When You Feel Nervous, Use This Trick To Look Confident

Join our 5000+ members at Charisma University today:https://bit.ly/3rDv37V6 Psychological Tricks To Command Respect Instantly:https://youtu.be/RgkghUvC6PASubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had a friend say something we don’t like.  Whether it’s a passive aggressive comment or a playful insult that goes too far, it can be tough to know how to respond.So in this video we’re going to cover three ways to handle it when a friend crosses the line and you want to stand up for yourself without starting a fight.We’ll start by breaking down a few examples with Jonah Hill.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - #1: Fire back an insult yourself.1:45 - #2: Draw a boundary.5:00 - #3: Turn it into friendly banter.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 6000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3T8ngKGHow To Create An Attractive Voice:https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNo matter who you are, we’ve all been nervous before. And sometimes your nervousness can get in the way of making a good impression or connecting with someone you like.But being nervous doesn’t have to ruin an interaction. There are ways to be incredibly charismatic, even if you’re nervous. That’s what we’ll be learning in today’s video on Tom Hiddleston.Now I’m not saying Tom is always nervous, but he’s a great person to learn this from. He’s incredibly likeable despite showing some telltale signs of nervousness in interviews. Like filler words, fidgeting, and blushing.Despite those habits, Tom is considered extremely charismatic, humble, and charming.So in this video we’ll break down 5 easy tricks you can learn from Tom to come off as charismatic even when you’re nervous.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:16 - #1: Anchor a positive first impression2:13 - #2: Use a one second cliffhanger pause4:05 - #3: Keep your voice confident using pace and timbre4:55 - #4: Fully commit7:27 - #5: Focus on having fun rather than looking cool-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHiddleston #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3Nys4rA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe Witcher’s Geralt of Rivia is a man of few words, but despite that the is an absolute Beast, and we see that not just through his swordsmanship, but through Henry Cavill’s commanding physical portrayal of Geralt. That’s why in this video we’ll be breaking down 4 body language tips that you can use to instantly make your body language come across as more confident.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:25 - #1: Geralt has slow, languid movements.2:27 - #2: Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others.3:55 - #3: Confident people can afford to handicap themselves.7:07 - #4: Geralt is extremely non-reactive.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#TheWitcher #Geralt #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3VpDBhPSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation1:59 - #2: Assume good intent3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3fzzHSeSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeLove him or hate him, it’s undeniable that Conor McGregor’s charisma made him incredibly popular, with 5 of the top 6 pay-per-views in MMA history.So in this video we’ll break down some common patterns from his most savage moments, why they made him so popular, and even how you can adapt some of the psychology into your own life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - #1: Conor's unshakeable confidence6:13 - #2: His ability to use humor to his advantage10:24 - #3: He can back up his trash talk10:57 - #4: Conor is always respectful after the fight12:17 - #5: He asks for what he wants-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ConorMcGregor #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.0:00 - Intro0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending1:00 - The context3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame6:20 - It can get worse...7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo Editing:SkyeAndre RingkjoebHenry Houpert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why We Love People Who Hurt UsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThis is a video on why we love people who hurt us! Just what is it that makes someone love you and not someone else and what does it make you love that person back as opposed to every other person in the world? On the channel, we talked a lot about the general things that you can do from a charisma perspective like eye contact, tonality, and body language that make you more attractive to people generally and I'll throw up a video on body language of attraction right there. But that doesn't answer the question of why you tend to have a specific blueprint for the type of person that you are interested in. And it doesn't answer the question why you might fall so hard for someone and your friends cannot see what it's all about or vice versa — your friends fall hard for particular individuals and you don't get it. So in this video, what I want to do is explore your individual blueprint — why is it that you like the people that you like and why is it the people who like you are drawn to you? And I hope not just to get you this blueprint but an entire new realm of thought awareness and development that you can step into because I've found this to be very profound in my own life 01:01 Love and attraction are involuntary01:37 They remind you of your childhood caretaker10:01 Charlie gives tips on how to explore thisConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is contains the most important thing I have learned in the last year. https://goo.gl/QL2tCL For some of you, I’m sure it will be the most important video I have ever done. In order to do it justice I need to tell you some personal stuff about what has been going on in my life.It occurred as much of life biggest learnings do, when things went wrong. Specifically, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We loved each other and still do, but we had very very different ideas of how we wanted to live our liveAt first, I felt like a zombie. And then I felt sad. And then I bawled my eyes out.I started looking for ways to feel better after the breakup with my girlfriend and I came across something I hadn't expected: love and self-love. In short, this video is about self love, what it is, and why you need to work on it. Here are the three actions steps as discussed in the video1. Interrupt the negative pattern with eye scrambling2. Feed yourself self love3. Extend that love to the person you least want to extend it toSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertSnapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With AnyoneDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Eytv4T How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation: https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=QXiAPiw7vfcOne of the most common questions I get is how do I start a conversation in this situation or that situation. And so what I thought would be helpful is to give you 3 simple ways to start a conversation (aka conversation starters) that you can use anywhere. You don't need to be a genius, they’re super versatile and I use them pretty much every day. 0:44 Being a human Google is one of the conversation starters and openers 3:27 Being a human Twitter to develop how to start a conversation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStoryWatch the full podcast episode here:👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAgMost people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.__________________0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster9:22 The Power of the False Ending13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story__________________Subscribe to Charisma On Command:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices