Should Love Feel Safe?

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for. I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something else entirely. 

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for. I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something else entirely. 

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"?Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth.“Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life.In today’s episode: What is chemistry? Why it’s essential in every important relationship in your life  When chemistry actually can be a red flag Intensity and passion vs. “calm” in relationship Safety and risk in relationship: no risk, no reward? The ideal conditions for relationship alchemy “But we’re such good buddies! We make such good partners!” Yeah, but are you fucking each other? Ever?The root causes of reproductive issues 

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life: “What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenly y’all are together every day after that.” Yeah. This is how it’s always been for me. I EXPECT big love, big feeling, a whole-hearted, whole-vagina, whole-soul response to someone. Nothing less. Why would I waste my time on anything BUT that? In this episode:  Since I don’t “date” here’s what I do insteadThe morass of modern dating and my advice on how to navigate it Humans vs. superhumansJen Okazaki weighs in (iykyk) When you know you know People who marry for every other reason other than deep passion and what they look like 5, 10, 15 years down the road—I would know because I see them all the time Recognizing soul mates—or at least the people who hold vital learning for you here and now Shakespearean-Romantic-poet-epic-saga-love and nothing less Courage and boldness in love Death by a thousand cuts of cowardice 

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.”Is music to a woman’s ears. And her vagina.IT NEVER GETS OLD. Be a man with a plan.  Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be. I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in today’s episode: Orgasm without ejaculation and sexual mastery earns your woman’s respectOne of the most fantastic examples of a man with a plan. Ever. Men and purpose. Why you need it and how it transforms your masculine self. Turning around a polarity dynamic and seizing the lead as the masculine Self-love is the biggest block you can clear to quantum leap your growthSexual Mastery for Men is open NOW for registration!In my 8-week online signature salon for men, you’ll learn: How to last longer in bedOrgasms without ejaculation How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. Organically grown cock lengthening and strengthening exercises How to lead and occupy your uber masculine and alpha self.And much more. This ultimate Supercock training. Everything you need to Dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life.Sign up now at kimanami.com/stamina 

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: The alpha male. There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”. The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it. In this interview with Ben, our Well-F**ked All Star we also spoke to last week in part 1 of our conversation, he speaks on his journey to define and embody the modern alpha male. In this episode: 9 qualities of the modern alpha male The price of admission to true masculinity Are alpha males born or made?The vulnerable and tender masculineKeeping your woman well-f**ked: an essential alpha male characteristicTHE #1 trait of an alpha maleIf you’re ready to tap into your alpha Supercock energy in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon! In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:Orgasms without ejaculation: every man canHow to last longer in bed and have complete controlHow to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flowOrganically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strengthOrgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasmsOwning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energy. Alphas for everyone. Everything you need to level up in your sexual mastery and dominate in your life!Signup now. 

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure.**The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection: Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential. Bursting at the seams. When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength, we also see this in a cock that limp, lifeless, un-occupied, soft and weak. Like begets like. Strong, sexually aware man = strong, sexually sentient cock. In this episode:Four essential qualities of SupercockWell-F**ked All Star Ben’s journey from Softcock to Supercock Religious upbringing and shame The only acceptable answer is “fuck yes” Is your cock small? Sex week in Puerto Rico and sex on a jetski Occupying your cock Cock worship: “She cannot get enough of my cock” Growing cock. Organically. Orgasms without ejaculation“We can f**k for a couple hours now”Communication during sex Anami Alchemia Sex Nectars and Crystal Elixirs for breakthroughsWhat to do when a woman is in her masculine If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon!In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:Orgasms without ejaculation: every man canHow to last longer in bed and have complete controlHow to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flowOrganically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strengthOrgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasmsOwning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energyEverything you need to dickmatize your woman and dominate in your life!Are you a Supercock? Take the quiz to find outhttps://kimanami.com/stamina

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. The good news? They are all learnable. From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here. My Sexual Mastery for Men 8-week online salon is the ultimate guide to living, loving and f**king in a male body.We cover:Orgasms without ejaculation: every man canHow to last longer in bed and have complete controlOrganically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strengthA penile weight lifting routineOrgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasmsEmbodying your masculine energy to lead in your relationship and your lifeAre you a sexually masterful man? Take the quiz to find out!Go to: kimanami.com/stamina

My vagina makes money. In this episode: How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empireThe relationship that changed everything for me The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money makerWhat the universe wants from you in order to become mega-richEverything you need to master your sexual healing, self-expression and yoni cash manifesting skills is in my Well-F**ked Woman Salon, which is open now and closes for registration tonight! In this 10-week online salon, we cover: How to use your sexual energy to manifest men, money and miracles in your lifeStep-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirtingBreast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breastsHow to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portalsNatural lubrication from the inside outCock whispering tutorials in oral and manual pleasure for him And much more.Go to kimanami.com/wet to register now.