The Masked Swingers

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian sit down with her husband’s soulmate, Cami from the Double Teamed podcast! They dive deep into the real Poly dynamics of watching you husband fall in love with another person and then support him through the breakup. This beautiful, vulnerable episode is true peace and compersion. Double Teamed Podcast is dedicated to exploring various relationship styles and sexualities, aiming to shed light on these often-taboo topics and foster greater understanding and acceptance among younger generations. Hosts Cami and Niki share candid and heartfelt conversations about their experiences with relationships, dating, and kink. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [11:57] - What attracted you to my husband? [17:30] - Watching my husband fall in love with another person [21:14] - Dating Twins [24:41] - Lessons from my first ENM relationship [27:29] - Why did you end it? [32:55] - How to convert your Vanilla friends [37:16] - A Primary Foundation [40:39] - I helped my husband through his heartbreak [42:13] - What would you do differently in hindsight? [46:00] - Rapid questions ------------ Curious about the Double Teamed Podcast? Listen to Double Teamed Podcast on Spotify Follow Double Teamed on IG Follow Cami on IG Follow Double Teamed Podcast on TT Get Cami's first thought on X ----------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This episode, we’re exposing some of the juiciest secrets from Reddit, and you won’t want to miss it. Inspired by Layla's unforgettable swinger trip that went sideways, we’re giving you all the updates and sharing our reactions to some wild Reddit stories. With an ethical non-monogamy (ENM) lens, we’ll be asking the big question: Is it cheating? We’d love to hear from you, too—comment below with your take! Do you think these stories cross the line, or are they fair game in an open relationship? ---------- Episodes mentioned: Layla’s hot, swinger weekend turned into a nightmare 24 hours Ally from Passport 2 Pleasure episode ---------- Come Say Hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected] ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [02:15] - We keep seeing this girl at raves [04:03] - Layla’s lifestyle break [06:59] - Brian’s lifestyle break [11:05] - Is it Cheating…Facetime [15:23] - Is it Cheating…Anonymous OF [21:06] - Is it Cheating…Bachelorette Party [28:00] - Until Next Time

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are joined (again!) by Michael from The Play LA. He shares not only what it’s like to build a safe community in a space where breakups and jealousy happens, but also getting vulnerable with his own experience dealing with a break up AND coming out as Poly to his family. This is a juicy one! Listen to Michael’s previous episode! As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice is a highly respected authority in the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) space, combining extensive personal experience with a strong background as a leader in the field. Guided by the principles of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry, Michael curates safe and inclusive spaces that foster genuine connections and drive cultural evolution. Michael has curated over 100 events that have become staples in the ENM and polyamorous scenes. His deep understanding of these dynamics, both through his work with The Play and his personal journey, makes him an invaluable resource on all things ENM, polyamory, and beyond. Curious about The Play? Apply here to be a part of the amazing community. Follow The Play on IG. Follow Michael on IG. Come Say Hi! Follow The Masked Swingers on IG. Follow The Masked Swingers on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected] Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [01:11] - A little bit about The Play and community [05:04] - What happens when a couple breaks up?? [06:24] - The distrust in single men [9:36] - Disentangling as a couple [13:01] - Real Poly Shit [21:55] - Is Brian Poly? [23:27] - Jealousy & Reclamation [26:36] - Our worst fear [34:59] - To those who want to embrace their Poly…

