i changed my mind, fashion edition

recently, i've been struggling with the urge to self-sabotage - to mess everything up. the causes of this self-destructive mindset can vary. sometimes i can fall into it by accident and this can lead to self-destructive behavior. however, over time i’ve worked hard to manage my urges to self-sabotage. and so today i want to share how i personally handle these phases of my life when i'm feeling the pull to self-sabotage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

when it comes to fashion, i change my mind all the time. one day i might love something, and a year later, i might absolutely despise it. on the other hand, i might hate something and say, 'i will never ever wear that,' only to give it a try two years later. so today, i thought it'd be fun to share how my fashion preferences have changed over the years. i'll talk about things i used to like but now dislike, and things i used to dislike but now like - and we'll discuss why. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

hello and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on and i give you my unprofessional advice. today we're gonna discuss relationship anxiety because, wow, relationships are really anxiety-inducing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

for the last two months, i’ve lived a sort of internet-free life. i can't say fully internet free because i think it would be naive to say that, but i rarely doomscroll anymore. you know what doomscrolling is -  we've all wasted time doing it. it's incredibly hard not to do it, especially when you have social media in your pocket. however, life without doomscrolling is really beautiful and that's why i've created today's episode: things to do instead of doomscrolling. let’s get into it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] today, i’m excited to speak with the multi-talented suki waterhouse - actor, musician, model, and now, new mom! you may know her from the covers of vogue and elle, or her standout role in daisy jones and the six. and tomorrow, she’s releasing a new album called memoir of a sparklemuffin. we’re gonna chat about her music, and how she’s balancing motherhood with her busy career. let’s welcome suki waterhouse! (00:00) Intro (02:15) suki's relationship to her career (04:04) what has been the most fulfilling for you emotionally (13:33) the transition to motherhood (15:37) the impact of having a child (19:22) raising a child (26:09) music for babies (29:06) favorite track on her new album Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

hello and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today’s topic is “getting out of your own way” because we can really be our own worst enemies sometimes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

if you were to look at a list of all my recurring dilemmas, you wouldn't see anything too out of the ordinary. you'd see the choice between a sweet or savory breakfast, going to bed early or late, putting gas in my car now or later, a lot of mundane shit. and then you'd see, towards the bottom of the list, something a little bit more interesting, a bit more complex, with a bit more nuance: the choice between looking pretty or looking interesting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

hello and welcome back to trendy or timeless, a series here on anything goes where i analyze clothing trends and decide if they're trendy or timeless. trendy meaning, this trend is cute for now, but in a month, we'll all hate it. and timeless meaning, this trend is having a moment right now, but it'll always be cool. today we're doing something a little different though, we're going to focus on 2010's fashion. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

hey guys, my best friend owen thiele - comedian, actor, and now podcast host - is back on the show. we’re having a "sleepover," where we're gonna play a pretty explicit game of "would you rather" and "never have i ever." also, keep an eye out for owen’s new podcast “in your dreams,” coming soon Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

hello and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is breakups and exes. this is a topic i could go on about for hours, and now i get an excuse to do that. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices