be the calm before the storm. Or is it? 👀Let’s chat about the belly pop, the emotional reset, and whether this trimester really deserves its golden reputation.💬 Let us know if your second trimester was bliss or bogus—we want to hear it all.👇 Hit that like & subscribe for more weekly chaos, honesty, and a few flying cows.#PregnancyJourney #SecondTrimester #PregnancyPodcast #FirstTimeMom #PregnancyLife #MomToBe #BabyOnTheWay #PregnancyGlow #TrimesterTalk #PregnancyRealness #HonestMotherhood

Let’s be real—most guys don’t think of baby showers as their kind of party. But after going to one, we gotta admit… it was actually a ton of fun. In this episode, we’re talking about what went down, why we’re glad we showed up, and how baby showers aren’t just about cute gifts and tiny socks (though there was some solid food and hilarious games). If you’ve ever thought, “Do guys really go to these things?”—this one's for you. 🍼🎉 #DadTalk #BabyShowerRealness #GuyPerspective #PodcastLife #NewDadEnergy

Every hero needs a villain… and every villain deserves love too. ❤️ As parents, we believe in supporting our daughter no matter what—even if she’s embracing her “bad guy” side. In this video, we share why we’re proud of her, the journey of acceptance, and how we’re redefining what it means to be “good.” Because at the end of the day, love is unconditional, even for the most mischievous of masterminds. 🖤✨ #ParentingLife #ProudVillainParents #RaisingKids #DarkSideApproved #SupportiveParents #ParentingHumor