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107 Why You Need to Stop Using Behavior Charts Right Now!

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Oh, the good old behavior chart! Full of promise, hope, and stickers! But we have to tell you it’s not all it’s been made out to be. Sure, behavior charts might help with one or two challenging behaviors, but it does little to teach and change kids behaviors in the long run. There are better and much more effective ways to manage the whining, fighting, talking back, and everything else. 

 

In this episode, we tell you the 3 HUGE reasons behaviors charts don’t work in the long run and the 5 things that WILL work... every time!



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The best mom is a happy mom. To better take care of you, download our No Guilt Mom mindset here .  These reminders will help you second guess less, and feel more confidence every day in your parenting.

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