AP 624: Our trip to California, school and childcare changes, interior design on my mind, a business shift and update, four fun things I’m loving lately || Messy Middle September 2024

Is there something that has made you think other people can do that, but not me? This episode is part of a monthly series to convince you otherwise. These episodes feature real people who are answering the question “How do you…?” about their various passions and pursuits. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this coaching call I'm talking with Jessica, a supermom from Oregon who’s not just juggling two boys but also balancing a demanding full-time job and a plethora of household responsibilities. We dived deep into discussing how she can carve out those essential moments of 'me time' amidst her busy schedule. From the simplicity of a morning walk to setting realistic and supportive daily goals, we explored lots of practical advice and heartfelt insights. Jessica opened up about the challenges she faces in trying to balance work and home life, and we came up with some actionable steps to ensure she gets the self-care she needs. We talked about anchoring habits, finding joy in small achievements, and even the power of celebrating little victories. Join us for a mix of encouragement, actionable tips, and genuine, heartwarming moments. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This story is a bit vulnerable, but the lesson I learned felt important enough to share. If you've been a listener for a little while you're likely familiar with all of the work I've done over the years to detach my identity from my physical appearance, so that's what makes what I'm sharing that much weirder. My experience was a total eye-opener that confidence is a mindset, NOT a number. I realized that how I feel about myself has way more to do with my attitude than my weight. And let me tell you, it's been a game-changer. I hope this serves as a refreshing reminder to you, because I know I needed it, too. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's conversation with Julie Rose, we delved into her journey as a radio journalist and podcast host, discussing how she tackles challenging topics and leans into uncomfortable conversations. Julie shared valuable strategies on how to approach discussions around contentious issues with curiosity and empathy, rather than resorting to debates or trying to persuade. We explored the importance of setting intentions, maintaining emotional awareness, and focusing on understanding the person rather than winning an argument. Julie also provided practical tips for initiating and navigating these conversations in a way that builds deeper relationships and mutual understanding. This episode is packed with actionable advice for anyone looking to improve their communication skills, especially in difficult or sensitive conversations. The last time Julie and I chatted! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off and Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is my second year of having my garden, and I've been struggling with this morning glory infestation that I thought I had under control at the end of last year. It's like no matter what I do, it just keeps coming back. It's a constant battle, and it's got me thinking about how similar it is to our struggle with self-care. Sometimes, we neglect our own needs, thinking we can push through. But just like the morning glory, those neglected needs can eventually overwhelm us. It's a reminder that self-care isn't a luxury, it's a necessity. Even small steps, like taking a few minutes for yourself each day, can make a big difference. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I dive into the four habits that are helping me show up in my life right now. These are the practices that keep me going amidst the busy fall season. Even though some of them aren't my favorite, they've made a significant difference in my daily routine and overall well-being. I believe that small changes in our day-to-day life can lead to big improvements over time. Whether it's about managing morning routines or finding joy in biking with my toddler, these habits are about making life more manageable and enjoyable. Let me show you how to implement helpful habits in your busy life, too! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of steps has helped to keep me afloat and feeling like myself. As always, I encourage you to get messy, too! Links mentioned: Steam canner Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm thrilled to air my return to Amber Brueseke's podcast and delve deep into the world of habits. We revisit our initial conversation from years ago and explore how our approaches and evolutions have shaped our current perspectives. Specifically, we unpack why habits often feel like a ball and chain, redefine what habits really are, and discuss how to create supportive habits that align with your true self. Whether you're struggling with where to begin, overwhelmed by a heavy mental load, or just wanting to build a life you don't need to escape from, this episode offers practical insights and actionable steps to help you transform your daily routines. Listen in, and let's discover how to make habits work for you, not the other way around! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bonus episode, I’m excited to share something from my private, premium podcast, More Personal, usually reserved for the Supporters Club. In this Casual Convo, I’m joined by Taylor, my longtime podcast manager, for an honest discussion about aging—where we stand personally and how far we're willing to go in preventing or masking it. When it comes to this unfiltered conversation you may be nodding right along, or some things may surprise you, but I think you'll enjoy it. If you want to hear more content like this, consider joining the Supporters Club to access More Personal and other exclusive benefits. Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of struggling in silence, join me as I get real with Erica Djossa about the deep-rooted struggles that so many of us face in our journey through motherhood. Erica opens up about her personal experiences and the common threads she has identified through her work with women, both personally and professionally. We delve into the invisible burdens mothers carry, the societal expectations placed upon them, and the pervasive ideology of intensive mothering. Erica shares invaluable insights on how moms can start to dismantle these pressures, redefine their roles, and reclaim their time. Whether you're a new mom or a seasoned parent, this conversation is sure to offer empathy, understanding, and actionable steps towards finding fulfillment in motherhood. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices