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In this third episode of our five-part series on trauma, Jaime—EMDR and CBT therapist, clinical supervisor, and director of The Online Therapy Clinic—delves into how trauma impacts our nervous system and baseline state of alertness.This episode explores the difference between normal vigilance and trauma-induced hypervigilance, breaking down how the mind and body adapt to prolonged stress and elevated cortisol levels. Jaime breaks down the Window of Tolerance, detailing the mechanisms behind:Hyperarousal: The "stuck on" fight-or-flight state marked by panic, racing thoughts, and high anxiety.Hypoarousal: The "stuck off" freeze state characterized by numbness, brain fog, and dissociation.You will also learn practical grounding exercises designed to widen your window of tolerance and bring your nervous system back to the present moment, including the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory technique and a guided Colour Breathing exercise.Drop and email to [email protected] for any suggestions for the podcast!Or an email to query about therapy to [email protected]📢 Please subscribe, leavea comment, share it!🔗 You can also find uson:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapytoday!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠ The Online Therapy Clinic 🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER& CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational andinformational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mentalhealth advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, oranother qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seekingit because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through amental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency(A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental healthsupport)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support. 

In this second episode of our five-part series on trauma, host Jaime—EMDR and CBT therapist, clinical supervisor, and owner of The Online Therapy Clinic—explores how anxiety and avoidance manifest after frightening or overwhelming experiences.This episode breaks down the physiological side of anxiety, explaining the fight, flight, or freeze response, how adrenaline impacts the body, and why your mind can get stuck in survival mode. You will also learn about the cycle of avoidance, how it temporarily provides relief while shrinking your life, and practical ways to soothe your nervous system—including the ABC technique, personal mantras, and a guided "Leaves on a Stream" imagery practice.📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share it!🔗 You can also find us on:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapytoday!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠ The Online Therapy Clinic 🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER& CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational andinformational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mentalhealth advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, oranother qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seekingit because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through amental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency(A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental healthsupport)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support. 

Hello, and welcome to Episode 1: Understanding Trauma. Inthis Episode, I will explore what trauma is, the symptoms that can follow a traumatic experience, and practical ways to begin developing coping skills.The material in this Episode is provided for educational andinformational purposes only. It is not intended to replace therapy or other professional support.📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share it!🔗 You can also find us on:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapytoday!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠ The Online Therapy Clinic 🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER& CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational andinformational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mentalhealth advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, oranother qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seekingit because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through amental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency(A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental healthsupport)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support.

Stuck in loops of overthinking, worrying about the future, or feeling like you're not good enough? In this video, Jaime (Founder of The Online Therapy Clinic) explores how "tinted glasses" warp your reality and feed negative thought cycles.Learn how Cognitive Defusion helps you create distance from your inner critic, change your internal language, and build self-compassion. 🧠 What You'll Learn:The Tinted Lens: How past experiences or trauma color how you view yourself and the world.The Radio Broadcaster Method: Treat your inner critic like background noise from a "Doom & Gloom" station.Linguistic Shifts: How changing your language creates an instant buffer between you and your brain's input.📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share it!🔗 You can also find us on:📸 Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapy today!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠The Online Therapy Clinic#overthinking #cognitivedefusion #mentalhealth #anxietyrelief #CBT #EMDR #ACTtherapy #mindfulness #selfcompassion #onlinetherapy🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER & CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, or another qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through a mental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency (A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental health support)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬 FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support.

In this episode, CBT and EMDR therapist Jaime explores eight practical skills to help you stop overthinking in real time. If your mind jumps to worst‑case scenarios, replays conversations, or spirals into worry and rumination, this conversation offers clear, compassionate guidance you can use immediately.You’ll learn how to name and tame intrusive thoughts, schedule worry so it stops hijacking your day, use mindfulness imagery to “change the channel,” and bring your attention back to the present moment. Jaime also explains how to shift from unhelpful “why” questions to value‑based action, how to use healthy distraction without avoidance, and when professional support can make a meaningful difference.This episode is designed to help you break mental loops, soothe your nervous system, and reconnect with what truly matters.📢 Please subscribe, leavea comment, share it!🔗 You can also find uson:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapytoday!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠ The Online Therapy Clinic 🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER& CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational andinformational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mentalhealth advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, oranother qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seekingit because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through amental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency(A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental healthsupport)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support.

