S6E10: Making Friends with Fear

Fear isn’t the enemy. It’s the invitation.In this episode, we dive deep into the truth that business growth doesn’t have to feel hard, heavy, or endlessly self-sacrificing. This is a conversation about devotion, not discipline; about tending to your inner world as carefully as you grow your outer success.Together, we explore:The difference between business strategy and soul-tendingWhy success and growth don’t have to feel hardHow to meet fear, procrastination, and perfectionism with compassion (not shame)The power of somatic and body-based tools over mindset work aloneWhy trauma-informed, safe practices are essential in self-help and businessThe magic of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) for emotional regulation and energy flowThe need for well-resourced role models—and what it means to become oneResources Mentioned:The Tapping Solution and Gary Craig for quality EFT guidanceMy custom GPT tool, Unapologetic, for personalized tapping scripts and emotional supportTrauma-informed self-practice masterclass + workbook (details in the episode)If this episode resonates with you, please leave a rating and review. It truly helps more rebels, disruptors, and heart-led entrepreneurs find this work.And explore Unapologetic to start creating your own ritual of fearless self-devotion.UNAPOLOGETIC is a one-of-a-kind coach in your pocket that catches you mid-spiral and whispers, “Hey, you can stop now.” It’s not another mindset pep-talk - it’s nervous-system rehab for rebel entrepreneurs who’ve forgotten how to rest.Head to the page here for more. UNAPOLOGETIC is a customGPT + energetic toolkit to help you uncover and alchemise the fears keeping your voice small so you can stop performing and start pulsing with power. Access your visibility fear coach in your pocket 24/7 on demand. Even better - right now, she's pre-order pricing for 50% off until October 31st!Get UNAPOLOGETIC -> Visibility fear to Visibility FREEDOM baby! ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Analena Fuchs is an Intuitive Human Design & Gene Keys Guide and creator of the Intuitive Human Design Teacher Training Certification. She helps conscious leaders stop people-pleasing and step into their power using her unique holistic Human Design approach. As host of the True Sidereal Summit and a 3+ year podcast veteran, Analena is a leading voice in the human design space, teaching practitioners to read charts as complete stories rather than isolated elements.In this two-part, truth-talking conversation, Kylie Patchett and Queen of True Sidereal Human Design Analena Fuchs crack open Human Design as a system of sovereignty and self-trust.Analena shares her journey from corporate burnout to intuitive coach, the golden thread that led her to Human Design, and the moment she realised she was never meant to fit into anyone else’s formula. Together they explore how trusting your design becomes a permission slip to do business your way.You’ll hear:How to stop using your chart as a cage and start using it as a compassThe difference between tropical and True Sidereal Human Design (and why it’s blowing minds)Why self-trust is the real strategyThe liberation that happens when you drop the “one right way” narrativeThe link between the 64 Gates, the Gene Keys, and your unique genius codesWhy your body knows before your brain doesPart 1: Analena’s personal awakening, her transition from corporate to coaching, and how Human Design gave her language for her multi-passionate magic.Part 2: The True Sidereal shift, breaking free from old paradigms, and what it really means to live your design in the new era. Also mentioned in this episode:Analena’s Intuitive Human Design and Gene Key CertificationVideo – How to Grab Your True Sidereal Chart using the Midpoint Calculations of Athen Chimenti and Genetic Matrix Connect with Analena: @analenafuchs ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Analena Fuchs is an Intuitive Human Design & Gene Keys Guide and creator of the Intuitive Human Design Teacher Training Certification. She helps conscious leaders stop people-pleasing and step into their power using her unique holistic Human Design approach. As host of the True Sidereal Summit and a 3+ year podcast veteran, Analena is a leading voice in the human design space, teaching practitioners to read charts as complete stories rather than isolated elements.In this two-part, truth-talking conversation, Kylie Patchett and Queen of True Sidereal Human Design Analena Fuchs crack open Human Design as a system of sovereignty and self-trust.Analena shares her journey from corporate burnout to intuitive coach, the golden thread that led her to Human Design, and the moment she realised she was never meant to fit into anyone else’s formula. Together they explore how trusting your design becomes a permission slip to do business your way.You’ll hear:How to stop using your chart as a cage and start using it as a compassThe difference between tropical and True Sidereal Human Design (and why it’s blowing minds)Why self-trust is the real strategyThe liberation that happens when you drop the “one right way” narrativeThe link between the 64 Gates, the Gene Keys, and your unique genius codesWhy your body knows before your brain doesPart 1: Analena’s personal awakening, her transition from corporate to coaching, and how Human Design gave her language for her multi-passionate magic.Part 2: The True Sidereal shift, breaking free from old paradigms, and what it really means to live your design in the new era. Also mentioned in this episode:Analena’s Intuitive Human Design and Gene Key CertificationVideo – How to Grab Your True Sidereal Chart using the Midpoint Calculations of Athen Chimenti and Genetic Matrix Connect with Analena: @analenafuchs ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

