5 Tips to be a Better Listener

In this episode of the No Pills Podcast, host Gordon McGhee responds to the viral claim that "women are choosing to be single" and addresses comments targeting single men like "Tyler".  @KayceeCutts  McGhee tackles the controversial statement that women are happier alone and actively seeking partners less often than men, which is reportedly backed by academic research. He questions the underlying motivations, suggesting that "enhanced personal well-being and autonomy" often sounds like selfishness, and relationships are meant to be a selfless act.Key Discussion Points:Fact-Checking the Single Rate: McGhee fact-checks the claim that 52% of American women are single, providing 2022 data that puts the actual figure for women 18 and older at 42%.The "Harassment" Debate: He directly challenges the statement that men approaching women online are "constantly chasing us and harassing us". McGhee argues that if a woman is not interested, even a "hello" can be perceived as harassment, and encourages men to avoid women who view any advance as a "headache".The "Need" for Men: The episode dives into the argument that women no longer need men for "financial security, shelter, protection, and even basic rights". McGhee questions what happened to love, companionship, and the biblical desire not to be alone, referencing Genesis 2:18.Blaming Men vs. Feminism: He pushes back on the claim that men "went left" and "started making us have our own careers" , arguing that the changes are largely the byproduct of "second, third wave feminism" and detrimental social and economic systems.The True Meaning of Love: Gordon McGhee shares his personal experience as a widower, speaking about a love that was not based on money or superficial standards, encouraging listeners to seek that "No Pills" love.🙏 A Message to Single Men: "May God grant you discernment to be able to quickly... obtain an understanding when you're dealing with this sort of woman who would take any advancement from you... as harassment".Don't forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more truth from The No Pills Podcast!➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

In this episode of the No Pillz Podcast, host Gordon McGhee responds to a Christian wife whose husband's relentless work schedule and spending habits have created a crisis in their marriage, leading to a lack of intimacy and communication. She reveals her husband, Husband Working Too Much a law enforcement officer who also does private security , works almost constantly, with their last date being five years ago. They've had sex only four times in the past year, despite her efforts to be supportive and even losing 40 pounds.Gordon McGhee addresses the wife's desperation and offers hard-hitting, biblical advice for couples struggling with workaholism, lack of connection, and sexual frustration.Key Discussion Points:The Danger of Workaholism: Discussing the "rich fool" parable, Gordon stresses that wealth and financial freedom aren't worth sacrificing time with your spouse and children, as tomorrow is not promised.The Marriage Bed: Citing 1 Corinthians 7:5, Gordon emphasizes the scriptural responsibility of a married couple not to "defraud" one another of sexual intimacy, highlighting that four times a year is unhealthy and opens the door to temptation.Communication Breakdown: Addressing the husband's refusal to talk about "intense" or even "light" subjects, Gordon asserts that communication is the vital key to a successful marriage, and a partner's selfishness is no excuse.Seeking Help: Advice is given to get clear answers on potential issues like cheating, porn addiction, or erectile dysfunction and to consider involving a trusted, balanced third party or counselor to avoid settling for miseryDon't settle for misery in your marriage! If you are in a similar situation, whether as the struggling wife or the workaholic husband, this video offers a direct and faith-focused perspective.Scripture Reference: 1 Corinthians 13:3-8 and 1 Corinthians 7:5.Host: Gordon McGhee Podcast: No Pillz Podcast - Love Fully ScriptedContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

On this episode of the No Pillz Podcast, we're talking about the extreme measures people are taking to find love!Host dives into the wild story of Lisa Catalano, a 41-year-old single woman from California who has gained attention by renting multiple billboards on Highway 101 and buying taxi ads to find a husband.Lisa, who launched the website MaryLisa.com , outlines her lifestyle and non-negotiables, seeking a partner aged 35 to 45 who is committed to marriage and shares her values. She started her search after disappointing experiences with dating appsThe host reacts to Lisa's very public and "self-funded" effort, which includes handing out flyers and business cards , and even filling out an application on her website to apply to be her husbandWe're going through all the fast facts about Lisa, including her age, height, non-practicing Catholic views, love for wine, and her goal to have marriage and kids within the next two to three yearsBut the question is: Is this bold, or is it desperate? Would you go to these lengths to find "the one," and what does this say about the current state of dating for people in their late 30s and 40s? Let us know what you think in the comments!Key Topics Discussed:41-year-old Lisa Catalano's billboard campaign for a husband Dating App frustrations The MaryLisa.com "husband application" The struggle of dating in your 40s Is it bold or desperate?➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Long Distance Relationships: Stats, Success, & Secrets to Making LDRs Work | No Pillz Podcast EP93 Gordon McGheeLong Distance Relationships: Stats, Success, & Secrets to Making LDRs Work Are you in a **long distance relationship, thinking about one, or accidentally stumbled into one? Gordon McGhee of the No Pillz Podcast dives deep into the realities, challenges, and surprising success rates of LDRs!We look at key **long distance relationship statistics** for the US, including those for college students and even **married couples** living apart (3.75 million!). The research might shock you, as some studies show LDRs can be just as strong, or even stronger, than geographically close relationships, often leading to better communication and emotional intimacyKey topics discussed in this episode:Concerns with LDRsThe Paradox of Distance:The Biggest Challenge:6 Keys to Making an LDR Work:What are your thoughts on long distance? Let us know in the comments below!Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Welcome back to The No Pills Podcast! I'm Gordon McGee, and today we're discussing genuine self-improvement based on the owner's manual—the Bible. If you aren't healthy and aligned with God, your relationships won't be either. We look at five key biblical principles for continuous personal growth and success in love, communication, and faithfulness.Repentance and a Renewed MindAbiding in Christ and His WordCultivating the Fruit of the SpiritHumility and a Servant's HeartPerseverance and Faithfulness➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

In this episode 91 of The No Pills Podcast, host Gordon McGhee shares five essential tips to become a better listener and improve your communication skills. This goes beyond just hearing words; it's about actively engaging with others to build stronger relationships in all areas of your life—at home, at work, in church, and even in your spiritual walk.Gordon highlights the importance of active listening, which is the cornerstone of all good communication. He breaks down the five key principles for effective listening.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Ep 90➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 In this episode of the No Pills Podcast, host Gordon McGee shares 12 powerful, Bible-based principles for building, maintaining, and restoring trust in any relationship. Drawing from passages like 1 Corinthians 13 and Ephesians 4, this episode provides actionable advice to help you cultivate true love and a lasting bond. **In this episode, you’ll learn:**The Foundation of Trust:** Why putting God first is the central principle from which all other principles flow, as God is loveThe Power of Communication:** Learn to speak the truth with kindness , communicate openly, and take accountability for your actions, especially regarding finances.**The Importance of Character:** Discover why trust is rooted in the character of each individual and how to overcome unfavorable traits.**Forgiveness and Humility:** Understand the divine nature of forgiveness and why practicing it daily, along with humility, is crucial for rebuilding trust.***Actionable Steps:** Learn to be a person of your word by letting your "yays be yays" and "nos be nos" , avoid deceitful talk , and lay down selfishness for the good of your partner[.This is a continuous process that requires consistent effort from both partners, and these tips are designed to help you achieve a stronger, more trusting relationship. ➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Breaking up with someone you love is one of the hardest things in the world, and it's a topic that's on a lot of people's minds. In this episode of the No Pillz Podcast, Gordon McGhee tackles this difficult subject from a godly perspective, offering guidance for navigating a breakup with wisdom, compassion, and a focus on your spiritual well-being.He explores the reasons for ending a relationship, such as incompatibility, differing life paths, and unhealthy dynamics. While the Bible doesn't have a specific chapter on breaking up, it provides timeless principles to guide you through this emotional time, centered on seeking Godly wisdom, prioritizing your spiritual health, and acting with love and kindness.Gordon also addresses the tricky question of whether to remain friends with an ex, outlining the pros and cons and offering key questions to ask yourself before making a decision. He emphasizes that healing often requires distance and that it's okay to prioritize your own emotional health.This video is for anyone navigating a difficult breakup who wants to approach it with honesty, integrity, and faith.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Ep 88 How to Get Over a Breakup: A Christian's Guide to Healing & ForgivenessIn this episode of the No Pillz Podcast, Love Fully Scripted host Gordon McGhee shares a Christian perspective on how to get over a breakup.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

In this episode of The No Pills podcast, host Gordon McGhee shares his personal list of red flags and indicators to help men avoid a "Jezebel" and find a suitable life partner. This is not an exhaustive list but offers a quick filtering system for men who want to avoid the wrong person. McGhee emphasizes that a lot of this advice is common sense for a "God-fearing man"➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!