How To Create Better Matches and Results with OK Cupid Global Communications Manager, Michael Kaye and Apollonia Ponti

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  Where To Meet High Quality Women (Places You Haven't Heard Before) Do you want to start meeting women differently? But don't know where to find high-quality women? If you've tried of using dating apps and want to start approaching women out in public but don't know where to go to find that high-quality woman, then this is the episode for you. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti discusses unique venues for meeting high-quality women that are often overlooked. Apollonia understands that approaching women out in public can be daunting for men.  But with Apollonia's guidance, she will help you approach women respectfully and maintain engaging conversations. And reveals the secrets to encountering women in these lesser-known locations and explains why women frequent these spots. So, if you want to know the spots high-quality women go to and want help approaching women in person, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode:  2:30 - Brunch show spots. Brunch spots are where women often go in groups with their friends and are great places to interact with women. 3:44 - Kickboxing gyms. Certain kickboxing gyms, often in cities, are very social places where men and women go. 5:28 - You can find high-quality women in lounges. These places are already in a social setting, depending on the lounges; this is where you can interact with many women. 6:00 - Co-working spaces. In some co-working spaces, you can meet many different types of people; these spaces are where you can find potential friends and also a potential partner.  6:46 - Airports. Movies, shows, and hallmark movies always depict woman finding or meeting their true love in airports. In most cases, a woman often fantasizes about meeting their true love in these areas. 7:43 - Homegoods. Women love to decorate and do interior design. This is a place where you can find items for your home and also meet women. 8:09 - Dance classes. You’re in an environment that is not only social but also physical. Dancing can give you the confidence to approach a woman. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  EXACTLY What High-Quality Women Expect On A First Date! Do you want to know what a High-Quality woman looks for on a first date?  Or even impress that high-quality woman?  If you’re struggling to impress or attract a high-quality woman, this is the episode for you. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti offers valuable insights into the expectations of high-quality women on a first date.  Apollonia knows how important first impressions are on the first date and the anxiety men face when they take out the woman they want to build a connection or future relationship with.  However, Apollonia, emphasizes the importance of communication skills, the impact of first impressions, and taking initiative.  With her advice, she can help you, men, take that first step to getting that high-quality woman and becoming that high-quality man yourself.  So, if you're struggling with how to impress that high-quality woman, make long-lasting good impressions on that first date, and see if you're a high-quality man yourself, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode:  1:02 - High-quality woman knows who they are. They want an man who matches their engery and levels them up, Apollonia begans to tell you how to attract these types of woman. 1:50 - Make the first move. A high-value woman likes a man who takes the initiative, takes her on the date, and plans the date. 2:56 - When planning the date, be careful where you take her. Take her somewhere new or unique. Does she like Shushi? Take her there! 3:40 - Keep the conversation light and witty. Engaging in playful banter and teasing can lighten up the mood, creating a light atmosphere for her to open up to you. 5:10 - Chivalry. A high-value woman loves chivalry; she wants a gentleman. Show her your acts of chivalry. 6:31 - Apollonia gives examples of chivalry. 7:12 - Have good communication skills. Communication is key to any connection. Pay attention to how you communicate with her. Showing engagement shows her that you can take the lead and are self-aware. 8:23 - Women are interested in who you are as a person. Ask your meaningful questions, not check off questions from a list. Go with the flow. 9:25 - How you present yourself. A woman wants a man to care for himself, including how he dresses, his hygiene, and how he carries himself. 10:34 - Punatual. Time is precious. Be on the date on time, and she should be on time, too. Apollonia shares a personal story about consistently not showing up on time for her dates and how her husband reacted. 12:44 - Apollonia summarizes the seven things you must do on a first date.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.       https://youtu.be/g9-Def-PZgI?feature=shared

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  How To Start Taking Control Of Your Dating Life And Get More Dates w/ Mark Sing and Apollonia Ponti  Are you at the peak of your career and still struggling to maintain a date? Do you still have trouble approaching women? and asking them out on a date? If this is becoming a problem in your life, then you are in for a special treat. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti and her special guest, Mark Sing, discuss strategies for taking control of your dating life and increasing your success in getting more dates.  Mark Sing is a dating coach specializing in helping ambitious, career-driven men who struggle with dating. With the assistance of Apollonia Ponti, they provide insights into approaching and attracting women without experiencing anxiety or fear of rejection. Mark Sing understands that approaching a woman while trying to be confident can be difficult. But with Apollonia, Mark Sing will give you secret tips and tricks on engaging in meaningful conversations with women, feeling confident in being authentic and taking ownership of your identity as a man. So, if you struggle to ask that woman out and feel the confidence to even ask any woman out, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this special episode:  0:39 - Introduction to Mark Sing. 1:42 - Mark Sings talks about his past relationships and mental health, which inspired him to become a dating coach. 3:33 - Apollonia and Mark talk about the dating world. And how men view the dating world. 4:44 - Mark Sings discusses men’s lack of confidence and frame control and how it is used in men’s lives. 6:22 - What is frame control? Mark Sings talks about controlling the conversation but leading the discussion. 7:18 - The person who is leading is in their masculine role. This is why men need to take leadership in the relationship; Mark Sings explains further why it is. 9:24 - Apollonia explains why it’s also essential for men to step into your feminine. 10:40 - How do you know if you have too much in your masculine? Mark Sings uses examples of why it’s essential to use your masculine and feminine when dating a woman. 12:18 - When it comes to masculinity. It’s when and how to do it. Mark explains further. 13:57 - Apollonia and Mark discuss how men are not taught to find a healthy woman. They talk about how women are trained to find the right man, listing values, but men are never told that. 16:34 - What do you do if you are too much in their feminine? Mark Sings explains how to step out of your feminine. 19:50 - What are the differences between NLP and hypnotherapy? 22:41 - How do you approach a woman and successfully get her on a date when you’re already confident? Get more Mark Sing on:  Podcast: https://link.chtbl.com/sHqkyWpW Website: http://www.CoachMarkSing.com "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  13 Bad Habits EVERY Man Should Break! (This is RUINING Your Chances With Women! What are healthy habits?  Do you have them? How do you know if you have healthy habits in the first place?  If you want to know what bad and good habits a high-quality man possesses, you're in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss 13 detrimental habits that every man should eliminate to improve his chances with women.  She delves into the importance of cultivating positive behaviors before engaging with high-quality women, highlighting how these habits signal readiness for a committed relationship. Apollonia emphasizes the significance of self-commitment, self-improvement, and adopting healthy habits as essential traits of a high-quality man.   So, are you ready to level up, regain those healthy habits, and start finding that high-quality woman? Then this is the podcast for you!  Key points in this episode:  0:40 - The first habit you need to break is porn. Porn addiction can set unrealistic expectations on how a woman should act in bed and how an woman should be aprroach. 1:30 - Pornography can make you miss out on genuine relationships. This is one of the main reasons why many men who suffer from pornography lack a real connection to other people. 2:17 —Social media. Stop wasting your time on social media. Remember that people post the highlights of their lives, so stop comparing yourself and your relationship to others. 3:00 - Challenge yourself to stop going through those social media apps. Apollonia gives habits to do to try not to go on social media. 3:57 —When using social media for long periods, you neglect to take care of yourself. It might be yourself, but your home and your daily duties, you are the only ones who can stop this. 4:49 - Stepping out of your comfort zone. This one is tough. It’s scary to do things that you’re generally not comfortable with. However, when you do, you can possibly meet that high valued woman you always wanted. 5:29 - Polarity is key. Have you ever heard of masculine and feminine energies? Well, Apollonia explains why they are important in daily life. 6:07 - Not having a mind of your own. You need to start living your best life. What do you want in life? Goals? Habits? Sometimes, the people who are your friends can prevent you from reaching those goals.  7:29 - Gaming all day and every day. Yes, playing games can be a great way to destress, but playing all day and all night can prevent you from being your best self. 8:06 - Not investing in your healing and learning. It’s a struggle to tune into your relationships, but before you do that, learn about yourself. What do you want in a woman? Other than physical? 8:42—Negligating your physical health. Not eating right, sleeping, or taking care of your body signals to the woman that you’re not properly taking care of yourself and can not take care of her needs.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  How To Ask A Woman Out And Become Rejection Proof! (5 Lines Included Every Man MUST Try) Do you ever fear to ask a woman out on the spot without trying to sound like a creep?  Or when you do, you always get rejected? So you are stuck there thinking, how do you even approach or talk to a woman without her constantly rejecting you? How do you stop this? If you want to know who to talk a woman and turn those "no" into "yes" in dating, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares expert advice on how to ask a woman out and become rejection-proof, including five essential strategies every man should try.  Apollonia knows the fear that many men face when trying to ask a woman out. She knows men don't want to be seen as creepy or disrespectful when asking a woman out.  However, Apollonia’s practical guidance on how men can approach women respectfully will help men get the woman they want and stop getting rejected. Her insights can shift your perspective on rejection and improve your dating experiences. So, if you're struggling to ask a woman out, keep getting rejected, and want to know how to attract the women you wish, this is the podcast episode for you!  