“I Have Regrets After My Parents Passed” | Ask Dr. Betters
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “I'm praying for my health problems from last 10 years, before that I was Hindu. I accepted Jesus in 2010, but still, I'm not getting healing. I'm feeling like I have to live like this & losing hope recently. Last year my mother passed away due to the wrong surgery. 6 months before her death I went to India to take care of her. First, my husband said no, but I convinced him, fought with him that I will return in 40 days. He agreed. When I went to India, I was in severe depression, anxiety, I have a loss of appetite for 18 yrs. I lost sleep for 20 days. Then when I went there, my mom is in bed, but walking slowly. Worrying for pennies, so many times I told her not to worry about money, because over the last 10 years we are taking care of her. Paying for tests, tickets to the USA, and medicines, check ups. We are ready to pay so much money, but she became like a penny pincher. I got angry in India; it was 100f temperature and she used to turn off the fan. I got angry and had hatred towards her. She used to do that when she came to the USA. I told her not to do it. She shouted at me for wasting dollars. I was really heartbroken. And I insisted to take traditional medicine in India. I thought she will recover fast; they suggested a restricted diet -- after her death, I came to know that she hated that diet. I'm thinking I'm the reason for everything, that because of me she got weaker, due to that she was hospitalized, they did the wrong surgery, and when I came back also, she shouted on that day, so I showed hate. Now I'm in terrible guilt. I know God forgives but still not able to come out. She did a lot of good to me and my sister, but I acted like that. Everyone praises me for how much care I took, but I feel terrible & she lost faith in God before death, now I'm questioning whether she is in heaven or not. How do I know? All of these questions are killing me.”Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world. Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!To discover more episodes of Ask Dr. Betters and explore everything MARKINC has to offer, visit helpandhopenow.org. You can also download the FREE mobile app, Help and Hope, by following this link - https://subsplash.com/markincministries/app - or by searching for Help and Hope in your mobile app store.Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so they are better equipped to persevere by faith. https://anchoredvirtual.com/Be sure to connect with us on social media! We have this hope (Jesus) as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure… Hebrews 6:19Send us Fan MailSupport the show
