#58 Expectations vs Standards - get clear on yours and transform your relationships!

"At the end of the day, you're only taking with you what you've enjoyed. So do not forget to enjoy your life. I know that my father lived his life. So even though he died so young.. he was only 62.. he lived his life. He enjoyed, he travelled around the world, he had crazy adventures. He didn't die just saving for his retirement. He didn't die just waiting to spend the points in his credit card, the miles. He didn't die waiting for the trip of his life to happen. He didn't wait. He lived his life."In this solo episode I will share lessons, through stories - a memoir if you will - honouring a life fully lived:- A lesson that literally saved my life (5:22)-The True Power of Small Details (12:16)-How to welcome in MAGIC (15:53)-Life as a Canvas of Artistry (20:19)-Authenticity in Expression (25:24)-Embracing Life for the Joy of Living (30:23)-The Key to Living Liberated and Regret-Free Life (36:55)-What True Community Offers Us (44:51)-Embracing Enjoyment as Life's Ultimate Currency (52:10)-Being a Stand for Your Desires (55:41)As I look back on my father's life and legacy, I am filled with gratitude for the profound impact he had on shaping who I am today. This episode serves as both a homage to his remarkable spirit and an invitation for all of us to incorporate these cherished lessons into our lives. Even though I would have so much more to share about this now that more months have passed since his death, my prayer is that this memoir may serve as a powerful testament to the significance of living authentically, embracing every moment, and standing unwaveringly for what you desire, and give you some powerful reminders to lead you there too.If this Episode or any others within this season spoke to you, I welcome you to check out my upcoming Retreats in Australia (December 2023), Mexico (March 2024) and Egypt (May 2024). These are incredibly powerful immersion experiences for Female Leaders, in paradise. I'd love to share the experience with you! Details:https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"It's such a taboo still nowadays topic in our society, that we don't have the proper education and initiations and guidance into sacred, safe sexuality. Sexuality that's actually pleasure-lead, and not goal-oriented. So when we start having these conversations, it is really important that you ask yourself; if you want to really create a container where your sensual self can come online.. where you can fully allow all of you - the present, expanded, feeling version of you - to be present.. then what do you need?" In this solo episode, I dive into:Sensuality isn't linked to sexuality (2:21)What sensuality really is and how it can transform your life and relationships from the inside out + practices to get started (5:48)Do THIS to connect deeper with your own version of sensuality (11:47)Building true, deep intimacy (13:01)How to + why commit to your pleasure (22:01) Tune in to this episode and start your journey of reconnection with your sensual self, leading to a more vibrant, pleasure-filled, and empowered life.And if you want to dive deeper into this with us IN PERSON, check out our upcoming Retreats in Australia (December 2023), Mexico (March 2024) and Egypt (May 2024). These are incredibly powerful immersion experiences for Female Leaders, in paradise. I'd love to share the experience with you! Details:https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/ Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/ Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/ To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"What I've noticed is my availability to receive men has expanded so deeply. And I was already a pretty orgasmic person.. and that just took it to a whole other level - the amount of pleasure that I feel my body is available for has expanded, the amount of ease that I experience, where I'm not rehearsing life, or fighting life, I can be here now and feel safe in the NOW moment a lot more."In this solo episode, I dive into:My lifelong connection to WATER (4:26)Following the call of the water Priestess to Bali (9:19)My Balinese temple pilgrimage (18:11)The profound realisation that this was a journey of healing my inner waters (24:04)The ancient wisdom of the waters (26:45)The whispers that lead me to Mexico (30:52)Trusting and Embracing the Masculine in a new way (37:27)Releasing the trauma stored deep in my waters (45:20)Expanding the Capacity for Pleasure and Trust (52:42)Clearing Trauma and Creating Space for Choice (54:14)Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"That is surrender. When we let go of thinking "I know better.. I've got the answers. This shouldn't happen the way it's happening. I should rehearse everything before it happens so that I can control the situation".. when we can let go of all of that, and really humble ourselves to the truth, which is, we can't control shit."In this solo episode, I dive into:- Letting go of the desire for control and receiving surrender (2:29)- Accepting the truth: embracing the uncontrollable nature of life (9:11)- Building trust in the natural flow of life (13:38)- Surrender as meeting life fully in the present moment (19:51)Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/#retreatsTo watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"Everything starts within. Leadership.. success.. abundance.. intimacy.. pleasure.. love.. So when our energy is more focused outside of ourselves than within, we cannot truly lead in an embodied authentic, centred, present and grounded way."In this powerful solo episode, I will dive into:True leadership and impact start from within (3:09)Four-step process to overcome comparison and jealousy and reclaim your power (9:56)Step 1 (10:18)Step 2 (15:14)Step 3 (25:01)Step 4 (30:03)Clarify priorities and focus on what truly matters (35:38)

In this solo episode, I dive into:Embracing our radiance and recognising our inherent worthiness (2:29)Understanding the distinct energies of asking like a Priestess and asking like a beggar (6:39)Shedding the energy of unworthiness and density associated with the beggar archetype (13:20)Liberating ourselves from the limitations of victimhood to fully receive (31:07)Developing a priestess-like attitude towards asking and connecting with our desires (33:34) Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/ Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/#retreats To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"My orgasms contribute to humanity. My joy contributes to humanity. My nourishment contributes to humanity. I got to understand that me being in my best, most free, most aligned, most alive expression.. is my offering. Me feeling good is of service to humanity."In this empowering & self-liberating solo episode, I will dive into:The fallacy of self-sacrifice in service to others (8:36)Discovering activities that bring you joy and doing them for the sake of enjoyment (20:15)Recognising the impact of your aliveness on the collective energy field (24:59)Breaking free from the martyrdom mindset and reclaiming true service (26:08)Shifting the energy you send into the world and receiving positive feedback (27:15)Inspiring others through your expression and self-honouring (32:57)Redefining service as prioritising yourself and your well-being (34:23)The profound impact of living, leading, loving, and serving from overflow (38:57)Using your joy and self-expression as a permission slip for others (41:30)

"And it allowed me to have this embodied experience and experience in my body that which allowed me to bypass the story I had been telling you about myself for decades. And in one moment I flipped the script." In this game changing conversation, we drop into:The importance of freeing our bodies to experience true freedom (6:24)The power of embracing our essence and owning our uniqueness (7:24)Tapping into the life force energy within and connecting to something greater (12:59)Choosing to exit the matrix and create our own reality (19:22)Trusting our own wisdom and embracing our truth in each moment (26:10)Creating space in our bodies and releasing projections (37:46)Quitting collapsing into inauthentic versions of ourselves to maintain relationships (39:38)Embracing the full spectrum of life and showing up with dignity (48:13)Living authentically and answering the call of our hearts (53:00)Acknowledging the uneasiness and significance of embracing grief and all emotions ( 56:11)Recognising our innate power and embracing our truth (1:01:51) Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/ Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/#retreats Connect with Alexi:https://www.instagram.com/alexipanos To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ 

"People fall in love DESPITE not BECAUSE.. so I can never be the CAUSE. Meaning that I can never be the cause of someone loving me. And neither can you."In this solo episode, I dive into:The truth about love that set me free (2:00)Dropping deep into acceptance of myself (7:24)Coming into divine union with our truth (14:46)Surrendering to this truth (17:39) Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/ Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/#retreats To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ

"We can try to move forward by learning concepts by telling ourselves a new story by positively affirming what we want. However, yes, we are spirit. Yes, we are mind, but we are also flesh."In this solo episode, I dive into:What is embodiment? (3:36)Understanding the nervous system (7:13)Breaking down trauma (8:59)What is somatic work? (10:51)The body & it's default settings (22:44)Integration is key to long-term, lasting shifts (30:49)Links mentioned in this episode:https://www.sigridtasies.com/innercircle/ Connect with Sigrid:https://www.instagram.com/sigridtasies/https://www.sigridtasies.com/https://www.sigridtasies.com/retreats/#retreats To watch this episode on video, head to:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqNvmiHYFD6q5zqAO5DMbXQ