Why I Don’t Use Discipline

Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face.It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son's screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child's unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction.In this Episode:Responding to a toddler's screams with playThe stigma around public outbursts in childrenReflecting on parental reactions to yellingUsing affection to address behavioral issuesHow to use playful interaction as a parenting tool🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach. From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children.In this Episode:• Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear• Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy• How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect• How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships• Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Could your pursuit of a "perfectly" behaved child be disrupting the peace in your home? This episode will unravel the intricate dance between setting boundaries and forging bonds of connection.As parents, we tend to focus on controlling our children's behavior and enforcing consequences when they make mistakes. However, what really matters is creating an environment where our children feel safe to make mistakes without fear. By showing empathy toward our children's behavior, we can establish a foundation of trust that is unbreakable. Today, I have invited Shauna, one of my Instagram followers, to share how loosening the reins of strict parenting has allowed her to build more authentic relationships with her children. We will discuss how to set boundaries without resorting to punishment, but rather through the warmth of connection. You will learn how to turn homework time into a fun activity and how to handle difficult school transitions with compassion. These methods have the potential to transform challenges into opportunities for growth.🔗 Check out my FREE Guide to Play🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are we unwittingly damaging our children by repeating the mistakes of our own upbringing? Today, I'm diving into a question that plagues many of us: Are we ruining our kids? This thought can grip us in moments of frustration and self-doubt. But let me tell you something: You're not alone, and you're definitely not ruining your kids.As parents, we're often held to impossible standards, haunted by our own childhood traumas, and bombarded with societal pressure to be flawless. But here's the truth: It's okay to make mistakes. In fact, it's human. I've been there—I've yelled, lost my cool, and felt like I'm failing. But here's the thing: It's not about being perfect. It's about being willing to grow and change.In this Episode:Embracing imperfection is essential for growthBreaking the cycle of generational traumaCultivating self-compassion in parentingRecognizing the impact of unresolved issuesSeeking help is a courageous step🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Parenting can be challenging, especially in a world that often values achievement and busyness over connection. Have you ever found yourself caught up in the trap of prioritizing tasks over building stronger bonds with your children? It's a common struggle. Today, I have a heartfelt conversation with Erica, a mother who shared her deeply personal experience of transitioning into motherhood through adoption. Her journey highlights the pressures of perfectionism and the impact of her own dysregulation, which many of us can relate to.We talk about the transformative power of prioritizing connection over control and how it has positively impacted Erica's relationship with her daughter. From embracing vulnerability to dealing with guilt and shame, Erica shares her story with honesty and openness and shares the steps she took to create a nurturing and loving environment for her family. I hope her story resonates with you and helps you on your own parenting journey.In this Episode:The challenges of transitioning into motherhoodPressure to be a "perfect" parentThe impact of personal struggles on parentingOvercoming guilt and self-judgment in parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.In this Episode:The struggles of traditional schoolingImportance of validating children's feelingsImpact of generational trauma on parentingNavigating the balance between empathy and worryExploring alternatives to conventional education🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.In this Episode:Strengthening family bonds through bedtime routinesSwitching off parental duties builds connectionsIntegrating "special time" enhances child cooperationAvoiding punishment fosters emotional healthContinuous parenting education promotes improvement🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I'm diving into a recent eye-opening experience with my teenage daughter, Pia. Picture this: it's a typical evening until I receive a text that sends my heart racing. Pia and her friend have taken an Uber to the ice cream shop, leaving me puzzled and anxious. What unfolds next reveals a deeper layer of trust, peer pressure, and the delicate balance of parenting teens.Join me as I navigate the complexities of teenage autonomy, parental trust, and the blurred lines between protection and freedom. We'll uncover the significance of dialogue, understanding, and reevaluating our parenting strategies. How do we balance trust and safety? How can we empower our teens while keeping them grounded? Tune in as we unravel these questions and more because in the world of parenting, every moment is teachable.In this Episode:Navigating trust and peer pressureImportance of open communication with teensBalancing autonomy and parental guidanceUnderstanding the teenage developmental stageReevaluating parenting strategies for teen safety🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Navigating the emotional ebbs and flows of neurodivergent children can feel like sailing uncharted seas. But what if I told you there's a way to foster connection and understanding even in the midst of these turbulences? Today we delve deep into the unique world of parenting neurodivergent children and how prioritizing connection can make all the difference.My guest, Eloise, shares her heartfelt journey of discovering that empathy and genuine connection were the game-changers she needed to guide her neurodivergent son with love and understanding. She talks about embracing play, creating safe spaces, and understanding each child's diverse needs.In this Episode:Eloise's parenting journey in a challenging yearOverwhelming transitions and traumatic eventsDiscovering the transformative power of connective parentingUsing playfulness and connection to manage challenging behaviorsEmbracing connection and building strong relationships🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As parents, we often struggle to balance enforcing rules and maintaining a deep, meaningful connection with our children. It's natural to believe that strict guidelines are necessary for shaping our kids' behavior. However, we may unintentionally undermine the very trust and bond we seek to build with them.I understand how challenging it can be to navigate the complexities of rule-based parenting. Let's explore the underlying motivations driving our rule obsession and how we can cultivate genuine connections with our children. Doing so can foster organic cooperation and instill moral values more effectively than rule enforcement ever could.In this Episode:Rule obsession versus genuine connection.Organic cooperation fosters moral values.Impact of empathy and mutual respect.Breaking free from rule enforcement cycles.Prioritizing relationships over rigid guidelines.🔗 Download my Connection 101 Plan for FREE🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge, starting April 15th: https://peaceandparentingla.com/30day-challenge-newOur Sponsors:* Check out DoneFirst for a special deal: https://get.donefirst.com/PODCAST* Check out http://mylifeinabook.com and use code PEACE at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day.* Get 15% off at www.happymammoth.com by using my code PEACE at checkout* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.* Visit homethreads.com/PEACE today and get a 15% off code for your first order!* Visit www.armoire.style/PEACE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy