Let’s Get Real with Justin and Trisha Davis

You can love Jesus, have a strong faith, and still carry wounds that need healing. The pain we've experienced doesn't just stay in our past. It can shape how we see ourselves, how we respond to conflict, how we love our spouse, and how we parent our children. And sometimes, the wounds we've learned to live with are the very things keeping us from experiencing the freedom God wants for us. In this episode of Let's Get Real, Justin sits down with pastor and author Dr. Derwin Gray to explore the message behind his new book, It's Time to Heal. Together, they explore what it means to acknowledge our pain, recognize unhealthy patterns, and begin the journey toward emotional and spiritual wholeness. Here's the truth: Healing isn't about pretending the past didn't happen. It's about allowing God to transform how our past affects our present. You don't have to be defined by what happened to you. And you don't have to keep repeating the patterns that have shaped your life. Your past may explain some of your struggles, but it doesn't have to determine your future. Resources: Dr. Derwin Gray's book: It's Time to Heal Learn more about Derwin: https://www.derwinlgray.com Connect with Justin and Trisha: https://justinandtrisha.com If this conversation encourages you, share it with someone who needs to be reminded that healing is possible.

Have you ever wondered why you keep having the same arguments over and over again? The circumstances change, the people change, but somehow you find yourself stuck in the same frustrating patterns. What if the problem isn't that you're experiencing conflict, but that you've never learned how to navigate it in a healthy way? In this episode of Let's Get Real, Justin and Trisha have an honest conversation about conflict, the patterns we inherit from our families, and why some of our biggest relational struggles have less to do with the person we're arguing with and more to do with what we're bringing into the conversation. Drawing from 31 years of marriage, their personal experiences growing up in very different homes, and what they've discovered through their LeadWell Relational Health Assessment, Justin and Trisha explore why so many of us struggle with conflict and how we can begin breaking unhealthy cycles. You don't have to keep repeating the same relational patterns you've lived with for years. Healthy relationships aren't relationships without conflict. They're relationships where we learn to navigate conflict in ways that lead to greater honesty, understanding, and connection. Whether you're married, single, parenting, navigating friendships, or experiencing conflict at work, this conversation will challenge you to look beyond the argument and begin understanding what's happening beneath the surface. Connect with Justin and Trisha: https://justinandtrisha.com

In this episode of Let's Get Real, Justin and Trisha sit down with author, homeschool educator, and mother of seven Jennifer Pepito for an honest conversation about parenting, perfectionism, emotional healing, and learning to trust God with our children. After more than three decades of parenting, Jennifer shares how her understanding of motherhood has evolved through raising seven very different children, navigating an eating disorder in her family, parenting a child with special needs, and confronting her own fears and insecurities. Together, they explore how our family of origin shapes the way we parent, why our children's behavior can become entangled with our identity, and how doing our own emotional and spiritual work can transform the relationships we have with our kids. Whether you're raising toddlers, navigating the teenage years, parenting adult children, or trying to break unhealthy patterns from your own childhood, this conversation is a reminder that parenting isn't a performance. It's an opportunity for God to continue transforming us as we love and lead our children. Because our kids don't need perfect parents. They need parents who are willing to grow, heal, apologize, and trust God with what they cannot control.   Find Jennifer’s Books HERE Follow Jennifer on Instagram HERE

What happens when saying yes to something God has placed on your heart means saying no to things you genuinely love? In this episode of Let's Get Real, Justin and Trisha sit down for their first conversation together in Season 9 to share some significant changes happening in their lives, family, and ministry. Trisha opens up about a dream she walked away from more than 30 years ago, the unexpected journey that led her back to pursuing her counseling license in her 50s, and the fear, insecurity, and imposter syndrome she's had to navigate along the way. Together, they explore the tension of life's transitions, the difficulty of releasing good things to make room for something new, and what it looks like to trust God when you don't know the destination. They also share an important update about their marriage coaching ministry and why they've made the difficult decision to pause coaching for the next 12 months. Whether you're considering a career change, navigating a relationship, pursuing a long-forgotten dream, or simply wondering what's next, this conversation is an invitation to stop waiting for perfect clarity and start trusting God with your next step. Because sometimes the greatest transformation happens not when we arrive at our destination, but through who we become along the way. Connect with Justin and Trisha: https://justinandtrisha.com

