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Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/lWf9gAVocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3hcibDOSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeHugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets.  After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HughJackman--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8DvbOne of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCEmilyBluntSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:04 - #1: The false completion technique1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing5:17 - #5: Act out your characters6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #EmilyBlunt #CillianMurphy #Oppenheimer------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Transformed His Charismahttps://goo.gl/uMxcFZ Plus Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2CQkPWS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJumanji 2 is coming out and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson is everywhere. I’m always amazed by how charismatic he is. Fans literally burst into tears when they see him.I started watching videos of him and discovered something that I thought was really, really interesting. The Rock has not always carried himself the way he does today!In his earliest interviews, The Rock is soft spoken, a little monotone, and rarely flashes his trademark smile. To me that makes how charismatic he is now even more amazing! After digging into it a bit I learned that even Dwayne Johnson's first stint in the WWF was a flop. He was promoted as a good guy that fans were supposed to get behind, but he did not make a good first impression and the crowd booed him relentlessly.And Dwayne Johnson has said he attributes it completely to how he played the character.This is awesome because it means that Dwayne Johnson made a conscious decision to present himself differently, and it led to him becoming insanely popular and beloved by fans.And by looking at clips across time, we can actually break it down and see some of the secret sauce that has gone into his charisma and how to make a good first impression.1:55 3 ways to build anticipation to captivate listeners4:43 How to make a good first impression by answering basic questions in an interesting way (most people don't do this)8:15 How to tell stories that impact people and have them hanging on your words13:36 How to be a loveable leaderConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28YAs soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader:https://bit.ly/006-26-FordMost people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation.0:00 - Intro1:12 - F: Start with humor2:52 - A: Acknowledgements3:41 - R: Relate to the audience7:02 - T: The Takeaway9:13 - S: Your signoff10:00 - Improve your confidence & charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Sousa MarãesDirected by Andre Ringkjeob Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your first audiobook and access to a monthly selection of Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFans love Sherlock Holmes for his ability to notice things that most people ignore. While Sherlock is a fictional character, there are ways you can learn to read people in real life to better understand what they’re thinking and feeling without them saying a word. No individual read will be foolproof, but together they can start to paint a picture for you.  ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:56 - #1: Reading other people's interest.1:45 - #2: Take note of the direction someone's feet are pointing.3:12 - #3: Read their emotions.3:49 - #4: Look for micro expressions on their face.5:54 - #5: Their breathing shifts from their belly to their chest.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#SherlockHolmes #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Conor McGregor: How To Be Confident Without Being ArrogantGet Our Best Tip To Turning On Confidence In Just 60 Seconds:https://goo.gl/AiIEjJConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes in the world. He displayed that confidence in his flawless victory over Eddie Alvarez in UFC 205. But even though Conor McGregor's confidence is one of the best traits you can have, arrogance is one of the worst. And the line between the two can be blurry. Some people are worried that if they become confident, they’ll cross the line into arrogance - or that even if they don’t other people will perceive their new confidence as arrogance.In this video I want to help distinguish between true confidence and arrogant bravado0:52 Don't talk if you can't back it up1:01 Confidence is a statement while arrogance is a scream2:55 Achieving more doesn't mean you're better than other people4:05 Arrogance doesn't share the credit of success5:04 Confidence is secure because it's based on reality Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCWalterWhiteSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeBreaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect.While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation.And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:29 - #1: Adjust your body language2:18 - #2: Speak slowly and uses pauses3:12 - #3: Build stoic courage5:23 - #4: Be irreplaceable--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#WalterWhite #BreakingBad #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices