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Why We Feel Like Frauds (Even When We’re Not)In this episode of The Unmasked Project, Layla sits down with Vanessa and their friend Oyku to unpack something so many of us secretly struggle with: imposter syndrome.Why do capable, talented people still feel like they’re faking it? Where does that voice of self-doubt come from, and why does it show up right when we’re stepping into something bigger?Together, we explore:• What imposter syndrome actually is• Where these feelings often stem from• How childhood, expectations, and comparison culture play a role• Why high achievers and creatives experience it so often• Practical ways to challenge the inner critic and move forward anywayThrough honest stories, laughter, and real talk, this conversation pulls back the curtain on the fear of being “found out” and reminds us that growth often happens exactly where we feel the most uncomfortable.Oyku Saran is the Co-Founder and Chief Community Officer of Beyond- a vetted app and community for modern relationships. A Turkish immigrant, proud New Yorker, now based in Miami, Oyku channels her own journey of self-discovery as a bisexual woman into building spaces where people can explore love, desire, and connection on their own terms.Beyond connects vetted, open-minded singles and couples through curated IRL experiences and intentional relationship design so they can explore modern relationships on their own terms- from Modern Social mixers to annual retreats at the intersection of wellness, party, and play.Use our affiliate link to join the community: https://beyond.app.link/join/theunmas...If you’ve ever questioned whether you belong in the room, this episode is for you.Oyku Instagram- @cheerswithoyku, @datebeyondVanessa Instagram- @friskyflirtofficial, @vanessaduffyThe Unmasked Project- theunmasked_project

Why We Feel Like Frauds (Even When We’re Not)In this episode of The Unmasked Project, Layla sits down with Vanessa and their friend Oyku to unpack something so many of us secretly struggle with: imposter syndrome.Why do capable, talented people still feel like they’re faking it? Where does that voice of self-doubt come from, and why does it show up right when we’re stepping into something bigger?Together, they explore:• What imposter syndrome actually is• Where these feelings often stem from• How childhood, expectations, and comparison culture play a role• Why high achievers and creatives experience it so often• Practical ways to challenge the inner critic and move forward anywayThrough honest stories, laughter, and real talk, this conversation pulls back the curtain on the fear of being “found out” and reminds us that growth often happens exactly where we feel the most uncomfortable.Oyku Saran is the Co-Founder and Chief Community Officer of Beyond- a vetted app and community for modern relationships. A Turkish immigrant, proud New Yorker, now based in Miami, Oyku channels her own journey of self-discovery as a bisexual woman into building spaces where people can explore love, desire, and connection on their own terms.Beyond connects vetted, open-minded singles and couples through curated IRL experiences and intentional relationship design so they can explore modern relationships on their own terms- from Modern Social mixers to annual retreats at the intersection of wellness, party, and play.Use our affiliate link to join the community: <https://beyond.app.link/join/theunmaskedproject>If you’ve ever questioned whether you belong in the room, this episode is for you.Oyku Instagram- @cheerswithoyku, @datebeyoneVanessa Instagram- @friskyflirtofficial, @vanessaduffyThe Unmasked Project- theunmasked_project

In this episode of The Unmasked Project, Coach Brian sits down with Layla for an honest, no-filter conversation about patterns, growth, and the uncomfortable truths that come with real self-development.They catch up on life, unpack Layla’s history of questionable decisions (we’ve all been there), and dig into a recurring theme: self-sabotage. Why does Layla keep getting in her own way and what is she actually afraid of stepping into?The conversation turns toward a powerful new chapter: Layla’s upcoming participation in Atlas, a leadership program that demands radical honesty, emotional exposure, and the willingness to be deeply uncomfortable in order to grow. This isn’t surface-level mindset work, it’s the kind of inner excavation that changes how you show up in every area of life.They also talk about where Brian’s journey has taken him and what he’s building now, including his podcast Growth Snacks, where he dives deep with gurus, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders on business, growth, and personal evolution.If you’ve ever wondered:Why you repeat the same patternsHow self-sabotage actually shows up in real lifeWhat true vulnerability really requiresOr what it looks like to choose growth even when it’s uncomfortableThis episode is for you.🎙 Guest: Coach Brian🎧 Listen to Brian’s podcast: Growth Snacks Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07WMkOgk7YftShOwADIoab?si=b9c8b75f558f423fhttps://www.youtube.com/@GrowthSnacksInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/growthsnacks?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@growthsnacks.pod?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc🎭 Host: LaylaDon’t forget to like, subscribe, and share and let us know in the comments what part of this conversation hit home for you.

This week on The Unmasked Project, it’s Layla’s turn to step into the hot seat and truly get Unmasked. For the first time, Layla opens up in a raw and honest interview led by Vanessa, aka The Frisky Flirt.Together they dive deep into Layla’s personal journey- from navigating trauma and healing, to her sobriety story, the realities of parenthood, painful friendship breakups, and what it’s really like living in the wild, beautiful world of ethical non-monogamy. This episode is emotional, empowering, and real in a way you’ve never heard before.If you’ve ever struggled with your past, questioned your relationships, explored alternative lifestyles, or searched for healing and growth, this conversation will resonate with you.This is Layla like you’ve never seen her- unfiltered, vulnerable, and fully unmasked.Want to see more of Vanessa?Follow her on Instagram: @friskyflirtofficialDon’t forget to leave a comment, like the episode, and subscribe for more raw conversations about life, healing, relationships, sexuality, and living authentically.

It is time... to meet... MY FREAKING HUSBAND! Meet Cody- we've been together 13 years and he's finally coming out of the shadows. We answered YOUR questions this week and some got a lot wild lol. Here goes nothing. Season 2... Episode 1. :)

Hey yall! Layla here... as the new SOLO HOST! I have been nervous dropping anything myself... but one of my closest friends told me to draw the circle first and perfect as I go. I read listeners unmask to me while I unmask to them. Lets just be real for a fing second...Watch me in real time be vulnerable, imperfect, and raw. Whats a good description for SEO? How do I make this description perfect? Whatever... this is it. Here's my circle. Love you all!

🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla and Brian throw off the last of their filters for the realest episode yet. No guests. No script. Just two co-hosts at a crossroads, confronting their creative and personal tensions head-on.They break down the behind-the-scenes struggles of running a sex-positive show in a platform-hostile algorithm, the burnout from doing it all themselves, and the existential question: is The Masked Swingers still serving their lives—or stalling them?From Layla’s passion for addiction recovery to Brian’s drive for purpose over clout, they explore what it means to evolve publicly, vulnerably, and messily. They don’t have all the answers, but they’ve got the courage to ask the hard questions.Whether you've been here from the first masked mic check or just stumbled into this unfiltered spiral, you're getting the truth.💥 In this episode:Why the podcast’s original mission no longer fitsSex content vs. searchability: fighting the algorithmBrian's pivot toward coaching & high-impact workLayla’s secret side hustle helping addicts—for freeThe real reason they're burned out (spoiler: it’s not each other)Why viral clips don’t convert to real listenersCan this show still evolve, or is it time to part ways?What happens when your creative partner wants out⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Intro: couches, mics, and chaos0:35 – Reflecting on 18 months of podcasting1:20 – How the show started: masks, apps, and pivots2:15 – What’s changed—and why they’re confused4:00 – Podcasting as a business vs. a passion project6:30 – Layla’s tension: wanting to expand, fearing audience backlash9:10 – Brian’s struggle: impact vs. irrelevance12:45 – Burnout, the algorithm, and sex content suppression15:00 – Going viral isn’t enough: lessons from failed traction17:15 – The dark side of self-funded media19:50 – Layla’s addiction recovery work: the unpaid calling23:00 – What value looks like beyond the sex25:40 – Can you be an addict and still help addicts?28:20 – Ethics, imposter syndrome, and monetizing purpose32:10 – Brian on boundaries, value, and not editing sh*t35:40 – Layla on why she won’t do this alone37:30 – Can they still create together—without compromise?40:00 – The end of an era… or just a new chapter?🔗 Links & Love:💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: [email protected]

🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla and Brian are joined by filmmaker and Monogamish TV creator Tracy for a deep dive into how ethical non-monogamy, sex, and power are portrayed—or butchered—by the media.From Fifty Shades of Misrepresentation to secret sex cults, condom taboos, and what Eyes Wide Shut got hilariously wrong, this episode rips the mask off how Hollywood shapes our sex lives. They debate if safe sex can be sexy on screen, why ENM characters are always creeps, and what kind of show would actually represent the lifestyle right.It’s juicy, it's smart, and it’s got just enough conspiracy theory to make you check your HBO history.Whether you're poly-curious or just tired of seeing threesomes used as relationship death rattles—this one’s for you.💥 In this episode:- Why Hollywood loves to get polyamory wrong- Is ethical non-monogamy the new villain trope?- Eyes Wide Shut, Epstein, and secret society sex clubs- Why no one ever uses condoms in movies- Is the media keeping us dumb, horny, and controllable?- The surprising 1969 film that finally got it right- What a show about real lifestyle couples could look like- How Monogamish TV is making space for sexy, responsible storytellingCurious about Monogamish TV?📸 Follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/monogamish.tv🎵 TikTok chaos: https://www.tiktok.com/@monogamish.tv▶️ Catch Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Monogamish_tv⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Burps, intros & finally getting Tracy on the mic0:34 – Representation of ENM in media: why it’s trash1:30 – Polyamory ≠ the death rattle of a relationship3:15 – Where are the hot, healthy, non-monogamous couples in TV?5:45 – Why conflict doesn’t have to mean toxicity7:40 – BDSM, Fifty Shades & the line between fantasy and gaslighting11:35 – Safe sex in media: why condoms are never shown14:20 – Can entertainment and realism coexist in sex scenes?17:50 – Is the media keeping us in sexual cages on purpose?20:30 – How “Eyes Wide Shut” warped play party perceptions24:00 – Was your first poly representation porn? (Same.)26:30 – Is the media scaring us away from ethical sex?30:00 – “Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice”: a 1969 ENM gem34:00 – Cults, self-help, and the origins of personal development38:00 – The Monogamish TV vision: friends, fun, and f**king—ethically42:10 – Why the industry “isn’t ready”—and why that doesn’t matter44:00 – Final thoughts: community, courage, and creating the future🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Products we love: https://www.unmaskedpod.co/products-we-love📸 Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/theunmasked_project🎵 TikTok chaos: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunmaskedproject🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4uOOhjA1H9K5psXdIFBqYz?si=16738043f345462f📧 Send your juicy stories: [email protected]

🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla sits down with visionary director Mercedes Bryce Morgan to pull back the curtain on Bone Lake — the bold erotic‑thriller that’s got audiences simultaneously horny and horrified. What starts as a romantic getaway turns into a psychological nightmare of power, secrets, and deadly desire.The question no one asked but Layla had to: “Would you have sex with your clone?”Get ready for juicy behind‑the‑scenes revelations, taboo talk, and real relationship lessons—because in Bone Lake, what you don’t say will kill you.Final thoughts: permission to explore sexpositivity, taboo, and authentic relationships🎬 In Theaters: October 3, 2025🎟️ Get your tickets here📸 Follow Mercedes Bryce Morgan on IG📸 Follow Bone Lake on IG📸 Follow Bleeker Street Films on IGAbout Bone Lake: A couple’s romantic vacation at a secluded lakeside estate is upended when they are forced to share the mansion with a mysterious and attractive couple. In this darkly hilarious and seductive horror story, a dream getaway spirals into a nightmarish maze of sex, lies, and manipulation, bringing terrifying secrets to light and triggering a bloody battle for survival.⏰ Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Meet Mercedes Bryce Morgan & Bone Lake’s world01:15 – Film breakdown: setup, tone, what to expect03:20 – The opening scene that set Layla reeling05:10 – Bringing sex back into thriller films07:05 – Faking orgasms: why it matters more than we talk about09:10 – Jealousy, envy, and the “wibbles” framework11:15 – Vulnerability: depth, danger, or both?13:00 – Gray areas: when playful becomes uncomfortable14:45 – What happens when you ignore gut feelings16:20 – Pushing for taboo: why audiences crave it18:00 – Tension formula: sex, death, and mystery19:30 – Intimacy coordinators & consent in sex scenes21:15 – Casting choices & fresh faces vs. known talent23:00 – Equal nudity: balancing the gaze24:30 – What Mercedes wants people to take away25:45 – Pleasure politics: masturbation, toys, and space27:20 – Clone question & taboo talk29:00 – Closing reflections on desire, risk, and connection30:10 – How to find your own path in messy relationships31:30 – Outro & where to find Mercedes / Bone Lake info🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: [email protected] on Bone Lake: Directed by Mercedes Bryce MorganStarring Maddie Hasson, Marco Pigossi, Alex Roe, Andra Nechita, Eliane Reis, Clayton SpencerWritten by Joshua FriedlanderProduced by Jason Blumenfeld, Joshua Friedlander, Mickey Liddell, Pete Shilaimon, Jacob Yakob

- -🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla and Brian sit down for their most unfiltered conversation yet—asking each other the racial questions you're not supposed to ask.From creepy location-checking habits to camo fashion debates, bathhouse stereotypes, and whether Black people really don’t f**k with Ouija boards—nothing's off limits. They get personal, cultural, and occasionally controversial (with love).We’re talking washcloth culture wars, base tans gone wrong, ghosts vs. God, and the almighty Swiftie takeover. Oh, and yes—aliens do come up.Whether you're curious, confused, or already canceling us in the comments—this episode is your permission slip to get uncomfortable, get curious, and maybe get a little educated.💥 In this episode:- Location tracking or low-key stalking?- Creepy bathhouse moments and the secret washcloth drawer- Camo, Carhartt, and white people sh*t explained- The swimming stereotype and its painful origins- The cult of Taylor Swift: Is she really all that?- Ghosts, demons & why Black folks won’t play with spirits- The unspoken pressure of representing your race in every room- Cultural myths, spiritual boundaries, and spicy conspiracy theories- Candace Owens: black excellence or black erasure?⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Intro: Who’s creeping with location sharing?2:30 – Bathhouses, vibes, and the towel guy who knew4:00 – Camo culture & why white folks love it so much6:30 – The swimming stereotype: myth or lived reality?10:15 – Why Black people don’t mess with ghosts or Ouija boards13:00 – Taylor Swift: Queen of mid or misunderstood icon?16:50 – Cultural expectations & performing for your people22:00 – Religion, roots & why Jesus beats voodoo in the U.S.27:15 – Spray tans, base burns, and color-coded insecurities32:00 – Aliens, AI & whether Earth is just a reality show37:00 – Candace Owens: Carlton with a mic?44:00 – Final thoughts on representation, race, and owning your voice🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord🌶️ Products we love📸 Follow us on IG🎵 TikTok chaos📧 Send your juicy stories: [email protected]