Today podcast breaks down the four types of overthinking — worry, intrusive thoughts, overplanning, and rumination — and teaches simple, science‑based skills to quiet your mind.You’ll learn why worry keeps your body in stress mode and how Scheduled Worry can retrain your brain to reduce anxiety. For intrusive thoughts, you’ll discover Cognitive Diffusion, a technique that helps you label thoughts instead of fighting them. If you struggle with perfectionism or replaying conversations, you’ll learn how to shift from controlling everything to trusting you can handle discomfort. And for rumination, you’ll learn how to stop dwelling on the past by identifying your values and taking one small action in the present.These tools are practical, compassionate, and easy to start today — helping you break the cycle of overthinking and feel more grounded.📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share it!🔗 You can also find us on:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🌴 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/theonlinetherapyclinic🗓️ You can book #Therapytoday!!👉 ⁠https://theonlinetherapyclinic.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠ The Online Therapy Clinic 🚨 IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER& CRISIS HELP (UK) 🚨The information in this video is for educational andinformational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mentalhealth advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your GP, a licensed therapist, oranother qualified healthcare provider.Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seekingit because of something you heard in this video.If you or someone you know in the UK is going through amental health crisis, please reach out for help immediately. You are not alone.❤️ 🆘 IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY🆘• Call 999 or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency(A&E) if you are at immediate risk of harm. 📞 NHS URGENT ADVICE 📞• Call 111 (Available 24/7 for urgent NHS mental healthsupport)• Call 111 (Select Option 2) if you are in Wales💬FREE, CONFIDENTIAL HELPLINES (24/7) 💬• Call 116 123 to speak with the Samaritans (Or email [email protected])• Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, 24/7 crisis text support.

Welcome back — I’m Jaime, an ERP therapist specializing in CBT and EMDR. This is video 7 in our ongoing series on OCD treatment, and today we’re diving deeper into the cycle that keeps OCD going — and how you can begin to shift it with compassion, clarity, and courage.OCD isn’t just about intrusive thoughts. It’s about how we interpret those thoughts, the meaning we assign to them, and the responses we use to feel better — responses that often bring short-term relief and long-term reinforcement.💬 In this video, we explore:• The full OCD cycle: intrusion → meaning → interpretation → response• Why intrusions can be thoughts, images, sensations, emotions, or urges• How compulsions like checking, washing, avoiding, and mental rituals keep the cycle alive• The role of mental compulsions — including mantras, prayers, and thought replacement — and how they reinforce distress• How ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) helps you face discomfort and build emotional resilience• Why your survival strategies deserve compassion — and how you can begin to let go of them• Reflective exercises to help you identify your patterns and prepare for changeThis is a trauma-informed, strengths-based invitation to understand your OCD more clearly — and to begin responding in ways that support long-term healing. You’re not broken. You’re learning. And your brain can change.🧠 Recovery begins when we stop trying to escape discomfort — and start trusting that we can face it.#OCDRecovery #ERPtherapy #CBTforOCD #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #MentalHealthSupport #OCDCycle #IntrusiveThoughts #Compulsions #MentalCompulsions #TraumaInformedCare #MentalHealthEducation #YouAreNotBroken #OCDAwareness #CompassionateTherapy #FeelToHeal #HealingWithERP #OCDHelp #OCDTreatmentSeries 📢 Please subscribe, leavea comment, share the video!🔗 You can also find uson:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🗓️You can book #Therapy today!!👉 ⁠https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠TheOnline Therapy Clinic

When we talk about OCD, the focus is often on intrusive thoughts. But that’s only part of the picture.In this compassionate, trauma-informed video, I explore the full spectrum of OCD intrusions — including emotions, physical sensations, and urges — and why they matter just as much as thoughts. If you’ve ever felt overwhelming guilt, anxiety, or a strange physical sensation and wondered, “What does this mean?” — you’re not alone.💡 You’ll learn:• Why intrusions aren’t just mental• How guilt, shame, and physical sensations can trigger compulsions• What the OCD cycle looks like beyond thoughts• How ERP applies to emotions, urges, and sensations• Why you’re not broken — and how language can help you healThis is a gentle invitation to reframe your experience and reconnect with your strength. You’re not doing OCD wrong. You’re learning to respond differently — and that’s powerful.🧠 Recovery isn’t about eliminating what you feel — it’s about learning that you’re safe to feel it.#OCDRecovery #ERPtherapy #IntrusiveFeelings #MentalHealthSupport #CBTforOCD #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #SensoryIntrusions #EmotionalIntrusions #OCDHelp #TraumaInformedCare #MentalHealthEducation #YouAreNotBroken #OCDAwareness #CompassionateTherapy #FeelToHeal📢 Please subscribe, leavea comment, share the video!🔗 You can also find uson:📸 Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/⁠🎧Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic⁠🗓️You can book #Therapy today!!👉 ⁠https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/⁠TheOnline Therapy Clinic

If you’ve ever said, “I just want to get rid of these thoughts,” you’re not alone. But what if the thoughts themselves aren’t the real problem?In this video, we unpack one of the most common misconceptions in OCD recovery: the belief that eliminating intrusive thoughts is the goal. Using relatable examples and evidence-based insights from ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention), we explore:🔹 Why pop-up thoughts are automatic🔹 How trying to control your thoughts backfires🔹 The difference between spontaneous vs. response thoughts🔹 What recovery really looks like — and how to get thereThis is a gentle, trauma-informed guide to shifting your relationship with intrusive thoughts. Whether you're navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone who is, this video offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools for change.🧠 Recovery isn’t about thought elimination — it’s about response transformation.#OCDRecovery #ERPtherapy #IntrusiveThoughts #MentalHealthAwareness #CBTforOCD #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ThoughtsAreNotFacts #ExposureResponsePrevention #OCDSupport #MentalHealthEducation #TraumaInformedCare #LetGoOfControl #OCDHelp #MindfulnessForOCD #OCDTherapist📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share the video!🔗 You can also find us on:📺 YouTube: www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theonlinetherapyclinicuk🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0🗓️ You can book an #ERPTherapist today!!👉 https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/Jaime G. MirallesDirector and FounderThe Online Therapy Clinic

The silence ends here. 🗣️Despite an estimated 149 million men worldwide experiencing sexual violence, it remains one of the least discussed topics in mental health and criminal justice. In today’s episode, Jaime breaks down the staggering statistics, the reality of the "freeze" response, and why the system often fails male survivors.Whether you are a survivor, a friend, or a professional, this video is designed to validate your experience and provide a clear path toward healing. 🤝📍 What We Cover Today:The Data: Why reporting rates in the UK and US are dangerously low. 📉The Myth vs. Reality: 63% of perpetrators are not strangers—they are people known to the victim.The System: Why only 2.7% of recorded rapes in the UK result in charges and how to navigate the justice system.The Physical Toll: Understanding the link between trauma, chronic pain, and sexual dysfunction. 🩹The Path Forward: How Trauma-Focused CBT and EMDR can help you reclaim your life.🕒 Timestamps for Support:0:00 - Breaking the Silence on Male Rape1:12 - UK & US Statistics: The Scale of the Issue2:45 - Why Men Don’t Report (Shame & Systemic Bias)4:15 - Identifying the Perpetrators: Shattering Stereotypes6:02 - Normalizing the "Freeze" Response 🧠7:50 - The Impact: PTSD, Chronic Pain, and Health9:30 - How to Find Compassionate Help & Therapy📢 Please subscribe, leave a comment, share the video!🔗 You can also find us on:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.online.therapy.clinic/🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Xz3zGVxfDLgidN8Vboko0📺 YouTube: www.youtube.com/@The.Online.Therapy.Clinic🗓️ You can book #Therapy today!!👉 https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/The Online Therapy Clinic