The biggest voice + visibility blocks for entrepreneurs won’t be fixed by strategy - not when, underneath the surface, you don’t yet feel safe to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded just for being you.This 3-part series is for the creative, artistic, rebel, revolutionary, and paradigm-shifting entrepreneurs who know they’re here to disrupt the rules and do big heart-led work in the world - but keep getting tripped up by invisible patterns that silence their truth, dull their magic, and shrink their impact.The Anti-Entrepreneurs system was first designed in 2015 as a way of naming these learned limitation patterns through the lens of chakras, Five Element Theory and Traditional Chinese Medicine and Human Behaviour Coaching and released in my second book Making Friends with Fear: An Entrepreneur's Guide to Overcoming Fear of Failure, Fear of Being Seen and Other BS Business BeliefsToday, it has evolved with an added layer of Human Design for voice + visibility - and layered into a framework that shows you not only the fears that hijack your business, but also the Freedom Frequencies available when you reclaim your truth.These archetypes aren’t who you are. They’re who you learned to be to stay safe. Which means you can unlearn them - and hand the mic back to your unapologetic, wild woman self, so you’re free to build the impact, influence, and income that’s truly available when your business is soul-fuelled, sustainable, and aligned with your unique design, flow, and energetics.🔥 Part three of a three-part series. We close with the final four Anti-Entrepreneurs:Wannapreneur – waiting for “one day” instead of today.Clingpreneur – gripping control instead of flowing.Overpreneur – over-giving and burning out.Lackpreneur – running on survival mode and pressure.You’ll hear how these blocks show up in especially rebel, creative, artistic paradigm-shifting entrepreneurs - and why every single one can be flipped into freedom and the keys to your sustainable, soul-fuelled queendom.🔸 WHAT'S NEXT🔸 🔥 Inside ROAR Live (On Demand) you’ll get the full toolkit: four simple, yet powerful somatic practices to regulate your nervous system, a deep dive into your unique Freedom Frequency, and a clear path to leaning into the learned limitations as a way of self-reclamation and liberation.💥 Plus, you’ll see how Human Design overlays onto this system — so your voice, visibility, and vibration are anchored in your true energetic blueprint, not someone else’s formula.Start here:👉 Grab ROAR Live (Instant Access, On Demand) for $33👉 Do the Anti Entrepreneur Quiz👉 Join Kylie's 12 month long immersion into Voice, Visibility and Vibration for Rebel Entrepreneurs REVOLUTION Roar• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide.• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here.🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologeti ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

The biggest voice + visibility blocks for entrepreneurs won’t be fixed by strategy - not when, underneath the surface, you don’t yet feel safe to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded just for being you.This 3-part series is for the creative, artistic, rebel, revolutionary, and paradigm-shifting entrepreneurs who know they’re here to disrupt the rules and do big heart-led work in the world - but keep getting tripped up by invisible patterns that silence their truth, dull their magic, and shrink their impact.The Anti-Entrepreneurs system was first designed in 2015 as a way of naming these learned limitation patterns through the lens of chakras, Five Element Theory and Traditional Chinese Medicine and Human Behaviour Coaching and released in my second book Making Friends with Fear: An Entrepreneur's Guide to Overcoming Fear of Failure, Fear of Being Seen and Other BS Business BeliefsToday, it has evolved with an added layer of Human Design for voice + visibility - and layered into a framework that shows you not only the fears that hijack your business, but also the Freedom Frequencies available when you reclaim your truth.These archetypes aren’t who you are. They’re who you learned to be to stay safe. Which means you can unlearn them - and hand the mic back to your unapologetic, wild woman self, so you’re free to build the impact, influence, and income that’s truly available when your business is soul-fuelled, sustainable, and aligned with your unique design, flow, and energetics.🔥 Part two of a three-part series.