We live in a world that has never been more connected—and yet so many of us feel increasingly lonely, divided, and distracted. So what if one of the most powerful ways we could push back against all three was surprisingly simple? Pull up a chair. Be present. Share a table. In this episode of Let’s Get Real, Justin and Trisha sit down with pastor and author Ian Simkins to talk about his new book, Every Table an Altar, and why the ministry of Jesus so often happened around tables. Ian shares how studying the life of Jesus changed the way he thinks about ministry, community, hospitality, and even the purpose of the local church. Rather than viewing the table as simply a place for polite hospitality, Ian challenges us to see ordinary spaces as opportunities to bring a little bit of God's kingdom into the lives of the people right in front of us. Whether your “table” is your dining room, a coffee shop, your workplace, or even the counter of a gas station, this conversation will challenge you to look at the ordinary places of your life through a new kingdom lens.  Ian’s Website: https://iansimkins.com/ Follow Ian on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/iansimkins/ Connect with Ian on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iansimkins1/   Follow Justin and Trish: @justindavis33 | @trishdavis_

What happens when the truth you’re most afraid to tell becomes the very thing God uses to heal your life? In this deeply honest and hope-filled conversation, Justin and Trish sit down with pastor and longtime friend Jenni Wong Clayville to talk about marriage, infidelity, shame, healing, authenticity, and the redemptive power of God. Jenni shares the unbelievable story of how a chance meeting with Justin and Trish at a church conference 18 years ago became the catalyst for confessing an affair to her husband that same night — a moment that changed the trajectory of her marriage, family, and ministry forever. This episode is full of laughter, raw honesty, and powerful reminders that while people may fail us, God never will. If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, disappointed in your story, or afraid to tell the truth, this conversation is for you. Resources:  Check out Jenni’s website HERE Check out Justin and Trish’s marriage resources HERE Pick up a copy of Justin and Trish’s latest book HERE 

What does it really take to build a thriving, lasting marriage—especially when life gets busy, distractions are everywhere, and connection starts to drift? In this episode, Justin and Trish sit down with Dr. Kim Kimberling, a Christian counselor with over 40 years of experience and the founder of Awesome Marriage. Drawing from decades of counseling couples—and his own 55-year marriage—Dr. Kim shares practical wisdom and hope for couples in every season. Together, they unpack why most marriages don’t fall apart overnight, but instead slowly drift through disconnection—and how small, intentional steps can restore intimacy and trust. Links & Resources 🌐 Awesome Marriage 🎧 Awesome Marriage Podcast 📚 Check out Justin and Trish’s Marriage Resources HERE 

Youth sports can be one of the greatest gifts—or one of the deepest sources of pressure and pain—for families today. In this honest and deeply personal conversation, Justin sits down with Brian Smith and Ed Uszynski, co-authors of Away Game, to unpack the reality of the modern youth sports culture—and how it’s shaping not just our kids, but us as parents. With over 50 years of combined experience working with athletes, Brian and Ed pull back the curtain on what they call the “Youth Sports Industrial Complex”—a multi-billion-dollar system that often prioritizes performance over people and pressure over play. This episode is equal parts eye-opening and freeing. You’ll hear real stories of regret, growth, and redemption as Justin reflects on his own parenting journey, including the unintended pressure he placed on his sons. Together, they explore how fear, identity, and parental expectations can quietly take over—and how the gospel invites us into a different way. If you’ve ever felt the tension between wanting the best for your child and wondering if it’s all too much…this conversation is for you. Links and Resources Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports by Brian Smith & Ed Uszynski The Christian Athlete (articles and resources for parents, coaches, and athletes) Athletes in Action (sports ministry organization)

What if the thing you’re struggling with… isn’t your fault? In this powerful and honest conversation, Justin and Trisha sit down with life coach and author Chris Janssen to talk about addiction, perfectionism, and the hidden patterns that keep us stuck. Drawing from her personal journey with alcohol addiction and recovery, Chris shares how shame, guilt, and isolation can quietly take hold—and how grace, truth, and community can lead to lasting freedom. Whether your “thing” is alcohol, overthinking, people-pleasing, or something more private, this episode will help you identify what’s holding you back and give you practical steps to move forward. Links and Resources Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want by Chris Janssen Chris’s Website: https://www.chrisjanssencoaching.com/ Instagram: @chris3janssen Justin & Trisha’s Website: justinandtrisha.com

What happens when the dream you've spent your entire life chasing suddenly disappears? In this episode, Justin and Trisha are joined by their son Isaiah Davis for an honest and moving conversation about identity, loss, and the one choice that set him on an entirely new path. If you're in the middle of a season where you feel stuck, lost, or like you're letting everyone down — this episode is for you. Isaiah Davis is a photographer and videographer based in Nashville, Tennessee. After stepping away from college basketball at Huntington University, he transferred to Lipscomb University where he studied theology and discovered a new calling. He now works with artists, churches, and nonprofits through his creative business. You can find his work on Instagram at @ZayFilmz.. Links & Resources Get One Choice Away from Change Follow Isaiah's work: @ZayFilmz on Instagram Follow Justin & Trisha: justinandtrisha.com Leave a review of One Choice Away from Change on Amazon