Key points in this episode:  0:51 - How to start asking a woman out and become rejection-proof! 1:05 - What is rejection when dating? It doesn't mean you’re a failure when she doesn’t give you her number, but the fact you approach her and have the courage to talk to her is a stepping stone towards success with women. 2:32 - Dont let rejection stop you from dating. Many men stop trying to ask a woman out simply because of fear of rejection, but this is important to note: not all women will say yes to you, so don't let this stop you from trying to find that high-quality woman.  3:20 - Changing the landscape. Dating apps and social media are places where men don’t have to approach a woman in public to get her number. This is key because when you approach a woman in public, she will remember you. After all, it is not often done.  4:23 - Approaching in different settings. Apollonia will give you two examples: one is talking to a woman online, and the other is approaching her in person.  5:16 - Here’s a dating secret: a woman loves a sincere personality. When you’re talking to a woman, talk about your plans, what you did that day, something funny happened to you? Bring that up!  6:18 - Apollonia gives examples of what not to say to a woman. 6:56 - Mastering the art of asking a woman out is body language. Does she have an open posture? Or a close one? Apollonia will give examples of what to watch for in her body language. 8:48 - Remember success isn’t about the outcome but is the courage to take those first steps. Keep going when asking a woman out, learn from your mistakes, and try again.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024! It’s a new year in 2024. Do you want to find a high-quality woman finally? If you’re left thinking, what makes a high-quality woman? Then you are in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss six essential qualities women should have in 2024.  Apollonia has worked with countless men who have trouble dating women. And sees that most of the time, men have trouble differentiating unavailable and emotionally available women. Apollonia will explore what to anticipate from a high-quality woman, strategies for maintaining a healthy relationship with her, and how to recognize signs of dating an emotionally unavailable woman.  So, if you’re struggling to find a high-quality woman, learn how to start looking for one and attract women who want long-term relationships. This podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode:  0:57 - 6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024.  1:31 - Always look for an emotionally available woman. One of the critical factors is vulnerability; when a woman can be emotionally available to you, it’s a sign that she wants a long-term relationship. 2:39 - A high-value woman knows who to support you through an emotional time. She knows when and how to help you through your emotional struggles. 3:15 - Unspoken agreement of loyalty. This is critical; each person needs to trust and respect each other. 4:54 - No snarky comments. Of course, when a woman is frustrated with her partner, she will make some comments here and there. But not constant. Is she really emotionally available if she’s always talking to other people about you? 5:55 - Without communication, there is no relationship. Communication is complex, and expressing your thoughts and feelings is sometimes difficult. Apollonia will give you essential tips on overcoming a lack of communication. 7:54 - Apollonia will give you critical examples of how to communicate with a woman in a relationship properly. And how she should speak back to you. 8:12 - Intimacy and connection. For a relationship to be healthy, you need to have that emotional and physical connection; both are important, but the emotional side can not be taken for granted.  9:40 - Trust. Trust is everything when dating a high-quality woman; it is slow to build trust but quickly to fall if she sees any potential distrust in the relationship. 10:25 - Be careful when a woman wants to make you HER center of the universe. She should be working toward something or goals she wants, a sense of purpose. It doesn’t mean she needs to be career-driven, but something she is actively working towards. In the end, what you don't want is for her to be overly dependent on you. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  How To Charm A High-Quality Woman! W/ Apollonia Ponti & Husband Alex Cormont Do you sometimes find it challenging to find that one high-valued woman? Do you have trouble maintaining the balance of your own life while dating a woman?  If attracting or keeping a valued woman sounds more of a challenge, then this is the podcast episode for you!  In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti is joined by her husband, Coach Alex Cormont. Together, they discuss the key factors that have contributed to their successful marriage of eight years! Alex Cormont, a renowned love coach and author with numerous publications on love and personal development, has helped over a thousand individuals navigate difficult periods, including overcoming infidelity, boosting self-confidence, and attracting desired partners. Still, most of all, it specializes in strategies for rekindling past relationships.  Under Coach Cormont's and Apollonia's expert advice, they will delve into how they manage their relationship in the public eye of social media and balance their respective careers while providing mutual support. They explore topics such as attracting high-quality partners, maintaining a disciplined mindset, and embracing the value of a partner. These two renowned love coaches will tell you how to maintain a disciplined mindset in their marriage while implementing those in their love life; if you're struggling with keeping the spark in your marriage and maintaining a relationship while maintaining a career, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this special episode:  3:20 - How did Apollonia and Alex meet? 4:37 - Alex talks about why their meeting context was important. Alex, not knowing English very well when he first met Apollonia, explains why it's essential to push through the uncertainties regarding dating. 6:00 - Apollonia talks about how she uses Alex's dating techniques to help inspire her to take these techniques to her guidance when coaching men. 8:04 - Alex dives deep into his past, his relationship with codependency, and how it impacted his dating life. 9:13 - What is a high-value woman? Alex explains his view on a highly valued woman, describing how setting boundaries and having a mature view can help you see if she is a highly valued woman. 10:19 - What can you bring to her life? When dating a highly valued woman, it's essential to ask yourself what you can get for her to help her level up, Alex Cormorts explains further. 11:26 - To charm a highly valued woman to be involved in your life. Apollonia explains the importance of showing her your activities and interests in your life, creating and establishing that bond. 12:45 - Setting your boundaries. Apollonia talks about setting limits in the relationship, remembering how Alex set his boundaries when they were dating, and setting a healthy challenge to know if she was genuinely interested. 14:16 - Alex explains how his ambitions and goals in life help is codenpency. 16:58 - Alex explains his experience dating in the US. He describes how he saw codes or rules you can or can't do when starting to date. 17:34 - Taking her to have coffee on the first date as a deal breaker? Apollonia and Alex explain in detail the importance of first impressions on the first date. 20:55 - How much of a role does social media play in relationships?  Get more Coach Alex Cormont on:  Website; https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Sign up for the 7-Day Free Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  How To Create Sexual Tension With The Women! (3 Lines That You MUST Try!) Do you want to create that sexual tension with her? Do you feel like sometimes you try to but fail at it?  So, Suppose you want to become a pro at fostering excitement and intimacy with your partner. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares invaluable insights on cultivating sexual tension with women. Discover three essential techniques that are a must-try for anyone aiming to master the art of creating a captivating connection.  Apollonia has seen patterns within her clients to spot the one mistake they often make.  Delving into polarity, Apollonia explores the dynamics between feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies embody gentleness and nurturing, while masculine energies encompass leadership and assertiveness. Learning to channel these energies effectively at opportune moments creates a sense of security for women. Apollonia emphasizes the significance of emotional attraction in the pursuit of sexual tension. Apollonia highlights the role of mystery in generating emotional attraction, prompting the woman to contemplate and desire your presence instantly. So, if you're struggling with how to create that sexual tension, tap into your feminine and masculine energies at the right moment, and make her attractive to you, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:32 - Do you want to become a pro and create that exciting sexual tension between you and your woman? 1:05 - To create that sexual tension, you need to have that spark. Unfortunately, Apollonia has seen many men get friendzoned because of the lack of spark. 1:24 - To create that sexual tension is to create an environment where she feels safe. Women often feel skeptical about their surroundings and need that emotional reassurance of handling safely for them to be themselves. 2:00 - Apollonia talks about polarity. She talks about the feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies are areas where you're gentle and nurturing, while masculine energies are leadership and assertiveness. Channeling the energies at the right time can make her feel safe. 3:00 - Rational and emotional attractions. You can not create that sexual tension without emotional attraction; rational attraction is looks or how much money you have. Emotional attraction is desire; mystery makes that, and she will instantly start thinking about you. 4:01 - Apollonia provides examples of what to say to her if you want to attract her emotionally. The Goal here is to be playful about it, banter playfully, and keep that tone light. 4:27 - Be a tease. Ideally, in person, if you two have established that emotional or little sexual tension, you can start touching her hand or her shoulder to know that you are interested. 5:09 - One easy way to keep her on her toes is nicknames. Is she picky about food? Call her Gordon Ramsay! The key here is to keep it light and not offend her. Dont use it constantly. 6:39 - Be playfully disagree with her. It's playful banters like a dog vs cat person or food; it's all about getting to know each other more. And able to flirt at the same time. It is creating that fun memory. 8:00 -  Within that playful banter, throw in body language. When you two are laughing and being comfortable around each other, please give her a smirk, touch her hand and shoulder, and don't go overboard, but show the intent of what you want.  tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!) Do you know if you're an Assertive or Controlling man?  Do you wonder if there is any difference?  If you ever thought that if an woman wants a more assertive or controlling man, you are in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into women's preferences regarding assertive and controlling men. The discussion focuses on six dominant traits that women find appealing, differentiating between assertive and controlling behaviors. Apollonia has seen the behaviors of Assertive and Controlling men. And she sees how women are attracted to assertive men.  But what is an assertive man? Assertive men emphasize the importance of direct yet sensitive communication with their partner. The Assertive man establishes clear boundaries, which he adheres to while respecting those of others. Conversely, the controlling man resorts to manipulative tactics, such as guilt-tripping, to fulfill his desires. This dynamic creates an unhealthy scenario where the partner feels the need to constantly please the controlling individual, often at the expense of neglecting their own needs and desires. If you want to learn the difference and become a man who can attract high-quality women, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:00 - High-value women love assertive men, not controlling ones. Apollonia will explain the difference between being assertive and controlling behaviors in the relationship. 1:26 - The way an assertive man communicates is direct and yet sensitive. At the core of his assertiveness are boundaries that he had set up, and he respects other people's boundaries. 2:23 - Decision-making isn't only for him to make but collaborating with everyone involved. An assertive man communicates his thoughts and feelings while embracing his partners. 3:25 - An Assertive Man respects his partner's independence. He helps her or creates that space of autonomy, gives a sense of security in the relationship, and offers support when his partner needs reassurance. 4:04 - In contrast to Assertive Man, a Controlling Man looks at relationships to exhibit his power and authority. He goes his way or no way. 5:01 - A Controlling Man will manipulate situations. Not only does it erode trust and understanding in the relationship, but it will create an unhealthy dynamic. 6:15 - Emotional manipulation is joint in controlling men. He does it through guilt-tripping to get the things he wants. This creates situations where his partner constantly tries to please him and disregards her needs and wants. This is toxic. 7:14 - There's always a vast difference between awareness and controlling behaviors. An assertive man is what women want and are attracted to. 7:45 - Apollonia explains why an Assertive man is highly sought after in dating. 9:36 - healthy relationships need to have nurture and assertiveness. They need to balance supporting each other while setting boundaries most healthily. tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED) Are you frustrated when a woman rejects you and you're just being nice?  Do you feel like she's drifting away, confusing you because you do everything to make her happy?  If you don't understand why she's not interested when you're just being nice to her, it might be because you might have the Nice Guy syndrome. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into 'Nice Guys' and how men give excessive niceness when expressing romantic interest in a woman, ultimately leading to rejection. Apollonia knows how contradicting it is when a woman rejects you because you're too nice. Should I be nice to her? What does she want? Apollonia explores the underlying reasons nice guys may find themselves at a disadvantage in relationships and offers valuable insights into striking a balance between kindness and assertiveness when pursuing romantic connections. She emphasizes the significance of understanding the concept of polarity in relationships, highlighting the crucial interplay between masculine and feminine energies and offering what you should do as a man if you want her to start attracting you.  So, if you're having trouble attracting her to you, how do you stop being the 'Nice Guy' and start dating the woman you want to be with. Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:31 - Why do nice guys finish last? 1:32 - Being too nice might be the problem. Of course, a woman wants to date a nice guy, but if you keep treating her like one of her girlfriends, it will throw her off. 2:15 - Apollonia will start to explain tips and tricks on balancing being a nice guy and leading with intention when trying to seduce her. 2:40 - Usually, nice guys finish last because they have the wrong attraction ideas. They dont embrace that masculine energy, not taking leadership when it comes to dating. 3:25 - The concept of polarity is important to every relationship. The balance of masculine and feminine energy is essential in the relationship. It's now about dressing 'feminine' or doing 'masculine' activities. It's about the traits. 4:10 - When embracing too much of your feminine energy, you signal that you want to be her friend rather than a potential partner. This is how guys get friend-zoned. 4:33 - It might be because you lack self-confidence in your ability to attract women. You keep her around because the idea of being her friend is better than losing her. You can't expect someone to fall in love with you when you're not being yourself. 5:43 - There should be a balance. Are you a people pleaser? Do you allow people to treat you wrongly? Remember, don't settle for less. 6:30 - Dont date someone because you're lonely. They have some self-worth when dating someone, usually nice guys, who always want to be nice to the woman they're dating because they feel they need extra work to like him. That is not all true. 7:11 - The right woman will be attracted to your self-worth. When she sees you have a healthy relationship with yourself, she sees you can maintain that healthiness in other relationships. 7:51 - Nice guys fear of setting boundaries. It's not bad. It's about giving yourself choices and setting boundaries will help you attract the woman you want to date. And you are not attracting emotionally unavailable women.  tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.