- Meet the first five Anti-Entrepreneurs in action:- Dreampreneur - always dreaming, never moving.- Shinepreneur – chasing shiny objects instead of her own truth.- Perfectpreneur – polished into silence.- Blurpreneur – shapeshifting until she loses her essence.- Comparapreneur – forever coming up short.You’ll see how these patterns sabotage creative, rebellious entrepreneurs and keep their voices muted.Invitation to take the quiz: kyliepatcher.com/quiz🔸 WHAT'S NEXT🔸 🔥 Inside ROAR Live (On Demand) you’ll get the full toolkit: four simple, yet powerful somatic practices to regulate your nervous system, a deep dive into your unique Freedom Frequency, and a clear path to leaning into the learned limitations as a way of self-reclamation and liberation.💥 Plus, you’ll see how Human Design overlays onto this system — so your voice, visibility, and vibration are anchored in your true energetic blueprint, not someone else’s formula.Start here:👉 Grab ROAR Live (Instant Access, On Demand) for $33: www.kyliepatchett.com/roar-live 👉 Do the Anti Entrepreneur Quiz: www.kyliepatchett.com/quiz 👉 Join Kylie's 12 month long immersion into Voice, Visibility and Vibration for Rebel Entrepreneurs REVOLUTION Roar: www.kyliepatchett.com/revolution • Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/gspot• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/phoenix🛒 Explore the store: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

The biggest voice + visibility blocks for entrepreneurs won’t be fixed by strategy - not when, underneath the surface, you don’t yet feel safe to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded just for being you.This 3-part series is for the creative, artistic, rebel, revolutionary, and paradigm-shifting entrepreneurs who know they’re here to disrupt the rules and do big heart-led work in the world - but keep getting tripped up by invisible patterns that silence their truth, dull their magic, and shrink their impact.The Anti-Entrepreneurs system was first designed in 2015 as a way of naming these learned limitation patterns through the lens of chakras, Five Element Theory and Traditional Chinese Medicine and Human Behaviour Coaching and released in my second book Making Friends with Fear: An Entrepreneur's Guide to Overcoming Fear of Failure, Fear of Being Seen and Other BS Business BeliefsToday, it has evolved with an added layer of Human Design for voice + visibility - and layered into a framework that shows you not only the fears that hijack your business, but also the Freedom Frequencies available when you reclaim your truth.These archetypes aren’t who you are. They’re who you learned to be to stay safe. Which means you can unlearn them - and hand the mic back to your unapologetic, wild woman self, so you’re free to build the impact, influence, and income that’s truly available when your business is soul-fuelled, sustainable, and aligned with your unique design, flow, and energetics.🔥 Part one of a three-part series.We set the stage with the fear frames - how visibility blocks get wired into your system, why strategy can’t solve what fear is driving, and the key to knowing when your wild woman is in charge versus when fear has taken the wheel.WHAT'S NEXT 🔥 Inside ROAR Live (On Demand) you’ll get the full toolkit: four simple, yet powerful somatic practices to regulate your nervous system, a deep dive into your unique Freedom Frequency, and a clear path to leaning into the learned limitations as a way of self-reclamation and liberation.💥 Plus, you’ll see how Human Design overlays onto this system — so your voice, visibility, and vibration are anchored in your true energetic blueprint, not someone else’s formula.Start here:👉 Grab ROAR Live (Instant Access, On Demand) for $33 👉 Do the Anti Entrepreneur Quiz👉 Join Kylie's 12 month long immersion into Voice, Visibility and Vibration for Rebel Entrepreneurs REVOLUTION Roar• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide.• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here.🛒 Explore the store: Packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Feeling unseen? Stuck in hustle and struggle? Wondering why your business still feels harder than it should?This conversation isn’t about your polished “origin story.” It’s about the raw, soul-deep why that fuels everything you do — the reason you give a fuck, the reason clients feel you, and the reason your work matters.I share the moment my own why cracked wide open — from a childhood of hypervigilance, to a womb-healing session that rewove my DNA in golden threads, to finally seeing that my true work is helping people feel deeply, unapologetically seen.Inside you’ll hear:Why “origin stories” don’t cut it (and what lands instead)How childhood patterns sneak into your visibility + businessThe real reason clients choose YOU (spoiler: it’s not strategy)Why formulas + comparison keep you invisibleHow unleashing your unapologetic voice changes everything — your business, your relationships, your sense of selfThis one’s for the rebels who are done hiding and ready to be unstoppable.🦁 ROAR Live Invite If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR Live: Voice + Visibility Reclamation.Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks.📅 September 23–25 (replays included).🎟️ Grab your seat here: www.kyliepatchett.com/roar-liveBecause silence isn’t safety. It’s a cage. And the world needs your unapologetic ROAR. 🦁🔥 ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Ever felt like you’re hustling harder than anyone else, overdelivering for clients, undercharging, and still somehow invisible? Welcome to the world of the Overpreneur – my own Achilles heel when it comes to visibility. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of how the Overpreneur fear frame runs the show: Why hustle and overwork are actually massive visibility blocks.How childhood conditioning and good girl proving keep us locked in duty + obligation.The cost of running a business in Overpreneur mode (health, family time, creativity, and cashflow).The moment I realised my first business model was built on burnout.The shift into the Pulsepreneur Freedom Frequency – working from desire, not duty, resting without guilt, and creating only what lights you up. If you’ve been telling yourself “this is just the way it has to be” while secretly drowning in overwork, this episode will hit home. And it’s also your invitation into a new way of doing business – one lit up by joy, play, and your unapologetic magnetism.If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR. Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks. 📅 September 23–25 (replays included). 🎟️ Grab your seat here: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/roar-live• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/gspot• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/phoenix🛒 Explore the store: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

What’s the one comment that would crush you if it landed on your social post, ad, or stage talk? That thing you secretly fear someone will say about you? In this episode, Kylie pulls back the curtain on her own worst-case scenario – being called arrogant and harmful – and shares what happened when those exact words showed up in the middle of her ROAR Live launch. You’ll hear:Why your biggest fear is actually the clue to your deepest visibility blockThe difference between defensiveness, discernment, and integrity check-insHow childhood conditioning (good girl, don’t shine too bright, don’t upset anyone) still shapes your voice todayWhy entrepreneurship is the ultimate self-development crucible (and how to survive it)The choice between letting your scared inner good girl drive the bus vs. letting your wild, unapologetic woman lead If criticism has ever made you shrink, shut down, or want to burn your business to the ground — this episode is your reminder that those fears aren’t the truth of who you are.If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR. Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks. 📅 September 23–25 (replays included). 🎟️ Grab your seat here.• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide.• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here. 🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

✨ Go Deeper with Kylie:🔥 Claim your free seat at MAGNETIC: The Messaging Masterclass🔥 Or join ROAR: The Voice + Visibility Activation for Disruptors, Rebels + RevolutionariesWelcome back, rebels – it’s Season Six and we are turning the volume way up. After a seven-week sabbatical, I’m back with fresh fire, juicier stories, and a whole new lens on visibility and voice.In this kickoff episode, I spill:The truth about my “Overpreneur” Achilles heel (and why hustle addiction nearly broke me).How True Sidereal Human Design flipped my world from Generator to Manifestor – and why that matters for the way I run my business.The evolution of my Making Friends With Fear archetypes into the 9 Visibility Fear Frames – the blocks that keep disruptors and paradigm-shifters small, and how to alchemize them into freedom.Why “good girls do not lead revolutions”… and why unleashing your wild, unapologetic roar is the strategy your business has been waiting for.WHAT'S IN EPISODE 1:  Introduction to the new seasonReflections on taking a break, resting, and tuning into personal needs.Backstory on business, overworking, and the “overpr preneur” archetype.Deep dive into human design, differences between tropical and True Sidereal astrology.Insights from human design about energy centers and personal conditioning.Evolution of the “Making Friends with Fear” book, introduction of visibility block archetypes.How conditioning shapes visibility, voice, and business patterns.Rejecting one-size-fits-all marketing, embracing unique approaches.Layering ancient and modern systems for self-understanding.How to move from fear to freedom, using archetypes for growth.Details about the upcoming ROAR Live event and its purpose.👉 Wanna join ROAR Live (Sept 23–25, $33) and change the way you see your visibility forever? Comment 61 and I’ll send you the link straight to your DMs.🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are.🌟 Connect with me on socials:Instagram → @kyliepatchettstorytellingFacebook → @kyliepatchettonline ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here