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week is a little different. Layla gets vulnerable and shared about her experience at a mini ENM weekend. There are a lot of layers so get ready to dive into the discomfort of jealousy and come out on the other side. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - The Unexpected Call [03:20] - Going to the hospital [8:16] - Trying to connect after a hard day [11:05] - The simmer of annoyance [18:11] - Exploring Jealousy [23:07] - The impact of jealousy [29:15] - Unspoken agreements and communication [32:27] - Is it causing a scene? [38:47] - Navigating insecurity [45:08] - Hard for vulnerability [54:22] - Taking a break ---------- Come say hi! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week is a super special episode! We are joined by the magnificent creative team behind You, Me & Her. Selina and Dan dive into the real story behind this film, finding your sexuality as an adult, and exploring new dynamics within your marriage! You, Me & Her has won over 13 awards in the indie film festival scene including Best Feature Film at the Mexican American Film & Television Awards, and Best Romantic Comedy at the Los Angeles Film Festival!  Set against the backdrop of a serene summer night, this cinematic gem delves into the complexities of a decade-long relationship. Mags (played by Ringel) and Ash (Ritesh Rajan of *Russian Doll* and *Jungle Book*) find themselves in a rut during their first vacation post-baby. Enter Angela (Sydney Park of *The Walking Dead* and *First Love*), a spiritual digital nomad who sparks a new dynamic. The trio's exploration into the idea of a threesome brings unexpected twists and opportunities for reconnection. “What looks to be a raunchy sex comedy eventually turns into something more substantial, as Ringel’s nuanced script finds surprising depth as well as humor in a strained domesticity nearing the breaking point.” - Dennis Harvey, 48 hills Can’t get enough of Selina & Dan? Visit You, Me & Her site Follow You, Me & Her on IG Follow 2 Hands Production on IG Follow Two Hands Production on YT Follow Selina on IG Want more from The Masked Swingers? Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]  Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Welcome Selina & Dan! [02:05] - The Vegas Origin Story [7:44] - The excitement of the fantasy [8:48] - Being honest with yourself and your partner [12:45] - Perfect timing  [14:04] - The Message of the Movie [16:36] - The Pole to Hole ratio [18:33] - Let’s get vulnerable [20:20] - Interactive experience of You, Me & Her [25:43] - Navigating the nuance of ENM & authentic storytelling [30:44] - How not to intro ENM [41:28] - The Debrief

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week we are joined by the beautiful, the hilarious, the sexy Kitana Kisses. We talk about her experience as a trans woman in the lifestyle space, how she played with Brian, the torture party with Layla, dating as a trans woman, and everything in between. We had so much fun chatting with her. Buckle up for the ride of a lifetime. Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introducing Kitana Kisses [06:01] - Unicorn of unicorns [13:17] - Inappropriate experiences [14:50] - Trans fetishization [21:49] - Kitana’s journey [26:17] - The torture party Love Kitana? Find her socials: Check out her IG Her X Her TikTok Come find us! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week, we are joined by the hilarious Mo James! He is a stand-up comedian in the LA area, bringing the conversation and the laughs about the funny, awkward side of ENM. Topics Covered Brian keeps stabbing people with his…red bull can Layla feeling the pressure of playing amidst a lot of changes happening What are acceptable behaviors when it comes to race play? Making ENM relatable in comedy Mo does a live performance Brian & Mo’s BEEF! Where you can find Mo! Timestamps [00:00] - Introduction & Brian tries a new mask[ 04:16] - The unexpected backdoor entry [9:19] - The pressure of playing with ENM friends [20:08] - Mo joins! [21:06] - The race question [24:25] - The rules of Comedy and ENM [30:05] - Toeing the line of relatability and uniqueness [32:37] - The live performance [35:02] - The p*rn star story [37:57] - The beef [42:25] - Embracing the communication of ENM [44:41] - Where you can find Mo Where you can find Mo The Kinky Comedy Show! Next show on August 17th Mo’s site Mo’s IG Come Say Hi! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]

*We apologize for some audio issues in this episode!* Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! We have the angelic, beautiful Dom joining us today! She shares her journey as an Escort. She shares her horror stories, dive into the details of what escorts are, and we put Brian in the hot seat! Topics Covered Breastmilk Kink Pregnancy Kink What drives you to pay for an Escort Listen to your gut Getting started in the industry Vetting potential clients Attraction to clients Brian’s honeymoon massage horror story X hack for finding providers Pricing hypotheticals Come find us! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Join our Discord Email us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! As promised, we are recapping Brian’s first GB! It’s harder than it looks. Resources and Links Missed the original GB episode? You can listen to it here. Come say hi! Join our Discord! Follow us on IG! Follow us on TT! Email us with your questions at [email protected] 

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! This week we have the one and only Ken Feels! You may have seen Ken on your spicy platform of choice, but he shares his journey from creating a sex-positive, educational platform to going full pro in the adult industry, and his ENM journey in the background of all of that.  All about Ken: Check out his Spicy OF Check out his Sex Course OF Follow Ken on IG Follow Ken on X Come say hi! Join our Discord! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at [email protected]