Episode 229: Nontoxic Masculinity

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers.