Your Partner’s Addiction

Has your partner said they want to change their substance use or behavior, but hasn't taken action on it yet? Today I'll talk about a common mistake you may be making when it comes to supporting your partner's journey. Support the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

It's not your fault that you've experienced trauma in your life - or in this relationship. But you may be holding yourself back from healing from that trauma with the way you're thinking about it. In today's episode, you'll learn:The difference between experiencing trauma and identifying with itA simple exercise to see what's actually going on in your relationship, and...Build the skill of listening your inner voiceMentioned in this episode:Follow me on Threads!Podcast episode: I'm Done Talking About AbuseClick here from your phone to text me for more info about the Your Partner's Addiction ProgramSupport the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

Have you ever felted forced to set a boundary or make a decision you didn’t want to make about your relationship because of your partner’s addiction?Today I’m going to share a client story to illustrate how this could be creating a lot of pain in your life. You’ll learn how your brain is holding you hostage, what to do instead.Mentioned in today’s episode:The Freedom of Choice in Addiction The Your Partner’s Addiction coaching programSupport the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

In today's episode I'll explore how this one little phrase, "But, I love them" can become an excuse for you to give up the things you truly want in a relationship and in life. To register for this weekend's Create Your Boundaries workshop, text "workshop" to 971-257-1615 or click here: https://www.karilynivers.com/workshopSupport the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

Have you ever found yourself questioning if the problems in your relationship stem from you or your partner's actions? I share a story about a client who grappled with her husband's marijuana use, and how it affected their relationship. Throughout this episode, we discuss how to reframe the "is it me or them" question to focus on both partners' roles and the importance of setting healthy boundaries to maintain a genuine connection.To learn more about the Create Your Boundaries workshop, click here: karilynivers.com/workshopSupport the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

Today I'm answering your questions! We cover:Dealing with unpredictable behaviorLetting go when it's no longer good for youNot letting your life revolve around your partnerEncouraging your partner to be "productive"Is their addiction really worth the negatives?Support the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

Overwhelm is your brain's shut off valve. Helpful if you're trying to conserve energy, but not helpful if your relationship sucks and you need to do something about it. In today's episode you'll learn:Common thoughts that create overwhelmA simple shift to move into actionSupport the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

This week I interview special guest Dorothy Johnson, who specializes in helping people get over their ex. Tune in to learn WHY you're actually struggling to get over your ex, and how you can finally do it for good - then build a life that is bigger and better than the one you thought you'd have with them. Support the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

In planning for my maternity leave (early 2023), I've brought on an AMAZING guest coach to serve the Your Partner's Addiction group coaching program while I'm recovering and adjusting to life as a new mom. In this episode you'll meet your guest coach and find out exactly why I chose her as the perfect fit to coach you while I'm away. Support the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.

Being self aware is what makes us human - it's what makes us different than all the other creatures of the earth. So it makes sense that building our self awareness is a main goal of life. In this episode, I'll share the Four Stages of Awareness so you can see where you are right now regarding your partner's addiction - and understand the FULL experience of what life can be like. For more information and the full show notes, visit karilynivers.com/podcast/s2e31Support the showReady to implement what you're learning from the podcast? Click here to join the Your Partner's Addiction program.