So Good Sisterhood

How can you become resilient and fruitful after you’ve been crushed? In this episode, Christine Caine shares the keys to a flourishing life.So Good Moments: Why olive trees are a picture of how we can be resilient and fruitful in every season. How God uses the seasons we feel crushed or pressed. Why peacemaking is an essential part of our Christian faith. The reason being nice is one of the most spiritual things you can do. Why we shouldn’t make every offense a “10.” How to flip the script on the “If onlys” in your life. Discussion Questions: What stood out to you about this conversation? What is one new thing you learned about olive trees and how they relate to our spiritual lives? What is a good thing God has pruned from your life so you can bear more fruit? How have you been able to reframe your seasons of being pressed or crushed? Just for fun—olives on pizza—yes or no?Resources: A21Flourishing: Lessons From The Olive TreeShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Scorekeeping is good for games but bad for relationships. In this episode, you will hear how to follow Jesus’ example and show others grace. So Good Moments: How Jesus used a different kind of math.How the upside-down way of the kingdom changes lives.Why keeping track is better than keeping score. How the Apostle Peter encountered Jesus’ grace. What you can do to bring out the best in others. A better way to compete…and more!Discussion Questions: How did Jesus use “a different kind of math?”What is the difference between keeping track and keeping score?How would you feel if you were Peter and encountered God’s grace in such a tangible way? Who has shown you grace in your life? Just for fun—what’s your favorite board game? Resources: Do What Jesus Did MessageJesus The High Road Leader Resources & GroupsPastor Ryan’s Latest MessageShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Jesus was interruptible—are you? In this episode, you will hear why high-road leaders embrace interruptions and put people above agenda.So Good Moments: How Jesus made space for divine interruptions in Scripture. Why ministry is often opportunities dressed up as interruptions. Practical ways to create margin for God to move in your day.Why parents should lean into their children’s “interruptions.” The difference between a “Here I am” leader and a “There you are” leader.What’s really happening when God wants us to stop what we are doing…and more!Discussion Questions: Do you consider yourself interruptible like Jesus? In what way could you improve? When have you experienced a ministry opportunity that was dressed up as an interruption? What stood out to you about being a “There you are” kind of leader? What is one practical way you could schedule more margin in your day or week?What is one thing about you that only a close friend would know? Resources: Do What Jesus Did MessageJesus The High Road Leader Resources & GroupsPastor Ryan’s Latest MessageShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Are you following Jesus’ example and taking the high road? In this episode, Dr. John Maxwell shares principles from his new book. So Good Moments: How to value all people–especially those who are different from you. The difference between the high, middle, and low road. Why the fruit of gratitude is a generous spirit. The difference between keeping score and keeping track. Why we have an eagle and a hippo inside of all of us. Why John changed WWJD to DWJD…and more! Discussion Questions: What stood out to you about this episode? What are some of the characteristics of someone who takes the high road versus someone who takes the middle or low road? How did Jesus lead the way as a high-road leader? What are some ways you can “keep track” instead of keeping score? What is the byproduct when we build walls? Resources: Do What Jesus Did MessageJesus The High Road Leader Book ClubsShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Are you ignoring the warning signs of loneliness? In this episode, you will hear how you can lean into life-giving friendships. So Good Moments: The warning sign of loneliness and why you can’t ignore it.Staggering statistics on loneliness in our country.How we can shift our priorities to value connection and community.Why it’s important to dig through the dirt in our relationships.The barriers to community that we’ve gotten used to. How we can do relationships the Jesus way…and more!Discussion Questions: Did you identify with any of the signs of loneliness? Which one rang a bell?What are some of your personal barriers that make it difficult to lean into deeper friendships?How have you seen the diamonds in your relationships after you’ve dug through the dirt?Who does community and relationships really well, and what can you learn from them? What step will you take this week to value community and connection over convenience and comfort? Resources: AmazingPastor Julie’s Message on LonelinessGroups & ClassesShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

