The Empathetic Trainer

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to trust life when life breaks your heart?Chris Lombard is back on The Empathetic Trainer, and this time we’re talking about his new book, Warrior Horse: Living and Dying With Animals in a Soulful and Heartfelt Way. I loved this book, but I don’t want to tell you too much about what happens in it. What I will tell you is that it led Chris and me into a really honest conversation about loving animals, losing them, and figuring out how to keep living when they’re gone.We talk about grief, guilt, letting go, the awful second-guessing that can come after a loss, and whether it’s okay to be happy again. We also talk about giving ourselves some of the same grace we so easily give our animals, and about the possibility that sometimes the animal we lose somehow makes room for the one who comes next.And underneath all of it is the question Chris and I keep coming back to: after everything, can we still trust life?https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailWhat if healing isn't about trying harder...but about learning to listen?In this episode, I sit down with equine somatic practitioner Cara Gereau for a thoughtful conversation about trauma, trust, emotions, and the remarkable way horses respond to what we're actually feeling - not what we're trying to hide.Together they explore how our bodies often know the truth before our minds do, why animals can become powerful partners in healing, and what horses have to teach us about authenticity, safety, and connection.Whether you've experienced trauma yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to understand the extraordinary wisdom animals have to offer, this conversation is filled with insight, compassion, and hope.In this episode, we discuss:Why horses respond to our emotional state rather than our storyWhat "somatics" really means and why it mattersTrauma, healing, and the nervous systemHow animals create a sense of safety and connectionThe importance of authenticity—for both people and horsesLessons from a lifetime of living and working alongside animalsAlthough Cara and I come from different backgrounds, I found myself saying, "Yes...I've seen that too." Much of what she shared resonated with my own experiences working with animals. I hope you enjoy our conversation.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailHorse Brain, Human Brain was one of the first books I read when I was trying to understand horses better. So when I had the chance to sit down with its author, Janet Jones, for the podcast, I was pretty excited.Janet is a neuroscientist, horsewoman, and the author of her new book, A Horse's World.We talked about trust, fear, learning, the horse's sensory system, and some of the things horses notice that humans often miss. One thing that really stood out to me was this:Dogs tend to give their trust freely. Horses make us earn it.Whether you live with horses, train them, compete with them, or simply enjoy being around them, I think you'll find plenty to think about in this conversation.I hope you enjoy it.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailToday I’m talking with Toni Mattson of Trinity Equestrian Center in Eau Claire, Wisconsin.Toni and her team work with horses alongside veterans, first responders, youth, and individuals facing trauma, PTSD, dementia, and other life challenges.We talk about what horses notice about people, why they respond so honestly to emotion, and how animals can help people reconnect with hope, trust, and themselves.We also discuss Toni’s book Unlikely Recruits, her work with veterans, and Trinity’s dementia program, “Reminiscing on the Ranch.”A really thoughtful and meaningful conversation.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailWhat happens after the horse reacts?In this conversation, I talk with carriage driving trainer Christine Beattie about how driving changes the way we communicate with a horse — and why it can have such a big impact on the relationship.We talk about ground driving, working horses in real-world environments, and what horses need from us when things feel uncertain.A big part of this conversation comes down to something simple:It’s not whether the horse reacts… it’s what happens next.If you want to better understand your horse — this is a good one.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Empathetic Trainer, I talk with Heather Mishefske of Embark Dog Training School.I’ve spent my whole life with herding dogs. Then I got an Australian Terrier… and realized pretty quickly that my usual way of doing things wasn’t going to work.This little guy has opinions.So I went looking for help, and that’s how I found Heather.We talk about what it’s like to live with dogs in a very human world, and why so many of the struggles we see make more sense when you look at things from the dog’s side.Heather works with dogs and their people every day. What I appreciate most is how she helps people understand the dog in front of them, instead of trying to make every dog fit the same approach.If you’ve ever had a dog that didn’t respond the way you expected… you’ll probably recognize this conversation.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Empathetic Trainer Podcast, I talk with horsewoman and educator Gabi Neurohr about building trust with horses, understanding horse behavior, and creating a true partnership between horse and human.From the moment we started talking, I felt an immediate connection to the way Gabi sees horses. So much of what she said rang true for me and my own experience working with them.We talk about what horses are really trying to tell us, how trust between horse and human is built, and why true leadership with horses is not about control, it's about understanding.At one point in the conversation Gabi said something that stopped me in my tracks:“Every horse is a soul in a non-human body.”That simple sentence really captures the heart of this conversation.If you love horses and care about building a a better relationship with them, I think you'll enjoy this episode.How to reach Gabi - https://www.facebook.com/GNunderstandinghorseshttps://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan Mail“Find a dog that’s going to make you happy.” I sit down with Denise Fenzi to talk about choosing the right dog for your real life — not the one you think you should want. We talk about fit, expectations, training, and working with the dog in front of you.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Empathetic Trainer, I talk with Amelia Thomas about what it really means to listen to animals.We’re not talking about techniques or quick fixes. We’re talking about slowing down, paying attention, and noticing what animals are already showing us—often in very quiet, subtle ways. Amelia shares how listening starts with presence, not interpretation, and how that shift can change the way we relate to animals.If you live or work with animals and have ever felt like there’s more going on than you can put into words, this conversation is for you.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Empathetic Trainer Podcast, Barbara O’Brien talks with Rachel Windchaser, author and equine rewilding coach. Rachel runs Winchaser Ranch in Spain, where she cares for a rare herd of Spanish Mustangs. They talk about what it really means to “rewild” — how slowing down, breathing, and paying attention can change the way we connect with horses and with ourselves. Rachel explains the value of touch, rhythm, and trust, and why real horsemanship starts with self-awareness and kindness.https://www.empathetic-trainer.com/