How do you examine the fruit of your relationships? In this episode, Pastor Julie answers questions from the next generation.So Good Moments: How to examine the fruit and foundation of your friendships.What it looks like to grow with God while dating and married. How to pre-decide what you want your dating season to look like. How to initiate (and receive) difficult conversations. Why your circle of friends should be close, but not closed. How to combat loneliness…and more!Discussion Questions: What stood out to you about examining the fruit and root of your friendships? What is one thing you learned about difficult conversations?Pastor Julie mentioned the importance of pre-deciding certain things as you enter into dating. What are some things you think are important to pre-decide?Do you struggle asking for help or are you comfortable being vulnerable? Have you ever had a date gone wrong? What did you learn from it? Resources: Single, Dating, Engaged, Married BookShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

How do you adjust when your routine changes? In this episode, some of our campus pastors share how to make the most of every season.So Good Moments: How Pastor Julie plans out the next day before she goes to bed.What to do when you don’t reach your goals.Why it’s important to create moments and memories with your people.How to maximize seasons that require a lot of time in the car.Why it’s more important to work on your direction instead of perfection.The benefits of reading fiction books…and more!Discussion Questions: What was your biggest takeaway from this episode? What do you do to make the most of your time in the car? What is one of your non-negotiables for your physical health, spiritual life, or mental health?What goals are you aiming for this year? Are they small and attainable or unrealistic?What book are you reading right now? Resources: Luke Study by Lisa HarperMark of The Lion Books by Francine Rivers Switch on Your Brain by Caroline LeafUnderstanding Spiritual Gifts by Sam StormGarden City by John Mark ComerAtomic Habits by James Clear Shownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Are your insecurities keeping you stuck? In this episode, Donna Pisani shares how to embrace the tension of confidence and humility.So Good Moments: The truth about the passage of Scripture that says women should be quiet and submissive. How Donna overcame the lie that she wasn’t smart. How to master the art of listening and ask good questions. Why grit is more important than talent. The importance of discovering your own kind of smart.Encouragement if you are going through a hard time…and more!Discussion Questions: What is something new you learned about the passage in 1 Timothy? Donna talked about how everyone has an insecurity (hers was that she wasn’t smart). What is one insecurity you’ve had to overcome with God’s truth? What are some ways we can master the art of listening? Why is grit more important than talent? Donna talked about finding your own kind of smart and being confident in that. What is your own kind of smart? (Consider what comes naturally to you, what you enjoy, what you feel God’s grace for, where you have a creative touch, or what other people have said about you.)Resources: Donna’s Book: Entrusted to LeadYou’re Not Listening BookGrit Book Shownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Are you entitled or entrusted? In this episode, Donna Pisani shares how you can step into your calling with confidence and humility.So Good Moments: How Jesus empowered women in Scripture.How Donna learned to lead with confidence and humility.Why it’s important to know your ‘why.’The women in the Bible who pioneered our legacy.Why it’s vital to understand context in the Bible…and more!Discussion Questions: What was one thing Donna said that resonated with you? What did you learn about being entrusted versus being entitled?Which woman from Scripture inspires you the most and why?What is one way Jesus empowered women? Just for fun, what is one thing you look forward to most about summer?Resources: Donna’s Book: Entrusted to LeadShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Ever been hurt in Church? In this throwback episode, we’re diving into the messiness and beauty of biblical community.So Good Moments: The difference between Church hurt and spiritual abuse.The importance of creating a space for people to feel safe, seen, and heard. Why we shouldn’t diminish, discount, or deny hurt.The 3 stages of biblical community.3 practices for dealing with Church hurt. How to forgive what you can’t (and shouldn’t) forget…and more!Discussion Questions: What did you learn about the difference between Church hurt and Spiritual abuse?Pastor Julie shared the three stages of community. Why do you think it’s important to embrace the tension stage? How have you had to honor the stages of forgiveness in your life?What is one “do” and one “don’t” that stood out to you?In what way can you be a reconstructor for others and for the Church?Resources: Message: It's Okay to Doubt JesusPractical Resources for Processing DoubtThe Peacemaker by Ken SandeChurch Hurt by Jerome Gay Jr. Love Like You’ve Never Been Hurt by Jentezen FranklinHow to See Beauty in the Church After You’ve Been Hurt How to Find a Christian CounselorTikTok Theology SeriesGood and Beautiful and Kind by Rich VillodasShownotes PlusLearn more about Sisterhood Ask a QuestionAll Episodes© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.